thread: Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage or Loss March 2010

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  1. #1
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    Jun 2009
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    Snuggly - WOOOOOHOOOOO!!! That is such FANTASTIC news - congratulations gorgeous woman and you absolutely have to stay and entertain us with more SVN and keep our spirits up and cheer us all one. Yahhh!!!!

    Good luck everyone else waiting in line to test!!

    Possum - so sorry you have had a long road and a difficult one - my goodness, 3 D&Cs, you poor thing. I'm glad you have joined us - it's a crazy lovely bunch in here and everyone has been through something different so there is always someone who understands and we all empathise. Hugs for your EDD.

    MissK - it's been nine weeks tomorrow for me and I remember just how you are feeling now. It is still a very raw time and it will get better. I have days and moments when I feel v. upset still but generally feel like I'm getting through it.

    Hi everyone. I've been told off for all this computer time so will have to keep this brief sorry.

    AFM, wore my new top to work today (started a new job just two days a week for the next three months) and someone asked me if I was pregnant. I teared up straight away and they were so embarrassed and I was embarrassed for it but it just caught me off-guard. Every week as Friday approaches I find myself counting the weeks I would have been.

    Enjoy the Twilight fix MurryCod - nothing like a bit of escapism to distract us! Glad you are feeling OK about the delay.

    Bye now,
    Alice x

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    Jan 2009
    Perth
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    Snuggly, great news! i am sooo pleased for you! i really hope you have a h&h remaining 8 months!

    t-hopes liked the joke!

    KitFaerie thank goodness your sil is not preggers. i can't believe she would use this as an excuse or for whatever reason, if she was not pregnant. just make sure you keep the pram as a back up...

    ferrals hope the surge means you bd at the correct time. good luck for 2 weeks time.

    murraycod, you are brave... let's see what happens in a few weeks, you might have multiples on the way

    i hope snugglys good news was the start of things to come. i hope things happen in threes.

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    Will I pray for twinnies for you Murraycod? That shouldnt be high risk right? I've seen a few triplets but they have been abit scary so should it be two I'll put in my prayers?

  4. #4

    Apr 2009
    central coast
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    Wooohoooo!!!!! got my peak on my CBFM this morning we DTD last night and will toninght and tomorrow and then i am in the TWW finally.
    You wont hear from me over the weekend DH and i are going to spend some time togther for Abbi's 1st Bday and then go to my nieces 18th i hope i get through this weekend without any tears i will take murrycods advice and think of it that Abbi is happy and healthy where she is no pain and suffering down here she is in a better place for sick babies Thanks! murrycod.
    Have a fantastic weekend and i will talk monday.

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    Aug 2009
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    Ferrals darling, I pray that his weekend is more of a release for you, than a sad one XX
    You will be in my thaughts tomorrow, and I will be lighting that candle I promised you XXX

    Snugglybean I do hope you feel ahhhh GREAT today!! Do you feel anything?? Because you know how we obsess with all that TMI stuff!!

    THopes, loved the little joke, brightened my day!X
    You an go mad with me XX

    Crafty, yeah I remember what you said, hmmm do you have psycic powers??

    Alice, sprry you had that dreaded question asked, you know it's funny hey, someone asks you a question that makes you feel like crapoli, but you then spend the next 15minutes consoling them, that you are fine. Hmmm. Have a lovely relaxing weekend honey X

    Mildez, scares me a little that we DTD that day, but weirdly excites me also, I thaught about doing the BD last night, but TBH, I am tooooo sore!!
    Seriously feel like an explosive has gone off in my girly bitts area, and am now feeling a little constipated with it all
    And as you know the WORST thing of all??? Having the 5000iu of Pregnyl, I can't even POAS if I so desperately wanted to next week, because it will come up positive no matter what the real answer...sigh...
    Mabey I could go buy a pee stick and pee on it, just for the entertainment of seeing that 2 lines do exist, and they arent just a myth!!!!

    Mummyof4, mabey I could pee on some sticks for you then send them in the mail???!!! They'd be second hand of course, but they will have 2 lines on them! Oh the drugs we take
    Good luck in your tww honey XX

    Bons my first AF after MC was terrible, hope it starts to treat you well for the weekend XX

    Sunbeam, I was very suprised to see that I had 5 follies in therr, like, I knew I was sore, but what a shock. I almost think it is suck a waste of so many good eggs!!
    When I was doing the IUI treatment, oh, awfull, I had so much trouble getting a big follie, as a lot of girls remember here, not 1 month was the same as the last, I think my last IUI was done on day 24 of my cycle, just waiting for a darn follie to grow. Now look!!

    Have a good weekend all XXX

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    Ferrals i hope that this weekend is a calm and peaceful weekend of happy memories of your beautiful girl.
    Murraycod if you have 5... can i have one? lol i can pass on the 2nd hand sticks too, i have my own, pity they only have one line on them.
    Alice- I got asked when i was due the day i went to the hospital to pick up my baby girls ashes... i was actually holding them in my hands when i was asked... i too ran off crying. i think people should mind their business some times

    SPF- where are you at? i know you just posted but you didnt include anything about you!! lol

    AFM- i am so devistaed i POAS and it is a BFN i know i am not due till monday so it could be too early but i have had 3 spots of blood... i think maybe she is coming early. I was so sure ths month was it, super tired and feeling crappy, sore boobs and soooo emotional. It has never taken me so long to get pregnant before i just dont know why we have to be punished twice iykwim. i am stressing a little that i might not get pregnant again and i am sooooo sick of living my life in 2 week blocks. in 10 days it has been 6 months since i found out Kyarna's little heart had stopped beating and then she was born the next day.... 6 months since i have held her and i dont think i am doing all that well with it.... i just want to be able to think about something happy arghhh that is not coming out the way i want it too lol
    anyway i better go got to take the munchin to school!

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    ~mummyof4~ so sorry that the stupid test was a BFN. But your right it could be too early. As for feeling like you have been punished twice I feel exactly the same. Its been 6.5months since I lost my wee little baby (or it was surgical removed as I see it with my fertility) I am grieving for not just the bubs I have lost but my fertility (as my tube was also removed at the time) it really stinks. I am sure it will happen for you soon just unfortunately that hasnt been in the time frame you would expect or want. It can be a real insult to your body to give birth at any gestation so it can take some time to get back to how you were before. I hope thats happened now and your about to get another BFP.

    murraycod I'd be a wee bit excited also. Then if its a BFP you will be very anxious at that first scan counting heads. Hope this it it for you (just not 5) I only say that as I know the risks to you and bubs. But honestly what are the chances of that many? It would have to be a miracle or 5! I so hope this is it. Can you take any herbs or something to help the lining? I dont know much about lining thicknesses so can't help you there or suggest anything.

    CD6 for me. Another 8days just til I have fertility signs.

  8. #8
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    Sep 2009
    WA
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    Ferrals have a happy peacful weekend I managed to get through mine so I hope you do too, yay for pos fertility I am wondering if mine is working but its only day 10 for me and all my sticks look the same big fat blue line on the left nothing only the tinyest hint of a line on the left, oh well time will tell maybe this time next week on day 17 for me who knows.

    Murraycod well I do sometimes think of things and then later on they happen just as I imagined so maybe I am a little bit physcic ( cant spell sorry ) I also dream of people no longer here and they normally have a message for me ! so who knows !!!!!!!!!

    Mumof4 I hear you its been 6mnths for me also and its not getting any easier I keep busy with the kids I have at home but there is still that emptyness I feel every morning, I too wonder why we have to be punished but hey we are not alone so lets get through this together and try and be positive,

    Had this link sent to me and found it very interesting I wonder if anyone else will so incase you will I have added it


    I want to get pregnant now: This Little Device Can Boost Your Chance of Getting Pregnant!

    Maybe the answer to me getting UTD

    speak later