fifi--I don't think you're overreacting at all! I think that we're all still very sensitive due to what we've been thru, and because of that, we may tend to feel offended by tactless comments quicker than most. I agree that he's just very self-absorbed and probably has no idea that a comment like that could get his head taken off by the lot of us! Unfortunately, unless you've suffered a loss of your own, people just don't think about the fact that there's people out there that would give anything just to be pg! I have to admit that with my last angel, I wanted to desperately to have a girl.... as soon as I found out I was pg, it was "it better be a girl!", and "I'll be ok, as long as it's a girl!".... I even wore something pink everyday, with the stupid hope that it would somehow make it be a girl! It wasn't until I m/c that I really started beating myself up.... thinking God was punishing me for being ungrateful.... that I should've just been happy to be pg.... that I must've complained too much about feeling sick, hungry, tired, gaining weight.... I think this guy is just blindly innocent to what could go wrong, and he doesn't get that he should just feel blessed no matter what he's having!



jenushka--OMG, I just knew it! Somehow I always knew you were having a girl! Congratulaions!!!