Hi Shoegal, sorry to hear of your loss...you have come to the right place...

It is a good sign (IYKWIM) that you bhCG is as low as 13 already, mine is still at 29 and that is 7 weeks after my D&C but in saying that AF came for me yesterday!!

So when AF will come is like guessing how long a piece of string is...it differs so much for everybody...

Yes, there is a lot of differing opinion about when to start TTC again, and whether to wait for AF...my GP says wait for at least one AF as this gives the lining of your uterus a chance to rebuild nicely, and my ObGyn said wait for one AF as when you have just lost, your uterus can be a little 'irritable' and not as sticky.....but in saying that plenty of people have conceived straight away and have had problem free pgs..

I guess the usual advice is to get as much advice as you can then make a decision thatis best for you and that you feel comfortable with..

You are welcome to join the Waiting for AF after MC or D&C Club, in the M&L Thread - lots of ladies at the same stage as you...very welcoming and superbly helpful..

Take care of you
Love Alex
xx