thread: Trying to conceive after Miscarriage or Loss May 2009

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  1. #1
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    Sep 2008
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    Wow Cherrished CONGRATS and ps would love the bread recipies, I really do miss my carbs especially when TWW. But wow good on you

    for you Ferals hopefully it was implantation for both of us

    Anila hope you feel better today.

    Thanks for your research to SmallFryPlus There are just too many sights aren't there

    Sunbeam I am so hopeful for a BFP this Monday DP is off for the weekend and I didn't want to let him go this morning even if he did keep me up all night with his cold (caugh, spit, grumble etc etc) but he'll be back for the good news Seams like all our bodies are being odd at the moment. Maybe it's good odd

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    Aug 2008
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    YAY
    cherished
    CONGRATULATIONS!!
    that is awesome news
    so very happy for you


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    Yay yay yay cherished that is fantastic news I'm so excited for you
    Sending you lots of

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    My mini fight with hubby last night became a big fight at 1.30 in the morning and cause he was very loud, he woke up some kids, poor grace said to me this morning that she heard us, i feel so bad, he was doing the yelling not me.
    Everything just got made into something bigger than what it really is, and the stress of the last few weeks just took over i think.
    I was telling my mum about it this morning and the first thing she said, is maybe u shouldnt have any more kids, im like it was a verbal fight, many people have them, im just so frustrtaed, grrrrrr!!!

    and i dont think i have o yet but i keep thinking i might be pregnant, i wish my brain would stop that cause ill be very upset if af comes next week.

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    Hi Everyone,

    CONGRATULATIONS CHERISHED. That is fantastic news Wishing you a H&H pregnancy!

    Well, i'm over and out. Ob just rang and my hcg levels are negligable, so it's back to the drawing board i guess. I figured that anyways, as I did a preg test this morning again and it was negative. I really didn't expect it to survive the period i just had but you guys know that you always cling to any sign of hope there is. She managed to put my mind at rest cause I've been doing too much reading on the net and had conviced myself that there was something more sinister going on - molar pregnancy, carcinomas - you name it i reckon i had it?!?!? was doing my head in, but she's very thorough and ensures me that nothing bad is going on. she's basically leaving it up to me if i want to ttc again this month, but did hint it might be better to wait a month, both for my physical and mental wellbeing.
    so......will continue to track my cycle this month with temp and opk, and hope for some luck next month.
    hope you're all doing well and again CONGRATULATIONS TO CHERISH!

    thanks
    Jules

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    Thanks girls! OMG I am just soooooo excited! Still can't believe it! Just got home from work and the line is still on the stick! I Just made the ob appointment, I could have gone in at 7 weeks (as they take 8 weeks as being from the 1st day of your last period) BUT because I really ovulated a week later I knew I would 'really' only be 7 weeks... SO I told them I ovulated late and that I wanted to go in when the fetus is 'really' 8 weeks because we lost the last one at 8 weeks 3 days..... In many ways I want to go in straight way / as soon as possible but I know I would worry about loosing them at 8 weeks if I did go in early, so if I get the scan done at 8 weeks I will be able to relax knowing everything is fine!

    Sorry for a selfish post I am just too excited to think of anything else although I do feel for everyone having a hard time... I love you all and me getting a BFP so soon after the m/c just shows you all that it can happen so please don't give up hope... Now I just pray that everything will be fine with this little on

    juleswa big hugs for you honey and Anila only you know if you heart if you should be having more children with your husband
    Last edited by Cherished; May 22nd, 2009 at 08:39 PM.

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    Apr 2009
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    Ok i have an update i got a call from the prof at R.N.S they are sending tissue samples off for testing for a certain enzym to get a more definate answer as what syndryome abbi had the 1st is SMITH LEMI OPITZ SYNDROME the other is PALLISTER HALL SYNDROME the first is from mutated gene's that the parent's carry with a 1 in 4 chance it will happen in each pregnancy and the other would be a 1 off new mutation which means we wouldn't be carrier's or it could be somthing similar to those as they said her abnormalities were so servere they are trying as quick as they can to get an answer for us and the genetic councilor is very interested to know the out come as it is very rare so god i hope they get an answer and it's the pallister hall syndrome if it's the other they can't test for it in ivf embryos but they can through cvs at 11 week's.

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    Aug 2008
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    congrats again cherished

    yeah we will be ok, just like i said everything just got on top of him, we want more kids, its what both our hearts wants, he is just really scared of me getting my hopes up and having another mc.

    but i think i may have o after all, i was having heaps of weird pain last night cd 17, and today cd 18 i had a small amount of clear ewcm, so i hope that means im at 1 dpo, i usually o cd 19, so its prtetty close!!
    we dtd yesterday so fingers crosssed we got that egg!