thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss March 2007

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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Jul 2006
    Logan
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    SP - Seems like your cycles are coming back into line. I remember that you were always just ahead of me. If my cycle does what I think it will then AF will be due just about the right time of the month for me. I hope AF turns up for you very very soon.

    Next time you go to your OB I would tell him to his face. You don't need to be confrontational, just say in a nice tone some thing like this: I was really happy with your care however I did receive a call after I had lost our baby to remind me of an apt. This really upset me, and could you ask your staff to be more diligent in the future. I would not write a letter, because this is very strong and you may get the staff offside and they may not treat you very well. Especially if you need emergency apts. Also if your OB has an offsider like a nurse I would meantion it to him/her as well. Hope this helps.

    Jane - I really hope you Oed and got the eggy.

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Mar 2007
    melbourne
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    Maz - so sorry to hear about your loss. Welcome, you will find loads of support here. All the girls are so lovely and supportive!

    Bun – tentative congrats on the faint line. I hope that your HGC levels continue to rise. I’ve heard that with some people the line never really appears dark, even though their levels are good, so I would go and get them checked to put your mind at rest.

    Louise – Sounds like congratulations are in order! 4 tests giving you a + has to mean good things!

    Shan – I am getting a line on the OPK’s about a hour later, which I know is way too late to call a line. I am a little confused as I have used the OPK’s once before and definitely got a line. Maybe my surge is at a different time of day this month? Being obsessive I have been charting temps and taking note of my CM. When I go into FF and took out the OPK results it gave me a cover line. Do you think that I should just disregard the OPK results for this month?

    Janeo - I hope that you did O! It would mean that we are pretty much in line. FF is now saying that I O'd on Tuesday? Hope you caught the eggie!

    BekZ – Congrats on O’ing. Any chance that you could be getting a BFP? Or were you playing it safe this month. Anyhow, glad your cycle seems to be getting back to normal.

    With the nausea thing, I went to the Dr and she said I might have Gastritis (?) or possibly some sort of peptic ulcer. I have to wait it out for a few more days and see if the vomiting stops. Hopefully all will return to normal soon. I think I am a a little young to be getting ulcers! She knows I am TTC so has been really careful to only give me stuff that is ok to use while pregnant.

    Anyhow lovely people, take care! It's a stinnking hot day here in Melbourne, i thought it was supposed to be autumn already!

    Leyla
    xxx

  3. #3
    BellyBelly Member

    Mar 2006
    Perth
    766

    Thanks for all your kind words, guys. Oh, I hope so very much that this works out. I haven't even told DH about the positive test yet - I really don't see the point. He will just say "Oh well, we'll see what happens" and that will be it.

    Maz - welcome and sorry to hear about your loss.

    BekZ - yay on Oing!! Charting really is great to let you know what is going on.

    Shan - thanks for the tiny tiny congrats!

    Kitten2b - definitely sounds positive to me! Congrats and

    Janeo - hope you get a coverline soon - don't you love it when that line appears?! It sounds pretty positive. I really hope there will be a BFP for you this month!

    Leyla - I hope you feel better soon. You certainly don't want to get an ulcer!

    SP - I am still not sure what to do and I can't get through to DH. I am trying to just ignore it for the time being, as it is really really early, and hope for the best. I will keep doing HPTs and maybe wait 2 weeks to see my dr. I still have all the symptoms, but I can't trust that - with both my m/cs, I still had symptoms even after m/cing, the sore boobs hung around for days afterwards, so I really get no warning of what may be happening.

    It would be so nice to get a BFP and be happy and excited like most people are, rather than just scared and apprehensive like I have to be now. Oh well, if I am pg, I am only 3w 6d, and that is sooooo early, and I could possibly have O'ed one to days later than I thought, so I could actually be even less pg.