ferrals - glad to see you back in here, am still keeping an eye on you. It occurs to me that perhaps the 19yr old bimbo is actually finally facing up to the reality of how harsh life can be rather than trying to be insensitive. It may have been a moment of realisation for her which, unfortunately, has caused you to feel the hurt again. Kids her age can be pretty tactless. I hope, for her sake, that it was a realisation moment, could show that she's actually growing up.
(ps. I changed user names, just so you know who this is - smallfryplus)

Take care all and I linger to see further good news... SPF, good to see your BFP Congratulations!!