Craftymummy I would be insulted also. That is your business regardless of what age you are. I guess if she is deeply concerned about your health (regardless of age) or something like that then she might feel she should say something but if she is basing it purely on age then that is rude. Childbearing in different age groups isn't for everyone and perhaps thats why she said something because she wouldn't think she would ttc at 44. 10yrs on I still get comments on how I shouldn't have had my DD when I did (I was 17) I wouldn't change a thing (except her Dad if I could) and look now. I am 26 with secondary infertility. If I could change anything I would of had more earlier and avoided the problems I am having now. I worry about what ever age I am I will never stop wanting another baby even if I had 10. If it was up to me and I didn't have fertility problems I would be more then happy to let nature be and have as many as God intended me to have regardless of my age IYKWIM. I have always felt like that but for various reasons haven't been able to ttc until the last 2years. I don't imagine that wanting will stop when I am in my 40s although my DH said no.
I am excited to have found a spotpraying AF is here in full force tomorrow and it will be my last AF for 9-10months. I doubt Ill get pregnant after the op but I am praying there is a chance. Ill know more in 8days as to the likelyhood a eggy and sperm can get down my tube. I am
that my hope isn't shattered when I wake up to be told the tube is completely blocked. I know the likelyhood is quite high but still hoping they will come say it appears to be perfect
I would love that.
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