MurryCod my love I had really strong cramps in my TWW before getting our BFP, so strong that I was convinced AF was on her way. It is normal to have cramps, it doesn't mean this little embie isn't going to stick. Don't forget you will be physically exhausted from the last 10 days of injections and your egg pick up, not to mention a drive to and from Adelaide. You need to rest, as much as you can. I know my FS is happy to give me doctors certificates for as long as I need. Even if you can skip work just for the next two days to let yourself recover some energy that would be good. And don't feel guilty about it! You don't need to washing the oldies right now - I worked as a nurse assistant in a nursing home for years so I know how tiring and demanding that work is. Give yourself a break if you can. It's hard not to analyse every single twinge and pain, I know, just rest please and re-read Twilight and eat chocolate and know that there is nothing you can do now that you haven't already done - what will be, will be. And the fact you've had such excellent fertilisation rates and great little embies shows your body is ready and can do this - you are in with a good chance lovely, you are. Big hugs - you post as often as you need to. xxx
PS Bah about your sex life - it will come back! You've had five years TTC, a mc and three rounds of IVF - it's not exactly conducive to bding! Even if you feel like it you're too damn sore to think about it! When you recover from all the prodding and poking, you'll feel like it again. It's the least of your worries right now - lots of love and hugs is what you need. And chocolate. Did I mention chocolate?
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