Hugs Jane - People who have never been through any hardship are speaking from ignorance, so don't worry about her comments because she does not have the experience behind her to be sympathetic. Sorry that AF is so horrible for you.

I had another spotting session today. I don't know if I should count this as AF or not. I have all pre AF symptoms and (TMI warning)I filled 1/2 big panty liner on Friday and a full one today. My D and C was 12 days ago, so not sure if it is just operation stuff or AF.Anyone got any comments. BTW it is my "normal' time of the month for AF. I wonder if you can have a phantom AF.

Went to a Body Shop party today and there was a 3month old baby boy there and he picked me as his favourite for the arvo. Of all the other ladies in the house he wanted to smile and coo at me. Strangley enough I did not get upset but it re-enforced that I want another bubba sooner rather than later.