Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage/Loss August/September 2009

[Sparkles]

Superstar - OMG, congrats, there seems to be few BFP's this month!! All the best and i'm sure its normal to be apprenhensive, i know i will be when the time comes again. But enjoy the feeling of seeing those 2 lines as well!!!
Coco - Good luck, can't wait to hear your results, hoping & praying for a BFP for you.

Well i ovulated last night and OMG i could still feel it like before, gosh i get quite alot of pain when i ovulate!! and a nice temp rise this morning so i know its awful wishing time away but i just want to be able to try again, at least in a few days when i'm sure of my tempo rises we can stop using condoms for the months..yay for that at least!! My sister goes for her NT sacn today with her 2nd child, she found out she was pregnant(planned) the day i found out bubs had not made it, so understandly she is very anxious about this scan but i know it will all be alright!!And i figured out that if we fell pregnant in my october cycle(if my cycles stay 28 dyas), the bubs due date would be the exact day we found out about bubs not making it as well. Weird!! Maybe it's a good sign.

Thought it was time i added a ticker, makes me realise i am strong enough to do the whole TTC thing again!

Thinking of you all who are testing, ovulating and have the dreaded AF. Have a good monday!!

[Cherished]

Superstarmumsy So happy for you honey and I do think that a D&C makes you more fertile, I got a BFP after my 1st af when I had my 1st D&C and I was mega fertile... I am hoping that after this last D&C I will also get pg after my af... I am in the fertile zone now so here's hoping I will get another BFP. I wish we could be belly buddies again but I think you will be a little further along than I would be even if I do get a BFP... Congratulations to you and your dh, he will get excited again, it may just take a little longer And dont' worry about anything, jsut enjoy it, many woman have a healthy pg after a mc, just drop into the PAL thread and they will reasure you that everything will be ok Again congrats and keep in touch lovely girl xox

Hello everyone else I am not up for persies today... I'm hung over, got drunk Friday night and yesterday which is so not like me .... Went to a wedding yesterday and the groom announced they are having a baby I was shattered although I knew they were going to be pg soon, she is due a month after I would have been next year... and another of the guys that dh works with is pg too... I really wanted to have a baby when they all did so they could play together etc... I feel so left out, I know it sounds completely stupid but that is how I feel

[coco1411]

Congratulations superstar!


Ferrals...I will be here with you..even after having the laparoscopy and removing the endometriosis and everything else this year, I still have a Yes I know im 12dpo but also know that by now the FFR would be able to pick it up..surely.

I dont know why I am having so much trouble falling pregnant after my miscarriage...I have been here for like 8 months now! What have I done wrong!!!

[zstar]

big congrats to supperstarmumsy!!!! awesome news. lets hope there is more BFP's this month!

chickybabe - hang in there. my discharge is still here. since tuesday last week now. i have emailed ob today to see what he thinks. does your head in big time!!!!! stay positive!!!

big hi to everyone else. i hope things are going ok. this is a tough game and not for the weak!

[Anila]

yay congratulations SuperstarMumsy!!!
That is super awesome news, very excited for u indeed!

Hi and hugs to everyone else

afm, 8dpo, no signs either way, so guess i keep waiting...

[Jahzara]

Hi Ladies,

Congratulations SuperstarMummsy !!! Woohoo - way to go

AFM - have just been to have my blood test and i go back at 11am for the results.
I am sooooooo nervous. I started having this stupid discharge/bleeding last Monday and it has been the longest week of my life.
This morning i feel quite nauseaus - i assume thats cause i am worrying so much. Would be nice if it was actually MS.

Will BBL with the results - good or bad !

[Jahzara]

Ok, finally back from my appointment !
They were running soooo late. I was only in the room for about ten minutes the rest of the time was sitting out in the hall waiting to be seen. Didnt want to sit with all the pregnant ladies.
I cried for most of the time i was waiting - i felt so anxious.

Saw a different lady today - she was ok. Lady i saw last week was lovely - i get to see her again on Thursday - thank goodness.

My levels have gone from 248 up to 1980

I instantly burst into tears when she told us ! DH gave my leg a rub. Relief !

So thats really good - but in the very next sentence i was told that "it's still really early days so anything can happen yet". Thanks for that lady - i realise that !
Not letting my guard down yet - even if things are looking promising.

I go back on Thursday for a scan to see if everything is in the right place then have another appointment to get the results.

So, i have a little woohoo for the day ! Hooray !

Still needing these -

Once again - thanks for your support ladies ! some for you all xo

[LladyR]

Where's my post gone?

[LladyR]

My levels have gone from 248 up to 1980

YAY! !!! You must be so relieved...

So thrilled for you.

[LladyR]

I did post a reply, but it's been deleted / disappeared somewhere along the line.

Now to start again.

I'm 26, my dear fiancee` is 27, and we're currently TTC#2 following our recent loss of 'Fuzzy' in July of this year. We live in the Sunshine Coast, Qld.

We have been TTC for quiet some time, and given we lost our beloved at only 4 weeks, 4 days (very early, but I'm sure it didn't hurt any less ) my GP said it would be quiet safe to start again straight away. My cycle went back to normal straight away so I was very luck in that sense.

Initially I/we weren't sure if we would start again straight away, but given the length of time we've been trying for, we didn't want to hold off any longer.

We get married in just 25 short days, and desperately for a honeymoon bubba, if not sooner! <3

I am currently on day 20 of this cycle. We've been using the OV Watch, pre-seed (which we haven't used in a few months - just didn't like the 'too' slippery feel - then realised I was using far too much!), temping/charting, and we BD'd every day over a span of 5 days so here's hoping this is our month..!!

I've got funny feelings this morning in my left side - sorta like period pain.. but not. I'm praying it's the start of something special..! :heart: I'm 5DPO.

[zstar]

chickybabe - so happy for you. talk to you bubba and tell it to burrow in for the long haul. i talked to my baby so much and still do. i still have the brown discharge. 6 days on and off now. has backed off a bit. ob called me in today for a scan and heard heartbeat, going strong and still measuring on time so all good for now. phew. one day at a time....

anila - everything crossed for you

coco - some of us are going to have to fight a hell of a lot harder than others to get our bubbas! I hope you are out of here very soon

cherished - we are the last ones in our 'group' without kids and have been for some time. its not fun. our turn will come!

hi to all and i hope you are having a good monday.

[Sparkles]

Chickybabe - how exciting, thats great news!!
Zstar- great to hear the scan showed a healthy heartbeat, hope the spotting stops to ease your mind.

LladyR- so sorry for your loss, but welome to the group, you will find lots of support on here. Fingers crossed this is your month, would be nice wedding present!!

[zstar]

thanks sparkes

Llaydr - welcome. you will find mountains of support here. you are in the right place! i so hope you have your wedding wish and you are pg as you walk down the isle!!! i lost my first at 5wks 3 days and the ob said i could start straight away. i fell on my 2nd cycle so i was very lucky. we had been trying to a year. its a long tough journey and the support on here was what got me through and still does. amazing group of ladies. i hope your stay here is short. take care of yourself. i love your affirmations!!!!

[eliselouise]

WOOHOO Congratulations superstarmumsy that is awesome news. Im sure the feelings of aprehension are quite normal after what weve been through. I so cant wait to get my BFP but at the same time am very scared because now i know how easily it can happen. But try and forget about that and enjoy it so so much
Welcome Llaydr, sorry to hear about your loss but youve come to the right place for all the support you need
Chickybabe those levels are awesome, well done girl. What an insensitive lady, talk about burst your bubble. Try and ignore her and enjoy every minute of being pg.
AFM had some cm this morning so hoping i am ovulating. BD last night and hopefully again tonight so heres hoping it works
TTYL

[Cherished]

Thanks gorgeous Zstar, I know my time will come.... eventually

Chickybabe that's awsome news honey

LladyR Gee doesn't it feel like summer today on the coast! I've been outside in my bikini and all hehehhe Sorry to read of your loss, hope you get your sticky bub soon and have a wonderful wedding!

[Jahzara]

Thanks Everyone

Welcome LladyR - so sorry for your loss - but the other girls are right - you've joined a great group (i love them so much i cant leave yet )

I wish we had some of your Sunshine Coast weather - it is pouring and a bit thundery here. I am so sick of the rain - cant get my washing dry and i am sick of getting wet when i go out.

BBL

xoxoxo

[TinaR]

Ladyr: welcome to our group of absolutely amazing ladies, while I am so sorry you need to join us I am glad that you have found us...I would not be sane without my friends on here.

Chickybabe: keep believing I am certain there are only good things in your future (like a precious bundle very soon) to love and cherish

Cherished: you are always to uplifting to everyone else, I that soon you get those awesome two lines you want and begin the journey where the end is a precious baby in your arms

SuperstarMumsy: Congratulations!!! I am so jealous of you but at the same time so, so happy for you and wishing you all the best and sending millions of sticky vibes for your bub...enjoy this amazing time

EloiseLouise: go get it !! and then post about your two dark lines in a couple of weeks!

ZStar: hope all is going well for you??

Sparkles: Hi!! whats going on?

Anila n Coco: I'm keeping my fingers crossed that this is your month!! You test soon don't you Coco?

Hi also to Cherished, Kyra (hows bub?), Sammy, Sunny, Ferrals and everyone else I know I have missed. I hope life is treating you well and you are looking after yourself.

AFM: well, after my weekend meltdown (thank you so much Ferrals for your posts ) I am feeling a bit better, RB symptoms have died down but I know she is still there and waiting with a sucker punch (B!tch that she is). I'm taking Elevit and Spirulina which, when you put that many vitamins into your body I think it does some weird tummy stuff (it was windy over the weekend! ) I am hoping that that will mean that when I do get utd I will finally stay that way.
Ferrals: wanted to add that ttc isnt my life. we bd when we can, i guess at when I o and since i spend all week away from home it makes it that much harder, I am just dealing with my last loss so much worse, for some reason it feels alot more real, prob cause we saw the heart beat etc.

Thank you to all you beautiful ladies for your support

[ferrals5]

Chickbabe-i love the antarctica remark in your location.

Tina-i hope i diddn't upset you by saying try not to set your life around ttc i just know how easy it is to be consumed by ttc and it can take over your every thought and pretty much take over your way of life as i was letting that happen to me i was worried about the time limit my biological clock has left it wasn't until i relised that it was controling my life( i was getting off early from work to rush home and BD )that i thought this is going to stress my marriage and i had to stop that's when we made a plan and set a goal and if that fail's we have a plan B and it has helped a lot but i will admit i still feel the tick tock and i worry i will never give my DH a baby anyway i am glad you are feeling better i just don't want you to give up just yet.