NattyT I was quite emotional about it and I was only 7 weeks when we lost ours. The only people that knew were people I work with and they knew I had had some spotting and bleeding, they were all reeeally good. The few that didnt know were so appologetic when they were asking me if I had been getting the blood tests still (hcg ones...) and I ended up taking some time off a month after it happened because I had just been crying at the drop of a hat. After having the month (which was meant to b 2 weeks) off I was good and I had gotten first AF after that so I had a little closure. But the best closure came when I had thid laparoscopy and they found the endo because they're sure thats what caused it.