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BIG FAAAAATTTT NEGATIVE!!!!!!!
Oh well..
I had the usual sinking heart feeling.. but I know it's for the best. I'm not ready (even if I want it so bad)
So Jan 2009 TTCers.. wanna be my buddy????
hugs to you all ladies. I'm back to being quiet and being a nasty dirty lurker. till I have anything new to say.
Love you all.. Bellyrubs & sticky vibes for those preggo and Baby - Ovulation-Sticky dust for those TTCing. ♥
Hi girls! Just wanted to pop in to say I'm thinking of you all! For those of you used to me posting everyday--I'm sorry--I know it's probably been really unusual to see how little I've been posting lately! Just been super busy, but always thinking of you!
Ruthie - It's good for you that you've got an answer. Now it's only a couple of months til 2009 and you can work on your dream plan. Here's praying that it will be a quick journey for you and your doctors can do everything to get your little bub in your arms. Always thinking of you
For everyone - babydust and sticky vibes. Thinking of you all.
Now I really must get back to cleaning up my house for day care tomorrow.
Evening ladies.
Just a quick post as i'm ready for bed after a few busy days at work.
ruthie- sorry to hear of ur bfn. bring on jan 09. let's hope its month of alot of BFPs.
jenushka- glad to hear thing are alright now after your scare. I have for you.
Mannie2903- i know how u feel, i was thinking in 2 weeks i would have been 12 weeks and we could have announced at our son's bday that i was pregnant.
I agree with you at work i've noticed so many pregnant customers come in and i think to myself i want that to be me again.
Me- Not alot to report, still no AF. Its been 5 weeks since m/c and d&c and nothing. I do see gyno on the 28th nov, so if nothing shows up i'll be asking questions.
Good morning lovely ladies! Yes, it's me.... I know I've been a stranger lately.... so sorry, but I've missed you all! Sometimes it's hard to real life and BB! Going to try to catch up so I don't feel so out of the loop!
smi--Happy crappy Monday, girl! How goes it with your TWW-- do you think you caught that eggie? Fingers are crossed for us--here's some for both of us, too!
megsmum--Saying lots of for you for this IVF cycle! *hugs*
princess-- and welcome! I'm sorry for your sad loss that brings you to us. I pray you find comfort and support amongst the great girls we have here in our thread--they've always been my lifeline of support, as friends and family just don't seem to understand. Congratulations on your engagement, and I pray you are blessed with a sibling for Zac very soon!
mollycat--Enjoyed our chat on Friday.... hope to make it again either tonight or Wed! Will try not to be a nana, but you may have to contend with DF for my attention! He has to have surgery on his hand today, so he'll be off work for 4-6 weeks! He's being very optimistic about it all.... he seems rather thrilled with the thought of me needing a wheelchair, and is determined to do his part in making sure that is a necessity! He's liking the idea of having me all to himself while the kids are gone at school--so much for me getting a break during the day! 4 weeks at the rate we've been going lately, and I'll need a gurney for sure! Hugs.... *kiss*
Ruthie--Sorry to hear about your BFN.... even though it's for the best for the time being, I know it's still never easy.
Dutchy--What an insensitive thing for your friend to say! I'm sorry, that had to have been rough--but I'm glad to see that you didn't just bite your tongue--I think I would've bitten her head off! Hopefully she'll realize what she said, and understand how stupid it was to say something like that! Big *hugs* hon... and lots of luck with your FS appt. next month.
Mel--Yay for getting a FS appt. so quickly! Hope all your questions are answered!
tutmae--Sorry, don't mean to freak you out with my lack of posting lately--I'm sure it's quite unusual for some of you! Will try to do better! Damn, girl, with bb's like that, you're going to need a back brace pretty soon! Good luck with your upcoming scan--don't let your brain play tricks on you--everything will be just fine! Lots of stickyvibes, hugs, and bellyrubs coming your way!
Melissa--Rant and rave away, hon.... you deserve it after what you've gone through! I can't believe what a trooper you are going into the delivery room with your SIL--and the fact that you held it together for so long--you're amazingly strong and resilient, and you should be so proud of yourself! *hugs* It's very common and normal to be jealous of pg women right now--you're not a b!tch--you're heartbroken--there's a HUGE difference! You're in my thoughts and prayers, hon.... feel better soon!
Thnks girls for all your lovely words of support. After a few days of feeling horribly sad, I have definitely picked up and am feeling much better. Just a quick questionf or anyone - how late into pg is it safe to do a longhaul flight?
Ruthie - pick me, pick me!!! I'll defintely be your 2009 baby buddy!!!!
Try and be back later for some personals, gotta go to work now
Sorry about that.... didn't get to finish persies, so here goes the rest....
plc--Was sad to have missed you in chat on Friday! Wish that I could be there with you girls on your "date" on Friday--will make sure Angel gives you lots of bellyrubs from Auntie Jen Jen! Have you heard from Krystie--is she still able to make it? That will be truly unfair... to have only 3 of the Fab. 4 there.... *sigh* Look how cute, they finally gave us a smiley with a violin! lol... *kiss*
Krystie--How goes the m/s? Feeling any better lately? Big hugs and for little Chyan! Miss you lots! *kiss*
Mannie--I think you could use a big hug..... *hugs* Hope you're doing well, hon!
jenushka--Sorry for not posting much lately! Must seem like I've been lately...I really haven't been, just been super busy! I've really missed everyone, tho! Also sorry to hear about your spotting scare! That must have put your Zen to the test! *hugs* Glad to hear that all is well now, sending you massive amounts of Love the u/s pic!
Easha--So what's going on with your ticker? Are you 2 days late now? Just in case, sending lots of Oh, and can't forget the
Melissa--Glad to see you're feeling better! Sorry, can't answer your flight question, but I'm sure one of the other brilliant women around here will know the answer! *hugs*
Toccara--Thinking of you! *hugs*
Big and hugs to issy, Van, Chappas, and WTH!
MO3B--Anxiously waiting to hear your news! You won't really make me wait until Friday, right? I'm hoping it has to do with our conversation on Friday--then I'll be super excited! Got my fingers crossed for you!
fifi--Hey there, fellow commando-ee! Much better that way, don't you think?
To all the others not already mentioned.... dellydoo, hannah, Tam, anneebee, Emmykate, babymiracles, missbec, joni, Possums, Indy, Rachel B, babyonboard, & mumma&bubba.... thinking of you all! *hugs*
and bellyrubs for all those BFP'ers: Krystie, jenushka, fifi, tutmae, plc, joey, larz, pbstar, tina, AJC, Katiegirl, Rachel S, and Leyza
Angel--In case you're ever lurking.... the place just isn't the same without you! *hugs* Miss seeing your posts! Love you lots! *kiss*
Ok, I hope I didn't miss anyone.... major apologies if I did.... Grouphug for all!
Jen - sorry to have missed you too last Friday have missed you heaps.
Melissa - sweet - I would say the safest time to travel is 2nd trimester but that is just my thought and not a medical opinion. Glad to hear you've picked up hun - special hug for you.
Mannie - still thinking of you sweet.
dellydoo - miss you too here - hope ur ok.
Big hugs to everyone else - love you all lots and want the world for you!
Just a quickie from me as I am meant to be working
Princess: welcome to the thread. Sorry you need to be here though. Big congratulations on your engagement. It took a long time after my D& C for AF to show too - but she came eventually. This cycle things seem back to normal - with ovulation around day 14/15.
Mel: Good luck with the appointment on thursday
Jen: Lovely to have you back. Enjoy looking after DF!
Easha: you get a BFP
jenuska - sorry to hear about your scare. Hope that is the last one you have for this pregnancy.
Ruthie: sorry about the BFN. Praying we will both get to hold a beautiful healthy baby in our arms in 2009
To all the other beautiful ladies in this thread
AFM: Had three blood tests in last week to see when if I have ovulated and it has finally happened Am now booked in for frostie transfer on friday. Wish me luck. I am starting to get a bit anxious about it but glad that something is actually happening again. So want it to be a success, but on other hand don't want to get too excited as the success rates aren't great and I don't want to get too disappointed. Also worried that if it is a BFP then I will be sooo anxious about m/c again. Was really anxious the minute I got a BFP last cycle and then the worst did happen. Wish I could just think positively but it is soooo difficult. Anyway fingers crossed, and if it doesn't stick then i think I can go straight into another cycle.
Still lurking and not posting much, but just wanted to say hi everyone and welcome to Dutchy and Princess. I'm sorry you both have to be here, but I hope your stay is short
Ruthie, so sorry about the BFN hun.
babymiracles - Glad to hear about the FET Good luck!
everyone!! And good luck cycle buddy Jen for this month
Jen - dont want to speak too soon but yes I am late. Usually I start spotting on Monday and AF is in full flow (TMI) Tuesday but so far NOTHING. Temps are still up. BB sore.
Ruthie and Megsmum - thanks sooo much for your best wishes. Will keep you informed.
Easha - you get your BFP
MO3B - eagerly awaiting your news
Big hello to all of my fellow 37'ers
AFM - meant to be working again! Looking forward to friday but feeling nervous too. Booked in for acupuncture before and after transfer so I am all ready to go. Planning on a nice relaxing weekend to try and improve chances
for everyone
Hey it's very quiet in here - now that I am not lurking everyone else is - is it me?
babymiracles--Yay for O! Will say loads of extra for a successful FET on Friday!
plc--Thanks for your info... don't worry, I'm really NOT a dirty, sweaty stalker man! Your info is safe with me--will only sell it to the highest bidder! *evil*
Ruthie--Glad to see you're still a lurker!
megsmum--Hey cycle bud, thanks for the good luck! I'm throwing some right back at you for your EPU tomorrow! Saying lots of extra !
fifi--She told me, too! Yay, MO3B!! *cheering* *applause* *bravo! bravo!* I get to hear all the details on Friday! Woo hoo!
Easha--Thinking lots of positive thoughts for you!
Hi everyone...I am a bit of lurker here too...so just popping in to say hello and wish you all well and the best of luck....
afm...well DH and I trying naturally in the hopes of a miracle before resuming IVF...chances of conceiving naturally VERY slim, but nevertheless, did OPKs this month and got a positive, along with bad ovulation pain, so at least I know I have ovulated again since the D&C, and DH and I DTD at the right times...so we are in with a chance, however slight, this month... pretty scared about the chance of an ectopic in my remaining tube (which also has adhesions etc) to be honest, but we decided to give it a go anyway
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for you.
i know how u feel, i was thinking in 2 weeks i would have been 12 weeks and we could have announced at our son's bday that i was pregnant.
real life and BB! Going to try to catch up so I don't feel so out of the loop!
for both of us, too!
for you for this IVF cycle! *hugs*
and welcome! I'm sorry for your sad loss that brings you to us.
I pray you find comfort and support amongst the great girls we have here in our thread--they've always been my lifeline of support, as friends and family just don't seem to understand. Congratulations on your engagement, and I pray you are blessed with a sibling for Zac very soon!
4 weeks at the rate we've been going lately, and I'll need a gurney for sure! Hugs.... *kiss*
Good luck with your upcoming scan--don't let your brain play tricks on you--everything will be just fine! Lots of stickyvibes, hugs, and bellyrubs coming your way!
Look how cute, they finally gave us a smiley with a violin! lol... *kiss*
for little Chyan! Miss you lots! *kiss*
lately...I really haven't been, just been super busy! I've really missed everyone, tho! Also sorry to hear about your spotting scare! That must have put your Zen to the test! *hugs* Glad to hear that all is well now, sending you massive amounts of
Love the u/s pic!
Am now booked in for frostie transfer on friday. Wish me luck. I am starting to get a bit anxious about it but glad that something is actually happening again. So want it to be a success, but on other hand don't want to get too excited as the success rates aren't great and I don't want to get too disappointed. Also worried that if it is a BFP then I will be sooo anxious about m/c again. Was really anxious the minute I got a BFP last cycle and then the worst did happen. Wish I could just think positively but it is soooo difficult. Anyway fingers crossed, and if it doesn't stick then i think I can go straight into another cycle.
Good luck!
everyone!! And good luck cycle buddy Jen for this month
Will say loads of extra
Your info is safe with me--will only sell it to the highest bidder! *evil*
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