Hi Ferrals, i'm not sure about the testing. They did a few on the 11wk preg while I was in tassie (preg #2), preg #3 I lost while we were up in Cape York so no hospital or anything and preg #4 I chose to go home and lose naturally and collect the 'specimen' for them unfortunately I only collected clots so unable to test.
All blood works have come back perfect. Alot of the women in my family have had this issue...and no reasons given. I know everyone has these days but I just think that I need to give it up to keep my head sane. It's to hard for me and its not fair on DB to have this annoying moody cow gf.
I had a friend who offered to be a surrogate - but she would drink through the preg and i'd get the $#!t's with her so that is not an option plus I want to be the one who carries and gives birth.
I'm going to sit down tonight and talk with DB. see what he thinks, although I think he will say to try again. DB mentioned adoption since we saw a friend in town who adopted three african little ones (just gorgeous!) but we couldn't afford it plus we don't live in a proper house etc so would prob get rejected anyway.