pash - it's a shark in my avatar. It's the symbol for the footy team I support. My DH and I are sports crazy I know what you mean by not wanting to get your hopes up, but sometimes that is a good thing, because we just never know what is around the corner, so we may as well be positive about it.

I think I will definitely miss the baby show. I'm a bit like you and like to dream and plan, but also don't like the reminders. The odd thing is, before I was pregnant I would always be looking in baby shops and planning everything, and then as soon as I was pregnant I didn't want to buy anything too soon - "just in case" - which was just as well in the end.

Sharon - Hmm, I just realised that we are both married to Paul's. Strange men! Did you point out to him that there are many overweight woman falling pregnant and having babies all the time and that's no reason to stop BDing! I've never understood why people think being overweight can cause infertility - isn't it rather that being overweight can be a symptom of something else, which is really the cause of the infertility??? Or maybe it's me that doesn't understand???? Anyway lots of *hugs* and I hope your day improves.