Just had another miscarriage. The first one happened four years ago, I was only 22, didn't even know what that was. But this time, it really hurts ~~~ (Both were unplanned pregnancies)
After two miscarriages, I really want a baby now. Will start trying after two cycles, good luck to me and all other ladies who TTC.
I'm also lurking while at work, but just had to say to T.Y. I'm so sorry for your losses. But you have found a great group of ladies here who will support you through your TTC journey when you are ready to begin.
T.Y.-- I'm so very sorry to hear of your losses. We all desperately all understand that yearning for a child after a m/c, so we can all understand where you're coming from. I pray that your TTC journey is a short one, and you're blessed with a quick, sticky BFP!! You've come to the right place for comfort and support!
Mannie--Some more for you!!
WTH--Have to send you some extra as well! Saying lots of prayers for you!
Hi buliej!! *hugs*
Hannah & Megsmum--Wishing you both the best of luck during the last half of your TWW!
Toccara and Mannie - wonderful news. Very happy and excited for you both.
Just a quick one from me today as I am meant to be working. Have been lurking last week as very anxious on TWW and didn't have much to say. Anyway I am pretty sure frostie didn't stick. Just waiting on results of BT but had some spotting this morning so think AF is very close. Disappointed but trying to stay positive. Think we can go straight into another frostie transfer providing AF shows in next couple of days (labs apparently close over xmas so cut off for AF is Dec 2 or 5?) I do have some nice news though. Spent weekend in sydney and my darling partner proposed to me - so finally am engaged - yahoo!! Over the moon about this.
T.Y. -- welcome Sorry for your losses. Glad you could join us but really wish you didn't have to be here. Hope that your stay is short and ends with a BFP and a sticky, beautiful bub.
Hannah, WTH, Babymiracles, Mel & Megsmum that everything works out for each and everyone of you.
mollycat - Thanks hun, hoping that this cycle will be the one for you too!
babymiracles - Oh no, I'm so sorry to hear this cycle looks like not working for you Not much consolation I know, but at least you can go straight onto another FET...and big big congratulations on your engagement
Toccara - for a BFP!!
HannahD and Mel1979 - hope those symptoms are a good sign for you both!
Jen - Thanks for the luck, will take it gratefully...I think I'm going to need it Oh well though, that's the way things go...not too many sleeps to go now.
TY - Welcome and I'm so very sorry for your losses
OMG, Toccara, I'm SO happy for you! Congratulations, doll! Sending you the biggest hugs and the stickiest vibes! Saying tons of prayers to God to protect and watch over this little one!! Wow, you really snuck this one in there didn't you? lol.... I'm so, so, super stoked for you!!!! *hugs* Wishing you a happy, healthy, and STICKY 9 months!
smi--Hey, girl! I'm so NOT ready for the holidays this year! This is by far my least organized Thanksgiving--and Christmas... OMG... not even close to being ready for that! But I do absolutely love this time of year--I just hate being broke during this time of year! lol.... But DF got cleared to go back to work on Monday, so woo hoo! So sorry to hear about the Lupus causing you pain... big *hugs* and hope you feel better soon!
Mel& Hannah--Hmmm....sounds like some promising symptoms! Keeping my fingers crossed for you both!
babymiracles--Congratulations on your engagement! Good luck with your BT results, and sending lots of anti-AF vibes your way!
mollycat--Hey you! How's things going with you? Your temps seem a little low this month... has it been cold there in the am's?
Megsmum-- for your BT on Friday!!
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Many thanksssssssssssssssssssssss for your comfort ladies.
I now just wish time goes faster, so that I could try again very soon.
Have been reading the posts here about when to conceive after mc, seems like some people fell pregnant just after mc, I thought we have to wait until we get our period first, would that be any harm if we don't wait?
Thanks again ladies. I feel much better now, so glad to find this place.
TY - I've been struggling with the same question. My take is that some dr's recommend waiting up to 3 months, while others say it isn't necessary to wait at all. Also, I think that some dr's want you to wait at least 1 month so that you know when your last AF is so that they can date the pregnancy - but with the sophisticated ultrasounds they have, this isn't really necessary as they can date pregnancies from the size of the fetus measured during U/S. I think a lot of people would also say, it depends on how you feel physically and mentally. I think there's no single right answer. I do know that my dr was very clear that I shouldn't have sex or even swim until all bleeding had stopped as both increase the risk of infection. This may only apply to a d&c (my situation) and not all miscarriages - I don't know. I've decided to wait until 1 regular AF - and even if my FS won't do IVF so soon, at least we can give it a go on our own...but this is just our personal choice.
Hi all, I know it is very early days, I began to miscarry on Wednesday night and still am. It is a horrible thing to go through. It can be very awkward and lonely so I am very grateful that I found this wonderful website. I am wondering how long (the bleeding) will last, it is quiet heavy & clots +++ - SORRY FOR TMI. Although I am still devastated I am feeling a bit better today - realising that something just was not right. How long till we can TTC again? I have heard the womb needs to replenish nutrients etc, but I have also read that you are very fertile after MC. Thanks for replies and for such a wonderful website. I am hooked.
Maddysmum - I'm so so sorry for your loss. I can't help with how long the bleeding will last as I had a D&C. But as for when to TTC again, its completely up to you (unless your doctor gives you a medical reason not to right away). Most advice is to wait at least one cycle to allow the lining to build back up (probably more of an issue if D&C) and to date the next pregnancy more accurately. Take this time to say goodbye to your angel. You have a found a great place here with wonderful, supportive ladies who all know what you are going through. I don't know where I'd be without them.
Mel - Glad you're feeling a little better. *hugs* And yay for enjoying the holiday season! Goodluck with clomid in 2009.
mollycat - How are you?
jen - Hope your turkey was worth the wait!
babymiracles - Yay for FET before the end of the year. it works. Hope AF is taking it easy on you.
megsmum - How did the appointment with FS go?
possums - I'm doing ok thanks. Don't worry, I keep staring at babies too. And pregnant women. Got caught staring at a pregnant woman's belly this morning. She was about as far long as I would be by now. *sigh*
toccara, plc, ajc, krystie, mannie, fifi
Big hello and to buliej, jenushka, ruthie, smi, ty, indy, princess, mo3b, wth and anyone I have missed.
afm - Well, I'm still hanging in there. Not feeling so positive the last couple of days. Will just have to wait and see what happens Tuesday morning. Have had to pee a lot today though...
Last edited by Tuesday's Child; November 28th, 2008 at 05:54 PM.
I wanted to pop in and let you all know I've been around...but I think I'm in the beginning stages of a Lupus flare and all my joints are hurting...so needless to say typing is a little painful right now.
tutmae...CONGRATS on your little babydolly!
WTH... for a sticky
jen...Saturday was wonderful...trying to get the house ready for family this week...you ready for the holidays? I just LOVE this time of year...
Mannie...I am sooooo for you!!!
Alrighty gurlies...I gotta get to work...it's a short week but the load is the same LOL!
I had a blood test done today and I got a BFP!!! My first appt is next week on the 4th so pray for me and send me lots of stickyvibes girls I'm so hoping thrid times the charm for me !!!
Sorry for the quick post but I am getting ready for work. I did write a really long post last night with heaps of persies but the website kept timing out and I lost it - twice!
Just wondering if anyone has ever had bad cramping and tenderness and some back pain (a cross between ovulation and period pain). I am 8 dpo ovulation so it can't be my period as it is too early. I am really bloated as well (having trouble getting my work pants to fit - lol!). I am so sore and all I want to do is lie down and sleep! Does anyone know what this could be.
Have a really important meeting to go to though so I have to go to work (the meeting is about a 90 minute drive away as well!). Just what I need.
Anyway, again sorry for the short post. I will come back for persies tonight.
WTH ~ I'm praying for you hun ...
Mannie~ We are going to be belly buddies !!!
T.Y I'm so sorry for your lost and I pray you conceive a beautiful baby soon ...
Jen ~ I'm need you here to tell me not to worry and everything will be ok lol ... :hugs:
Tut~ congrats on having a lil girl ...
Krystie ~ Glad everything is still going well with you and your lil bub!!! Hugs and belly rubs
Tam~ Congrats on the BT results ...
Ruthie ~ So sorry about the kidney stones you are in my paryers ...
:hugs: to everyone's else I will read thought the old post more and post again later love you all !!!
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But you have found a great group of ladies here who will support you through your TTC journey when you are ready to begin.
I'm so very sorry to hear of your losses. We all desperately all understand that yearning for a child after a m/c, so we can all understand where you're coming from. I pray that your TTC journey is a short one, and you're blessed with a quick, sticky BFP!!
for you!!
that this one's a keeper
that everything works out for each and everyone of you.
to everyone else.
Not much consolation I know, but at least you can go straight onto another FET...and big big congratulations on your engagement
for a BFP!!
OMG, Toccara, I'm SO happy for you!
Congratulations, doll! Sending you the biggest hugs and the stickiest vibes!
But I do absolutely love this time of year--I just hate being broke during this time of year! lol.... But DF got cleared to go back to work on Monday, so woo hoo! So sorry to hear about the Lupus causing you pain... big *hugs* and hope you feel better soon!
Good luck with your BT results, and sending lots of anti-AF vibes your way!
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