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Morning all
Been a bit quiet on here lately I guess your all just getting on with the TTC journey and some lucky people are waiting for their BFP to look a bit stronger ( Thopes any news )
Murraycod hope your holding up and ferrals was able to let you sleep a little better and stop worrying so much
Ferrals hope your enjoying your hols and the beach ! and lots of :bd: for that little honeymoon suprise !
Ric hope your well how you doing ?
Matthews mum hope Af has arrived and if not then hope you get your BFP !
everyone else hope your doing ok and busy getting ready for your own BFP we need a few more this month.
AFM well im on day 7 now so just waiting for the right time to :bd: hopefully get my opks with 2 lines on next week and try try again, Bit worried about my :dh: hes been taking pills for high blood pressure for a year now but they really mess him about make him feel sh** so he is now taking a new one but now his ankles and legs are swelling so I :dunno: whats going on with him last time I seen anlkes like that I was 9mnths pg and that was a few years ago, so he off to the GP again ! hope he feels better soon as its the big O day next week ! ;)
Speak soon and keep well !
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Hello ladies,
Dory- what a beauitful way to remember your precious twins. I totally share your semtiment, I feel that how ever briefly my babies were with me I am and will always be their mother. I hope you had a very special day.:hug:
T-Hopes-whats the verdict is it a BFP???? ;)
Kezzy- welcome to our thread I hope your stay is short. I'm sure we can all sympathise with your fears, I guess there is no right way to cope except to know that no matter what you will keep trying until you get your forever bub.:comfort:
Murrycod- how are yougoing with your TWW. I don't get why they'd make you wait till 16days past transfer. Hope you are not stressing too much. I'm on progesterone pesseries too and I feel total AF cramps every night :dunno:
Hope eveyone has a lovely day.
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Sunbeam just got off the phone to FS Nurse, and she reassured me that the Crinone Pessaries make girls cramp constantly, esp like AF cramping, some girls stronger than others. She also told me the reason for my depressed mood is the Crinone also. Darn Drugs I tell ya!!:wall:
So that has made me a little more at ease, for now;)
Craftymummy you really deserve to catch this egg girl XXX Thank you for the support you have given me, I have been torture to deal with as of late, my poor poor DH.
Dory I do hope that you enjoyed planting your little trees yesterday, that was a lovely idea, I planted a special rose in my garden, I just love it. What sort of trees did you plant??
I hope you are feeling well sweetheart, sorry I not posting much, I'm having a bit of a hard time getting through this TWW.
I find a lot of strength in you, I love your posts XXX
TTCALC well I'm glad to see someone here is happy to be cramping!!!!!:lol: Want mine!!??? Na seriously, I do hope you get your long awaited AF very soon, and I hope she can be kind to youy XXX
Ferrals, darling, thank you. I do hope your holiday refreshes your spirit, and you feel more at ease to join back in this mad bunch of gals here XXXXX
THopes honey how are you and your thick endo doing!? Any news to share yet??
Praying for you XXX
KitF thank you so much for your reassurance XX
I had best welcome the new ladies properly now that I am in a more sane mind, who knows whal will happen in the next hour, so I better welcome now :lol:
Kit, Sparkles and Kezz, I am so sorry that you have all found your way here, but so glad you have decided to join our family and share your TTC journeys with us XX
As you have all guessed already, the girls here are very friendly, we all have a sad story to share, but wisdom to help guide eachother through our hardest times XX
I have said to many, that our little Angel Babies are never far away from our hearts, our greif is never far away either, but each day that passes, I promise you will find more reasons to smile than the day before, yes we all endure many set backs with dates, nasty or un-thaught through comments from friends or family, or even just by going to the supermarket hearing a baby cry, finding out a friend is UTD, or just having a good O'l crappy day, we are all here for you, just yell out and we will be there to help you get through XXXXXXX And hopefully we can share in eachothers great days too!:D
So welcome X ( and sorry it is a little belated from me)
Snugglebuggs, hope you are feeling well today babe, thank you so much XXXXX;)
Sorry to miss a few persies, Eliselouise if you are lurking, I hope you are well honey I miss you XXX I am slowly going mad!!!XXX
Well I got my official letter in the mail today, I have '1 SnowBub' in waiting. 4 were not at grade to freeze unfortunately, so they are no longer.
I am a bit sad by this, I was hoping that if this cycle was not a success, I could atleast get a FET straight away. But now that I only have 1 snowbaby i will have to do another stim cycle, which I won't be able to do unil May.
So please Harvey......stick baby stick.
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Murrycod- so glad you got some reasurance from the clinic and that hopfully it will stop the stress a little if not the down mood :hug: I don't know what my pesseries are called but they give me every pg symptom under the sun, as if the TWW weren't hard enough. I hope and pray little Harvey is snuggling in well and that his little snow sibing will be ready in a year or so. My friend had i fresh and 2 frosties and they all took perfectly I hope you can be just as lucky, hang in there babe.
T Hopes- I'm going crazy waiting whats the verdict?:crossfingers: Hope its great news.
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Murraycod: Thanks for the welcome :) It's very much appreciated! Best of best luck for Harvey!
Dory: My cat would not leave me alone when I was preg! I had no idea what was going on to start with, I was just like 'What? What do you want?' Lol!
TTCALC: I would like some cramping too, AF is soooo slow!
Thopes: Any news yet?
craftymummy: Oooh it's getting close! Hope you get some answers bout DH's meds!
Kezz: Welcome, I'm new too, but I already feel comfortable here! It's great to have this place.
AFM still no AF, still intermittent cramping, but I've been a weepy cranky mess for the past few days so hopefully that means somethings happening. Seriously, I've felt soooo disgusting, tired of waiting for AF, tired of waiting to see if I got into uni this year (find out in 2 weeks, hopefully), DH and I are moving back to Melbs in 2 weeks and I'm tired of organising that and worrying about getting a rental property, tired of the 4kg I gained with the preg, tired of my skin breaking out. And there is very little I can do about any of it, expect wait it out. Which I'm tired of, lol. None of our friends in Melb knew we were preg, we were waiting to get heartbeat confirmed before we told them, so I know I have a few weepy conversations ahead of me. It's just been hard lately. Sigh, it cant last forever though.
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oh just quick ladies - DH not happy at me cause were running late for dinner but still getting a ghosty 2nd line!!! dont know what to think but AF is now 4days late! yayayaya! I went to docs today and had a blood test, please pray for me tonight ladies!! I have a little good feeling, hope i can trust it. doc said its sounding good! will have result by morning.
sorry no persies, will be back later xx :pray:
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hi again loveys! sorry about leaving you in limbo for the last few days and thanks for asking after me! Im feeling really scared about calling the docs tomorrow, so nervous.... ill be calling from work so either verdict, im gunna have to keep my poker face on!
Im finding the thought of receiving BT results even more scary because its so blunt, black or white... nothing in between... at least waiting for the 2nd line or then AF lets you down a bit gentler... maybe? does that even make sense!? Im a wreck! Need to go to bed and pretend to sleep! lol
Sunbeam & murraycod - your patience is inspiring! getting closer everyday to you hopefully hearing some great news! xx
Dory - lovely Dory!!! what a beautiful way to remember your angels!Hugs to you sweetheart!
kitfaerie - all the best for your move to melbs!! you'll be close to me!! what part of melb are you heading too?? Hopefully the move will keep you busy and pre-occupied and b4 you know it AF will follow you down to Melbs! She gets around down here.. the tart! lol but in all seriousness lovey, look after yourself and we are all here for you when you have those hard days of telling friends about your little angel xx
TTCAlovec - not long to go now for that appt!!! hope you get some well deserved answers and the doc gets you back on the TTC journey very soon!
crafty - almost BD time! Whoop whoop!! whip out those frilly knickers and DH will be chasing you around the bedroom, heavy ankles and all!!:dance:
ladies - we all deserve a BFP soon, whether its today, tomorrow or 6 mths from now!! They have to be coming our way soon! we are good ppl that for some reason have suffered a lot of pain & loss. Please all know that i think about each of you throughout the day and wonder how you are going. You have all made such a difference to my life!
sweetdreams ladies - will post tomorrow when i can! xx
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good luck t-hopes! you left us all on a cliff hanger! i hope your blood test comes back soon and your hcg is nice and high :)
KitFaerie, xsparklesx and kezz glad you felt strong enough to join us on here. it's a tough time we have to go through, but people on here will help you through anything.
KitFaerie sounds like you have a lot on your plate, just take one day and one thing at a time. you will get af back when your body is ready. it took me over 2 months to get regular cycle back, you just have to wait which i know is so frustrating. good luck getting into uni.
murraycod you sound like the drugs are having an effect on your emotions. just as long as you try and remember it's the drugs making you feel the way you do you will get through it. i know cramping signs can be good!
Sunbeam hope you're ok and good luck in tww :)
craftymummy9 hope the opks work for you and doc can sort out dhs ankle problem.
dory that is a nice thing to do to plant the trees for your twins. i was thinking i should do something special like this on my edd too.
ferrals4 nice to see your name on here. hope you will join us again, when you feel ready. we would like to see how your ttc journey is progressing.
afm just about to enter into the tww. i have decided to sit my exam next year (to help with my job), which is a lot of work, so it is keeping me busy. it is basically a whole years work of prep needed, so i need to start now...
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confused
hey
BT came back negative. he wants me to test again monday as he thinks it may have been to early to detect and becuase i O'ed later this month that I may have gone back to a 36 day cycle (always used to be b4 d&C)so technically i may not even be late yet???!! so confused! dont know what to think! He said to remain hopeful! I dont think I can! :wall:
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Thopes
Hang in there its not over till AF arrives and shes not here yet so fingers crossed for you. Maybe wait a few more days and poas again see how it turns out,
You will be in my thoughts all weekend so keep us all posted !
My boys are on the plane on their way here can't wait to see them :hooray: so I will be a bit busy the next 2 wks but will try to view everyday but may not have time to post !
So murraycod and sunbeam will be checking to see how your TWW goes and murraycod its so hard with those drugs in your system to feel positive but little harvey is gonna be just fine you wait and see :lol:
Ferrals hope you can still walk after your honeymoon ! hope your little egg will :fertilise:
your next in line for a BFP !
spfairy goodluck in your TWW will be a bit behind you so watching your progress !
AFM well guess Im just waiting for the big O day and my chance to catch that egg !
will have to be quiet with a full house !:redface: oh the shame ! got to be done though,
speak soon :bluedust::pink-babydust: TO ALL WHO NEED IT !
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Uuuummmmm....Hi Ladies !
I am *sneaking* in here ever so quietly...
I used to post in here last year and have remained a lurker :rolleyes:
A little update for those that may remember -
I had two miscarriages last year :crying: and DH and i had decided enough was enough - we already are lucky enough to be blessed with 3 healthy boys and didnt want to put ourselves through anymore heartache.
Fast forward to now and after many talks - we have changed our minds :rolleyes: and have decided to try again - i just cant stop thinking about having another baby - i dont feel complete and being that we always said we would most likely have 4 i havent been able to let go of that. DH is fully supportive - he is naturally worried about another m/c but so am i.
So basically - AF arrived today and when she is gone it will be action stations for us.
I am sooo nervous but oh sooo excited !!
Look forward to sharing the journey and i will try to keep up...
:bluedust: :pink-babydust:
xoxo
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Hi Girls,
So sorry for the ladies that have had to join,its not easy but this is the best place you can be for comfort and support with what ever ur feelings are on any given day.and yes we all understand that these feelings do change at a flick of the switch.
I say it time and time again that i will remain faithful to posting but always seem to fail,i do still get daily updates and read everything thats going on in here. Things just seem to get on top of us at times and with school holidays it has been mayhem in my house.
As my EDD looms near (16th feb) things just seems to really be getting to me so easily.The sight of a pregnant person who cant handle the other 4 kids in tow that i saw at the supermarket last night ,just made me want to burst!!!!!! why?why?why??? i am in now way a perfect mother or even pretend to be to my 2 that i have but it just really gets my goat when ppl can just spit out child after child and not give a rats about them.
Anyway enough venting here from me.
I have commenced my metformin.(im a PCOS sufferer)I convinced my gp to prescribe them as it would save me having to go through the reproductive clinic and waiting 3 months for an appointment with them.I used these when we were trying to conceive DS and within 2 months of taking them, we fell pregnant.SO i started as of xmas day and was over the moon that a few days later,i got dear AF..i knew that taking the tablets would get everything back on track but was so shocked at how soon it happened.Weather or not my ovulation is back on track will soon be known i guess.
Good luck to everyone here and sending all the stickyness and baby dust that can be provided.
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Hehehe ! Thanks Tanya ! :hug:
Hope you are well - i think of you alot.
xoxo
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Hey ladies ..
Murraycod.. No more cramping( just one day) and no af yet.. ;( im begging for her believe that..lol
Kitfaeria~ hope you get yours to sweetie..
Maybe we get it together get our chance of pregoooo and be bellybuddies ;)
T-hopes :( awww hang in there and i got my foingers crossed and its true No af no worries ;) and thanks i feel like i been waiting for months to get into her!
AFM~ no more cramping and no af yet...
but honestly i been peeing alot last 8 days...and i actually feel prego again..
and i really think i O'ed last week to but i didnt think you could do that untill your first cycle starts back up after a m/c.,.. but imnot going to worry or get my hopes up its just wishful thinking so ill know more on 26 ..
:pray: for you all!!
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Hi Ladies,
Just a quick hello from me as I've just finished work and I'm off to enjoy my weekend :dance:
Just wanted to say
T-Hopes- hang in there babe I hope there is a little bean in there just being a bit shy yet.
TTCALC-I don't want to get your hopes up either but it is entirely possible to O and conceive before the first AF after a m/c. :crossfingers:
AFM- still crampy and nearly threw up in Woollies this morning when i went to get a bottle of ginger ale because I was feeling so nauseous. I'd like to think this was a good sign but the 2-3 times I've felt like this really early on it has been a BFN come test time. Oh well onwards and upwards.
Have a great weekend everyone.
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hello everyone, sunbeam-hope nausea is a good sign of things to come..ttalovechild-i was told you can o 2 weeks after loss...chickybabe-i remember you from when i was lurking,sorry for your losses,hope you get another bfp real soon...hubbabubba-it's not fair...craftymummy-hope your boys love Australia...t-hopes-sorry about the neg blood test...scarypinkfairy-tww going to be busy for you...kitfairie-feeling any better today?..murraycod-hope that feeling of ease has continued today...ric-good luck at specialist...dory-what lovely words you said about your twins,i'm sure your plants look beautiful....ferrals-hope the holiday is just what you needed...kezzy-sorry for your loss,hope another bfp is just aound the corner..sparkles-sorry for your losses,hope your results in april give you the answers you want..emmy-valentine's present sound great..ciara,cookie&mummyof4-how are you guys?..afm-fs gave me a referral to a dr robert woolcott in newcastle (sydney ivf),anyone heard of him??app is in feb,got af today so i should have another o before i see himso here we go again,ask fs why tubes got blocked said sometimes with a loss you can bleed in your tubes ,has anyone heard of this??on another note went to a physic today which was quite upsetting,told me matthew spirit had tried to come before(my mum had a miscarriage),told me to stop blaming myself that it was his decision to not come at that time,so that just opened up another ? why did he not want to stay with us,i'm far from the perfect mother but i'm not that bad...
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Matthew's mum: I'm sure your a wonderful mother, your dedication to remembering and doing personals to everyone here says a lot about your concern for others. Maybe get a second opinion? Maybe third time lucky? Maybe write a letter for Matthew, you never know you might feel an answer for yourself. I'm sorry it was upsetting, I hope you feel better soon.
Sunbeam: Enjoy your weekend! Hope you get good news soon.
TTCALC: Arrrghhhhh how annoying is this waiting! Hopefully our bodies will figure out what they're doing soon, it would be awesome to get our cycles back at the same time!
HubbaBubba: I know you feel with the watching ppl with kids, I'm still glaring at pregnant women, lol. There seems to be a loooot of 14/15yr olds who are pregnant at the moment in this town, they're really not my favourite people right now. I hope you get a sticky bubba soon!
Chickybabe: Hooray for trying again! I know it's really scary though, good luck with the journey!
craftymummy: Good luck with O and with being quiet, lol!
Thopes: Crap, that's not the best news. Really hope it's just too early, don't lose hope yet, nothing can really be certain in pregnancy. Just hold on.
As for melbs, not sure where we'll be living! We used to live in Kensington, and I like that area, but a house close to the city is way out of our price range, and I'd really really like a house (so ready to nest, lol) so I think we'll go further out, but close to a train line, maybe northcote?
SPF: Thanks for your advice, it helps to be reminded sometimes that it is just one day at a time :)
AFM major cramping last night! Was so certain that today would be the day, but alas, nope. There was a very slight possibility that I was preg, I had a few symptoms and DH and I did have a bit of an oops (we were using condoms, cos we were certain that we wanted to have 1 cycle before trying). So I POAS, and got BFN, which is GOOD, cos it means that there is no HCG in my system and that preg symptoms are probably just AF symptoms, and that everything is probably going exactly as it should, just at it's own pace. And I got some of the major zit zapping stuff, so I feel very proactive, lol. Thanks everyone for their responses, it really helped. You all rock :)
