thread: Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage or Loss Feb 2010

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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Sep 2009
    Melbourne, Victoria
    88

    Sorry gals,
    I think i am having series of s***t days...this whole month was a strong storm.
    I got to know that my SIL had ectopic pregnancy detected on 2 march,10 when i was crying in pain of my EDD, she is in immense pain of loss (loss of bub and removal of one tube)...i am sorry ladies, i am trying to get over these days.
    CraftMummy - Hang in there, you seriously deserve a BFP soon
    MurrayCod - its MARCH now...ready for the Harvey. All the best hun. i wish all the luck to u.
    Ferrals - Herbal diet and that plan sounds awesome. I am too trying to ristrict my caffeine intake and trying hubby to quit smoke alltogether. I hope that plan works out well for you. i am so happy, you found that chinese doc and now you enlightened all of us, that there are other factors involved in baby making...and diet is most imp and health of sperms and eggs.
    IonaMacca, em, cuppy, missk and all new members - sorry for your losses and welcome to our thread.hope u all are doing ok
    Anita - how was you day ? and what happened in the court? all the best darl', hope you get a quick fast coustody of kiddo's. and hows are you feeling? thinking of u.
    matthew's mum - how are you?
    SammyP, Jahzara, how are you lovely gals going? hows health? xox
    more more thing MurrayCod - you motivated me to become a cleaning lady and thanks for reminder, i am trying to clean my kitchen.. but i am whinging while doing it... making DH insane. he already quoted "you are on rampage, you are thinking about your TTC, you dont even care, whether i hve taken my antibiotics or not" = Mad Gal, but i love your enthusiasm...
    sarahrach - all the best for wednesday... 5DPO, good good, excited for you. i am also testing on Wednesday same as you 5DPO.

    take care all
    will pop in soon

  2. #2
    Platinum Member. 2010 RAK Recipient

    Jun 2009
    455

    Why? Why is it that so many people have to experience this pain and loss? It just isn't fair. All I want is a baby to hold, just one. I used to think 4 would be great, but nine years on I just want one to bring home and love. I don't want to be strong, I just want to be pregnant again and have the baby I longed for so much and have lost. Sometimes I feel like it is almost worse than never having being able to conceive at all, this pain just won;t go.


    Ric - no need to say sorry

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Oct 2009
    surrounded by textbooks, cat toys and love
    1,124

    Alice: Oh sweetheart, I'm so so sorry, sometimes it just creeps up on you, although this was more of a sledgehammer situation. I'm sorry this happened, I know it feels so unfair. Thinking of you xo

    Cuppy: Sorry for the loss of your baby, but welcome to our forum, I hope it brings you some peace.

    Ric: Sorry about you SIL, and that it's been a tough month, really hope you get some good news soon!

    AFM: Day 35 today, had a tiny tiny bit of spotting, so hoping it's Day 1 again. Can't take much more of this waiting. Thinking of everyone, love!

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Sep 2009
    866

    alice-sorry,sending you lots of hugs.I don't think our pain will ever go away completely all we can do is keep going for the little one to come.I beleive when you get your next bfp,part of your bub who had to leave to soon will live on in him/her.May is coming...ric-hope this next month is better for you.Sorry to hear about your sil loss...missk-glad your feeling bit better...cuppy-so sorry youve had to find our corner of the world,hope your next bfp isn't far away.Keep thinking about the success stories after loss,there is a lot of them...hello to everyone

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Jan 2010
    Ohio
    156

    Im soo Disgusted~!!!
    We got all the way out there for court and come to find out she also hired her attorney and stopped her free one she was getting.. and had her new lawyer file for conts.. well come to find out we was told they found out she had 2 warrants ( well then go get the kids off of her) and she never walked in the court at all today she set outside in her dads car( the grandmother who has the kids) anyhow there was a Sheriff waiting for her to walk in but her lawyer supposly told her to stay in the car.. were not sure if she knows about the warrants or not..
    So the guradian calls me and tell me that they are doing the best they can to get the court hearing started again next week.. they all are fuming over this its bull**** .. I sometimes hate this court systen for kids cause they have the power to do a emergency removal on the kids and have not done so yet.. so its ****ing me off so now we got to wait another whole week if the get a court date for next week! its frustrating..
    i need a Stiff drink..lol
    So Sorry im i needed to vent..

    Sorry for the ones to join us here..
    Best of luck to all prating u get a BFP.. =]

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Jul 2009
    Sydney west
    38

    I cant believe the amount of pain and hearts that are breaking. Its not far at all. Everyone deserves to be happy.

    New to this - Yeh its horrible. Ive cried everyday since. Looking for answers but just cant find them Same here, We want to try again straight away but at the same time i am so scared of it happening again. I never thought it would although my mum and sister have both been through it also.

    Mildez - Glad you are being positive. Hoping for the best for you.

    ric - Thanks for the welcome hugs for you and your SIL.

    Alice - Its so unfair. I to feel the same. Everywhere i go i see pregnant people and baby boy stuff! Should be buying it now. Your a strong lady. I can feel that in your messages you have written. I hope you get your precious lil one soon.


    KitFaerie - Hugs.
    Matthew's Mum - Thats a nice way to look at it. I didnt think of it like that befor. Good thoughts.

    TTCALoveChild - Thats terrible, I hope it works out for yor all soon. Court system is hard. we had to go to get visit rights for my step daughter. Took agesssssssssssssss and seems overwhelming sometimes. **fingers crossed they get a move on for you and help those children**

    **happy times for all of us ahead**