thread: Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage or Loss March 2010

  1. #289
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    Gee you all move fast!

    Thanks to everyone for the welcome, pride is taking a backburner atm, feeling too sick with the flu to pay any attention to it, about time too I think.

    No persies today, would take too long to go back and do them, and by the time I get back to here I'll have forgotten what I was going to say anyway.

    Anyway, 6dpo today, temp decided to go up to 36.4 for a change this morning, instead of 36.2 or 36.3... looks much nicer on my chart anyway lol

    It's been an odd day today, as I realised that 2 years ago today I had the flu really bad and DS had just been conceived, we found out I was preg with him on April 8th and 2 weeks later DH proposed, so it's a good time of year for us.

    3 days ago I had stinging pains 2 inches directly below my belly button for approx 15 mins, then a few times later that night for a couple of minutes at a time. Tonight I have painful cramping on the left side just inside my left hip, though it seems to be dying off a bit atm.

    In the car this afternoon I had a wave of nausea go straight through me, and thought I was going to puke, and all afternoon I was getting hot flushes like I did last cycle and the cycle with the chem, I didn't get hot flushes in the cycle inbetween the 2, but I'm thinking it might have something to do with the flu since I obviously don't have a fever of any sort. Come to think of it, I didn't have a fever when I was preg with DS either... the temps I did in the evenings back then while ill were all 36.5-36.6 (done orally, and we weren't trying for a bub back then either lol I was even on the pill of all things).

    So anyway, technically we are taking a 'break' from TTC this month and next month, but as we haven't used protection the break has kinda been cancelled out... we just didn't time DTD this month... only DTD twice anyway, on CD12 and CD15, so ther's a chance we'll get UTD anyway. Maybe. I hope so.

    Wishing everyone a wonderful easter, sending lots of baby dust, and praying that everyone gets their sticky BFP's very very very soon!

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    Hi there - wouldloveabubba, Possum magic & TTCAlovechild - Thanks for the warm welcome

    So I'm not sure whether this is anything other than psychological but... yesterday i was at work and after my dinner, say around 7 pm I started to feel nauseous. I thought nothing of it. However same thing happened again at around 7 pm tonight - after dinner also! I still feel a little queasy... Not sure if it's anything or nothing... Fingers crossed...

    Best wishes to you all!

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    Apr 2010
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    Hi jelly love,

    That sounds good to me. I can never understand how symptoms can appear this early but i do believe it.

    Since i spoke to you all yesterday i still feel the same but not any worse. I do however have more breast tenderness today so i am sure it is a positive sign. I just feel it and will be so surprised if i don't get a bfp in a few days.

    I realised that i never shared any personal information with you all only that i had a miscarriage a few months ago. So here it goes. I have three children from 2years to 7 years and before the last loss i had another miscarriage between my first and second child. It will give anyone hope that is worried about having a health pregnancy after a loss. I had two but then miscarried again. I was so stressed and busy at the time and it has all calmed down now so fingers crossed.
    Just to add is the event that you didn't allready notice but i am addicted to poas!

    On 4 out of my 5 previous pregnancies i had symptoms before Af but never chills but i still just know.

    I am hoping i am not being over confident( so sorry about spelling mistakes i am awfull).

    I have to say that this post is great and i can't believe i have never spent my tww doing this before.It is great to follow all your stories and i hope everything works out for everyone.

    I will probably poas tomorrow 8dpo and again at 9 and 10. Last pregnancy was a positive at 10dpo but i just can't help myself. So scared about both a negative and a positive result. Couldn't face another loss but must stay positive.

    I'll keep you all posted
    Chat tomorrow

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    Hope all the injections went well last night ladies...

    Rose, you sound so much like me, i had a baby then a loss then two babies and then an ectopic in feb... I am also addicted to POAS..... Would love a BFP but like you it will be a rocky road to believe all will be ok. I know my DH will not go again if we MC again... Good luck to you this month. I am 12DPO... Nothing here yet.

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    I tested this morning - BFN. My heart feels so heavy So, now the best case scenario is that I get AF today, or very very soon. Gonna temp this cycle, and get some maca root. Bye bye Christmas baby xo xo

    Sorry for the me post, will be back later to do persies, and will hopefully be feeling much more positive!

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    jennajayen,jellylove &rose123-sounding positive for you guys,hope were inandated with bfp's...tegam-12 dpo is still early...kitfaerie-sorry about bfn,if af comes remember that having a bfp next month will be a great way to bring in the new year in 2011.thinking of everyone

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    Apr 2009
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    Thanks for the Birthday wishes girls.

    There is so many post's so catch up on.
    First though i want to say good luck for sunday Mathews mum i hope those other follicles catch up and you get a good number of eggs.

    Welcome jellylove-sorry for your loss hope you get your BFP soon.

    Wouldloveabubba-I'd do it to and chances are not all 16 follicles will release an egg only the real big ones will good luck hun.

    Kitfaerie-sorry for the BFN hun i know how you feel sux i wanted a 2010 baby to.

    Murrycod-Thanks for my Bday wishes sorry AF turned up at your house now you can get ready and in the right head space for May because that will be our month.

    Sorry for not replying to everyone there is just way to many if you miss a day of posts you get left behind.

    AFM- well i had a great day yesterday just DH and i he spoilt me he brought me a beautiful diamond eternity ring and a bunch of roses from him and my boys AF still has not shown i am 3 days late from last AF date but 1 day late from when i ovulated i feel funny down below a bit tender like when i have AF but so far nothing i expect she will show today.

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    Ferrals: Are you gonna test? Oh fingers crossed your UTD!

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    Apr 2010
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    Tegam,
    Good luck hon, not long now ,i'll be thinking of you. We are the same about trying if we have another loss but we'll try a be positive. Keep us posted.

    Kitfaerie
    So sorry about bfn . The new year always brings the best of new things. Wishing you a New year baby.
    Last edited by rose123; April 3rd, 2010 at 09:53 AM.

  10. #298
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    ferals4 - Thank you for the warm welcome - best of luck to you too

    Rose123 - I tried researching symptoms in very early pregnancy but didn't find anything useful so i came to the conclusion i was crazy strange how the sickness was at the same time so i'll see if it happens again tonight! Best of luck for POAS

    KitFaerie - Sorry for your BFN, I agree though - New year baby for you would be excellent!

    Anyway, I have to go to work now - so don't want to - surprisingly I managed to get myself out of bed this early - recently I've had a very bad habit of sitting up on the laptop for hours until 3am sometimes and then not getting out of bed until 11am - and then being so tired all day! It's crazy - hopefully get out of that habit soon. Speak to you all later! Take care xo

  11. #299
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    Dec 2009
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    hiya girls...

    kit - sorry to hear about the BFN - crappy huh ive also missed out on my 2010 bubba but feeling very excited now about my 2011 bubba! As long as it doesnt take us in to 2012 then i think we should be right!

    ferrals - so glad to hear you had a nice birthday!!! And so spoilt you are!!! Good on you!!!

    matthewsmum / wouldloveabuuba - good luck with everything! happy triggering!!! x

    HI to everyone else too including the lurkers - dont be shy, its good to share! xx

    afm - had my acupunture again this morn, always feel so much calmer after! Just pottering around home today with my 2 doggies, weve had a lovely day together! They are the best!!!
    No news from me though, AF has left the building and now just focusing on feeling good and happy to catch the egg this month! This is our month, it will happen, i can feel it! Come on girls - we can do it!!!!

    Well gotta fly gals, off to see the Saints smash North Melb tonight with DH! ! Go Saints!

    xx

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    Afternoon ladies, hope you're all having a good day.

    KitFaerie - Big Hugs darl!

    Ferrals - I'm keeping my fingers crossed that you get that BFP!

    T-Hopes - Have fun tonight!

    JellyLove - I do the same thing, only with the computer, not the laptop lol DH hates it when I'm on here because I don't talk to him for ages lol

    Hi to everyone else!

    afm - Still feeling yuck, but I'm better than I was, not as congested as I was, just have the start of a sore throat that feels like I have constant reflux
    BB's are sore, and I'm NOT BLOATED!!! The first cycle since last year that I haven't been bloated almost every day!!! Yay!!! I'm so excited lol I fit back into my size 16 jeans properly again
    My back is starting to get sore again too, so that's a plus in the TTC department, it seems to always get really sore when I'm UTD instead of the usual acheiness pre-AF.
    AND..........
    My temp rose to 36.5 today!

    Here's my CHART... I'd appreciate it if you would all have a look and tell me what you think

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    afternoon all- ferrals-i bet your ring is beautiful,i'll have to get on to my dh about one of those...jellylove-hope you manage to get some sleep tonight...t-hopes-let the fun begin...jennajayen-sorry,i've never charted,hope someone comes on soon who is more help to you...thanks girls for your good wishes,hospital has rang for their money,credit card to the rescue,getting nervous...

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    Kitfaerie-No i havn't tested since thurs because i really feel like AF will come and if i were UTD it would have shown up by now if AF hasn't shown by mon then i will test again.
    Thanks for crossing your fingers for me but i pretty sure i am not pregnant.

    T-hopes-have fun at the footy tonight.

    Jennajayen-isn't it nice not feeling bloated and your chart looks good could that be an implantation dip just before your temp rise.

    Mathewsmum-my ring is beautiful i love it.
    OUCH!!! the ivf and the credit card it scared the hell out of me seeing my $15,000 credit card all of a sudden have $14,000 taken for one cycle i had to use a lot of my savings for the orgalutran injections and all the workup appt's ect and that was on top of the $14k so it hit us hard we did get $8,000 back but there is no way we could afford PGD IVF again i have my fingers and toes crossed it all turns out and you get your BFP 1st go.

    AFM-GRRRRR! still no AF i cant work out what is going on with my body i even got all worked up this morning and dragged DH back to bed to fool around which didnt bring AF on if anything it made me want more i feel a bit achey down below like AF wants to come but nothing before the ivf i was like clockwork now every 2nd month i am late by days what has happened to my body is it because i am getting old my cycles are getting longer

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    Hey all,

    Once again, there are a million post. Good luck to all that are late for their AF. Lets hope it doesnt come

    I hope everyone is feeling well. I have read all the post but have to get to dinner. Its 7 already. eh! Should have had it by now.

    AFM - Feel crap! My emotions are going up and down from losing my lil man. The last week ive felt so crushed.
    Ive had a few tummy pains lately and my "ladies"(not sure what letters are used lol sorry) have been feeling heavy and sore. Dont know why. I keep thinking i be.... but its to early for signs right? AF due bout the 16th going from my last one.

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    MANY MANY HAPPY RETURNS OF THE DAY DEAR FERRALS

    Jenna - your chart looks promosing to me, wait for 2-3 days confirmation of temp rise...Hope this is your month...i am 9 dpo today and nice to have bfp this cycle...we can be cycle buddies in ff. my user name is ringsxyz, i will send you a invitie, if you dont mind

    Ferrals - whats going on? testing again? all the best.

    MurrayCod - how are you feeling? i am having busy days in new job, not getting enough time to check emails, i havent checked past msgs as well. hope this is your month lovey, i really wish a bfp for you.
    t-hopes - how are you? hows acupunture going on?
    Hi Anita - how are you?

    tc
    will post again

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    JennaJayen, Same! I don't go on the laptop when DF is around haha! Ah you should get a laptop then you can actually be in bed with it haha! It's bad though when your all snuggly in bed and you need a wee....

    MissK, Sorry you are feeling so crap - wish you all the best for testing... And apparently it's not too early for signs!!

    T-hopes, This is the month! hehe best of luck!

    Matthew's Mum, Thanks - I hope I do too, but I am addicted to the internet *sigh*

    Take care all xo

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    hi to all the newbies, this thread seems to be overflowing, it's not fair so many wonderful people have to end up in here.

    happy belated birthday ferrals, sounds like you were spoilt, and you still have your little kitty to look forward to! hope af is late for a reason, and you get your bfp this month.

    Matthew's Mum i wish you all the luck for this cycle, i hope it goes well for you.

    T-hopes sorry af turned up, i know i was crushed in my first month trying after m/c, but we got our bfp the next try, so i have everything crossed for you. i think with all the herbs and acupuncture you are in with a very good chance!

    KitFaerie did af turn up yet, cuz if not you are still in with a chance, sometimes it just takes longer to implant and so longer to show up on a test.

    Mummyof4, you should book yourself that appointment, it will take a lot of stress off your mind when you see that heartbeat. but i know it's going to be hard for you till you get past the 17 week mark.

    sorry for not many persies, i wish you all the best with your ttc journeys and good luck to those of you in the tww x

    afm, was my EDD day today, and i feel like everyone has forgotten. even dh didn't know i just have to look forward to my 12 week scan in 5 days, and hope we see a baby this time.
    Last edited by scarypinkfairy; April 3rd, 2010 at 08:46 PM.

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