I am so happy that everyone is starting to feel better.
Bun- It is so good to hear that you have hope again and that you are feeling +ve.
Jane - Fingers crossed for this month.
SP - I think it is a nice to have some thing to remind you of your angel. You don't have to have a ceremony and you don't have to say goodbye. YOu can just have some thing to say " We'll always remember you." Like a picture frame with a scan pic and poem next to it. Or an angel with a poem. Don't feel you ever have to say goodbye, this is way too final and upsetting. I won't say goodbye to my angels because I talk to them and they look over my DD for me. Sorry I just made myself cry.
Re: Me temping. I just don't think I can do without temping until AF comes back regular. I need to know when I O so that I can take natural progesterone in the LP. If the temping gets to me and we get stressed then I will give it away for a bit.
Janeo - that's great that Af is over and you feel like you can now move on with things - best of luck at catching that egg this month!!
Bek - as long as temping is not stressing you out, I reckon it is fine to keep going. After all, it is only a couple of seconds out of your day, and it can tell you soooo much, esp after a m/c when things can be a little unpredictable and different from normal. I think it is great that your angels are looking over your DD
SP - I agree with Bek, you are not saying goodbye to your angel, just commemorating him in some way. A lot of people find this very helpful so I would def say do something, like plant a tree in his memory. It must have been so hard hearing from your OB that it was a boy, and I can understand things are hard atm. Try and remember that although you have been through a terrible time, the OB did only have good news, and the chance of a happy healthy pg next time is very very high. It's just hard to get the negative thoughts out of your head sometimes (I understand that only too well). BTW, I thought I would reply to the other thread here - I live in Atwell, SOR. It would be great being so close to the city!! I feel like we are aaages away and the trip to the city on the bus everyday is a nightmare. Bring on the train!
Well, after being all happy before, now I am sad again! I just went to Medicare to claim back $ from the RE appointments, and the guy says 'this is for IVF isn't it?'. I don't know why, but this upset me, I was surrounded by people, he was flashing the account about which said 'Fertility Specialists', and I don't know, I just felt upset. I simply said 'No'. Just because the RE works out of a fert cliinic doesn't mean I am on IVF - heaps of people go to fert clinics for all sorts of reasons, not necessarily IVF, and the description on the invoice was 'Attendance on a professional', no procedures or anything, the idiot. Anyway, I don't know why this upset me, but I guess it just did.
Hi everyone else, I hope you all have a great weekend.
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