Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage/Loss August/September 2009

[Jahzara]

SUNNY - THATS FANTASTIC NEWS

Congratulations

xoxoxox

[kyrawolfe]

Sunny -=- im so happy to hear that news! I just know that babys gunna stick for you!
CB-=- Well at least he found a black dot probably ur baby I know how hard it is but try to stay positive hun ((hugs)).. You must be having a girl cuz shes already a drama queen!! seriously tho all my hopes to you for a sticky bundle!
Milly -=- Sorry AF showed up.. shes such a *****! Keep trying, Pg wil happen for you k!
Murphys law is just running a bit late this month..
Hey eliselouise! I dnt know ive never had O pain before but ive heard it can happen.. should prolly ask a doctor tho-- Gud luck tho
zstar-=- Sticky vibes hun and big (hug) Why do our children insist on freaking us out form day one?
Sparkles -=- Im so sorry your feeling down. I have my fingers crossed pg will happen for you soon!! I know what its like to wait soo long that it just feels like it will never happen.. so im sending u lots of virtual hope k
London miss -=- Ive ranted about those same feelings before, i concentrate them mostly on a certain girl i used to be friends with.. Ive already gone into detail many times on here b4, but i def know what it feels like to want to punch somebody >
Sparkles-=- So gud that ur levels are going gr8! Pretty soon ul be back in the sex boat makein a baby! and Had too have a chuckle at your imagination-=- man i really do wish I had the confidence to dance naked in my back yar! But alas, I think Id scare off the neighbours!
AFM -=- I did another test this morning and yes the line is darker again So Im biting my nails to the bone and organiseing a doctors appointment -- Soo hope this is the one!!

[Tanya]

Youare n't 5 weeks tho are you CB you are only 4 weeks! Those levels sound fine to me!!

BFN for me this morning.... *sigh*

[Jahzara]

Youare n't 5 weeks tho are you CB you are only 4 weeks! Those levels sound fine to me!!

BFN for me this morning.... *sigh*

Yes, 4 weeks today but i cant see them getting to over 1000 in a week. I spose its possible but i feel really pessimistic today - sorry

Anyway - i will just keep waiting....

Tanya - i am so sorry you got a BFN - lets hope it turns into a BFP in a few days

xoxox

[kyrawolfe]

dont the levels double every couple of days? By that rule you should be over a 1000 by a week Im sorry ur feeling down! I still have my fingers crossed for you <3

[Jahzara]

Yes Kyra you're right, but the way i feel today - i just cant see it happening.

I'm setting myself up for the worst i guess - then anything better than that will be even sweeter !

[HannahS86]

Chickybabe- I agree with Kyra... that number sounds perfectly normal to me. Even if the numbers took three days to double (since they say it should be every 2-3 days), you'd still be over 1000 by week 5! Try not to be down about it Just enjoy every day that you have with your little bub! Keeping my fingers crossed that this one sticks for you.

Kyra- CONGRATULATIONS!!! So glad to hear the line is getting darker! Praying for a sticky bub!

Sunny- So happy you got to hear your little one's heart beating strong! Hopefully you can breathe a little easier now.

Hello to everyone else! Hope you are all doing well.

AFM- Still using my OPKs. I'll hear back tomorrow about my results. We'll see if the hcg is finally back to zero. Hopefully O time will happen soon!!!

[josh'smum]

Hi ladies,

Sunny: Awesome news. Couldn't be happier for you. I understand your anxiety though. I was exactly the same on Monday. Its almost if you expect the worst then you think you will be able to deal with bad news better. Unfortunately either way bad news would be devastating, so allow yourself to be excited and positive about this one. Congrats on the HB.

Kyra: Congrats on the even darker BFP.

Chickybabe and Z star: Hoping for the best news for both of you. My thoughts are with you both.

Tanya: Sorry about the BFN, hoping your time is just around the corner.

Eliselouise: I never thought that I could feel ovulation pain either, but then one day I guess because I had been monitoring everything so closely I felt it. It is a dull ache on one side only (the pain correlates with the ovary side that is releasing the egg). Hope this helps.

Hi to everyone else.

Cheers
Lisa

ME 32 DH 38
DS 5/1/2007
December 2008 (13 weeks)

[zstar]

sunny - massive news!!!!

chickybabe - hang in there - numbers can double quite easily every day - STAY POSITIVE!!!!

[Anila]

yay sunny, and yay sunny baby, that is so great, im very happy for u hun

kyra yay for u too on the line getting darker

tanya, sorry for the bfn, lets hope its just way to early

4dpo so still early days for me

[India's Mum]

Milly - I don't think 38 sounds bad for a first time Mum at all. I was 41. There was also one other in my group that was 37.

Sunny - Such wonderful news!

Zstar -

Chickybabe - Your figures were still much better than mine. At almost 5 weeks I was only 46 and the first doctor told me I must have had my dates wrong. I don't think 248 is all that low.

AFM - I just feel drained! I wish I could go away somewhere sunny for a few weeks to forget about things.

[milly5]

Milly - I don't think 38 sounds bad for a first time Mum at all. I was 41. There was also one other in my group that was 37.

Thank you Sammy. I'm thinking of you.

Sunny - great news!!!

Chickybabe - thinking of you and as the ladies have said those numbers aren't that bad, so try to stay positive!!

[milly5]

zstar - I had missed your post - how are you doing?

[zstar]

hi girls

i'm going ok. brown stuff has backed off and now its just speckled dots some times. hard to explain. my hcg levels came back yesterday normal. ms is back - not to the fullest but back. the news that emmy83 has m/c has upset me terribly. you have to be so strong and brave in this game. i guess i'm upset and angry but you get on this site and see so many have m/c 1, 2,3, 4, 5 and so on times. everyone shows such massive strength. i have a client who is having her 2nd in 2 weeks and still heavily smoking and then there is everyone on here that is taking the best care of themselves they possibly can and no baby. i'm emotional and angry. i just want you all to know that we must keep going, stay strong and lean on eachother, this will all be worth it when we have our own babies to love and care for. some of us are going to have to fight harder than most to get the end result. I know i have been through nothing compared to a lot of you on here. you all give me strength. i feel better after that blah blah blah. i hope everyone has a good day.

[India's Mum]

Zstar - so pleased to hear you are doing better. I felt as though I was holding my breathe for you. I know what you mean about seeing pregnant women smoke. When I see it I literally have to put my hand over my mouth and walk away because I feel like screaming at them.

AFM - The bleeding seems to have almost stopped. I don't want to talk to my doctor now as I know she will tell me to wait a cycle before I try again but I don't want to - it didn't prevent me miscarrying a second time which was the whole point behind it. I feel very angry today.

[milly5]

glad your doing OK zstar, and blah blah blah away.

Sammy - sending you huge cyberhugs.
I know what you mean about seeing pg women smoke. My key trigger is seeing "skanky ferral" (to steal someone elses words) people swear and yell at their children.

[kyrawolfe]

is it true you have to wait a cycle if you have a chem pregnancy mc?? Im not sure..

[kyrawolfe]

Yeah it ****es me off too! I understand yelling sometimes to an extent.. Not screaming at them but raising ur voice i think is ok if there acting up.. but swearing at them putting them down screaming and my biggest pet hate is mothers who smack there toddlers! what is that supposed to teach them? That violence is ok? WTF! I use the "go to ur room" or "naughty corner" option and it works quite fine, ive even got him saying sowwie, when he comes out and giving me hugs to make up for naughtyness.. hes so gud tho! got such manners for a 2yo (i no im bragging but hey)


So im takeing each day as it comes for now... and enjoying every moment I have a bundle in my belly-- hopefully it will keep up till about 30th of april.. which is my due date according to my last af..

Sammy - I always thought u were more fertile after a mc, is that really true that u have to wait a cycle?