Trying to conceive after Miscarriage or Loss May 2009

[milly5]

I made him a really funny book called "A gay boy's guide to girly bits and making babies"

That is so funny!!! and after you publish it you can then edit it slightly - with help from us here at BB so we can then give it to our partners!!! LOL

[Sunbeam]

That is so funny!!! and after you publish it you can then edit it slightly - with help from us here at BB so we can then give it to our partners!!! LOL

Hehehe it would be pretty perfect, it's very male focussed as it's only 12 pages long

[mrzbaby]

Cherished 1 sent you a message you clever thing!!!

Ferrals4: Hun thoughts and wishes with you and your DH. Hoping for the best outcome for you.

AFM: Well my cousin had her baby this morning not doing as well as I thought I would about it.
I had spoken to mum about how i was felling beofre she had it and she said she wouldn't make a big thing about it and that if I didn't want to visit then it would be ok.
Well it was Mum who rang to tell me and then i had to go really quickly told her this...rang her back and she was like oh are you ok, how are you.....I'm like what are you on about...she is like the bay ....I said yeah thats good glad she and bub are ok what else do you want me to say ...Mum said well you could call and say congrats!!!!!!!!.............Me: fuming angry yelling voice in my head says : what congrats that you smoked and drank throughout your whole pregnancy and you got to have a healthy baby!!!!!!!!!!!!.....I just said yeah bit busy will ring in a few days.......

I have not stopped crying...it is pouring rain has been for days.....feeling really blah.


Anyhow enough of me .......has anyone seen Jen??????????

Em

[Greenslw]

Happy weekend Ladies

I just dropped my step son at his mum and I"m relaxing with some yummy bread, cup of honey lemon drink (my new coffee) and catching up on all the goss.

Had the BEST sleep DP was away and no caughing was bliss. Miss him but not when he has a 'mancold"

Sunbeam, I love your book, I taught sexed to year 10's I bet they could use one of those too. can you tell me about the temp thing? can you use this with IVF too?

Anila, I love that term "free one" sometimes you've just goto, I feel alot of pressure during BD atm and afte I O it makes me feel sick. wonder what it means,

Smallfryplus I really hope things happen in 3's too

Cherished I got your recipe Thank you will give it a go I'm sure it will be yummy. Glad you're embrasing your symptoms it's worth it when it's real

Ferrals, did you do a PT? or is it too soon, still got my for you with your doctors appointment

MrzBaby Some days life is too hard, teers are good for the soal. Send some rain to me k... It's still dry under my mulch

Hmmmm a question about CM does it continue during pregnancy?

[Anila]

hey there Greenslw

Hmmmm a question about CM does it continue during pregnancy?

i was always under the impression that it does, i dont remember my other pregnancies as i never took noitice, but my recent one, i didnt have any at all, actually i had heaps at around o, then none with the bfp, and none since i lost the baby either.

and i so here u on the man cold, lol, my hubby has one and the couching, plezzz make it stop, its not nice ladies cough, its horrid man one, lol.

[milly5]

Hi everyone - just a quick post.

Hmmmm a question about CM does it continue during pregnancy?

For me it did - alot - I remember running to the toilet several times because it would come out in a real flowing gush. Others I had spoken to have also said it did for them.

Oh yes, and man cold .........................

[ferrals5]

Afternoon ladie's
I'm still packing and cleaning YUK!!!!

Greenslw- yes i have done a pt and it was a BFN i spotted for 2 days then nothing so i don't think i am AF is just late cause i'm stressed i think and when i was pregnant i had lot's of cm.

Sunbeam- LOL you made me laugh i had a visual of you with a turkey baster but i think it's fantastic what you and your donor daddy are doing good luck and the book what a great idea.

Mrzbaby-sweet i know how hard it is and the last thing you want to do is to congradulate someone who has done all the wrong things and had a baby i am dreading when my sister inlaw has her baby it will shatter me.

Anila-after a few mths of trying to get pregnant with abbi we did doggy every time for somthing different and we got pregnant that mth so hope it works and it sounds like DH is ok with the TTC again told you he would come around.

Anyway as my AF just wont show and keeps me guessing im going to have my way with my man as he is home tonight (YIPPEEEE!!!)and we will bring them on .

[Cherished]

Hi my lovlies

MrzBaby it is just sooooo annoying when someone even gets pg and has a baby who wasn't trying to or if they abuse their body while they are pg

Ferrals I thought you must have had AF as your ticker is on CD1? Hope you did get is soon then...

Hello to everyone else and thank you all so much for all of your support, I love you all and that I have given you all hope that it can happen again so soon after a m/c or a D&C and I can't wait to hear about all of your BFP's really soon. I was brave last night and joined my belly buddy thread but I will drop back in here from time to time to see how you all are.

[juleswa]

Cherished - how long ago was your m/c? if you don't mind me asking. i'm having the old do we ttc again straight away, or wait a month debate.

[Sunbeam]

Hello ladies ,

Greenslw- many of us follow our temp rises and falls so we know when we are most likely to ovulate and therefore need to BD. I'm not sure you'd need to with IVF as the hormones they'd be giving you would affect your temps and they'd be controlling when they transfer eggs or embryos. Is that what you were asking? Let me know if I've misunderstood.

Mrzbaby- I know how horribly unfair it feels when someone who takes no care of themselves falls pregnant and has a trouble free pregnancy with no effort at all .

Personally am really trying to practise embracing life in what ever form as my holistic naturopath clinic encourages positivity as much as possible as it is best for our bodies and minds. Often soooo much easier said than done.

A freind of mine fell pregnant within days of me and we were so excited about being pregnant together and planned to go to pregnancy yoga. I have decided to do the yoga with her still (if they'll let me while not pregnant) in the hope that pregnancy pheromones will waft around me and help me conceive I know it will be hard seeing her get bigger knowing I'd be the same if I had not m/c but I am still so happy for her because she's had a horrible journey too losing her precious girl at 16 weeks pregnant and taking over 18 months to get pg again.

[ferrals5]

Cherished1-yeh i thought AF had started to they cant make up there mind spotting 3 times now but nothing else i will change my ticker tomorrow if AF turns up

[Cherished]

Jules I've turned off my ticker in this thread, it has my charts on it from fertility friend... I will pm you :P But to answer the question I had the D&C on March 20th and started charting straight away and ttc than I ovulated, got AF, ovulated again and now I am pregnant again, 7 weeks later YAY!!!! I AGONISED about how long to wait OMG it drove me INSANE... all I wanted was to be pregnant again, I'm sure you all know that feeling... Many people tell you to wait 3 months, others say to wait one cycle to let your lining build up again and the acupuncturist even said to wait 6 months (AS IF!) What I found out was that if you did happen to get pregnant straight after the D&C (without waiting to get AF first) the worst thing that could happen is your lining wouldn't be thick enough and you would m/c WITHOUT EVEN KNOWING IT... ie you would just get your period and be none the wiser (unless of course you took a very early pg test) So I thought what the heck I will start trying straight way. I am so happy that I am pregnant again so that all you girls have hope and know that it can happen... I wish 7 weeks ago I had read this post and know someone who had gotten pregnant again quickly. I'm not sure if you read my post yesterday (it might have been in another thread actually I can't remember) BUT the only thing different about this cycle was that I had HEAPS of fertile CM (WCM or EWCM) like 10 days worth, I usually only have 2-3 days worth... And the only thing which my body did differently was have a D&C 7 weeks ago and I had 2x bowen therapy treatments after that af... Apparently there is a move they do around the tail bone which can increase fertility.... Now I don't know if that is responsible for all the great fertile CM but it is worth a try for anyone who wants to give it a go HTH

Sunbeam I love your outlook you sound just like me... embrace everything! It really is liberating (for me anyway) to have health as my number one priority and to experience many natural therapies etc... It really is wonderful for mind body & soul

Hello everyone else... Ferrals I will be keeping an eye on you

[ferrals5]

Morning ladie's

Well last night seemed to work it made my spotting worse so i guess AF is here just really light maybe because i was so heavy last month.
I didn't sleep well last night i had looked up the two syndrome's that the genetisist think's abbi might have had the first is PALLISTER HALL SYNDROME the other is SMITH LEMLI OPITZ SYNDROME or a syndrome similar so i kept thinking what if we keep getting pregnant with affected babies what if we can't get pregnant again what if they recomend PGD IVF how can we afford that what if it dosn't work the first cycle then i started thinking how could it be possible that we might be carrier's there is no family history on either side and we have healthy kid's to our ex's then i started to think maybye we should give up our dream before we go through more pain and just get on with our lives and enjoy the kid's we have to our ex's.
so i didn't sleep real good anyway i hope you girl's enjoy the rest of your weekend i have to go to work at 2 until midnight so i will catch up with you all tomorrow.

[Cherished]

oh ferrals honey come hear and let me give you a big hug You can get private health cover 'hospital only' and it covers IVF, it's cheaper without having 'extras' cover, if you want to look into it dh & I are with AHM,we are pretty happy with them and have been with them for about 18 months now HTH

[ferrals5]

Thanks cherished we are with nib but they dont cover ivf unless i take out a higher cover i will look into those tomorrow i'm off to work see ya in the morning .

[Greenslw]

Hi Ladies,
I'm sitting here with a PT and I'm not sure if i should or shouldn't. I've semi decided I should because I will find out results at work tomorrow and the old "want to be prepared" side of me is strong. If its BFP then yaya I get a BT tomorrow if it's BFN then I'll be ok when the BT confirms it. I am so confused. My DP is still away and didn't really want me to test at home. Being you can get false BFN...... ahhhh what to do....

[Greenslw]

OMG I'm pregnant .............

[Anila]

YAY CONGRATS Greenslw,
that is awesome news
i am so happy for you!!!!