Just popping my head in to say Miss K - definitely not your fault! Apparently you get as much radiation from a few minutes in the sun as you do from one of those x-rays. Don't beat yourself up - give yourself a pat ont he back for looking after your teeth while pregnant - not enough people do. I'm very very sorry for your loss. I'm a big advocate of the wait before TTC again. I had a forced 6 month wait - I'm not suggesting that long though! - and it was a really good time for us as a couple.
I reckon don't try, don't be cautious. That baby will be there when it's ready.

Kit - how good is crying in the shower? OK, so crying's sorta not good, but the shower's a good place for it. I cried on the bus when I got my last AF, and had no hankies or anything, I was a mess! But I broke out of it when the bus driver locked it up to avoid a koala crossing the road with a baby on its back.

Plucking your eyebrows is a great way to snap out of it if you're having a hysterical cry and you want to stop. (I've always been a crier. It doesn't take much)

How are all you other ladies going? Sorry I'm not round much. I lurk. Thinking of all of you lots of the time.