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Popponing in for a quick "hey"
Tam...congrats gurlie!
jen...waiting...*picture me arms crossed foot tapping*
babymiracles...d@mn AF always shows up uninvited!
Okay gurlies I am feeling better not 100% yet though so please excuse the lack of perssies...have a wonderful weekend!
Angelbabies...we're missing you!
:bluedust::pink-babydust:
:stickyvibesboy::stickyvibesgirl:
Tam & MissBec - quietly wishing you a happy and healthy and oh-so-sticky nine months :stickyvibesboy::stickyvibesgirl:
And a huge :hug: for Easha, sorry AF showed hun, may it be for the last time for several months to come.
AF showed for me as well on Thursday which means as of next cycle, we are officially back on the ttc wagon. I'm kind of excited but SO scared.
Huge hi to Ruthie, Jen, PLC, Hannah, Possums and all the rest of you lovely ladies. Hope you all have a great weekend.
glad to see your back Tam! and I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers tommorrow while at Mass....
Babymiracles - prayers are going out your way too I'm positive this frostie will stick!! lots of positive vibes and put your feet up and relax...
that witch is a b*tch wish she would stay away!!! doesn't she realise we don't want her to visit us at least for 9 months anyway!
HI Jen wishing you lots of babydust for this cycle!!!
Ruthie I know your lurking but lots of hugs your way too and hoping Jan 09 comes round quickly!
big hugs to all the other lovelies Smi, MIssbec, Joey, Easha, MO3B, Hannah, Melissa, Dutchy, princess and welcome to Buliej hope your stay is short...whats a flare cycle?
thanks for the welcome
a flare cycle is the type of cycle my ivf clinic put me on - I'm not sure what it means but I can describe the drugs I use which are n a nasal spray (syranol) that stops ovulation (until time to trigger) at the same time I'm put on gonal f to produce eggs.
wow sounds very scientific.....my friend on IVF has never had this so was curious...but you know what I wish you the best of luck with this I know it can be tough and emotional draining, my friend is going to have 2 of her frosties put in on Thurs and her ride has been a bit of a rollercoaster too....lots of babydust to you my friend and hoping 2009 is a year full of BFP's for all of us on this thread....
ok off to make some sushi now its got be ready by the time hubby gets back from the shops and can I just say its damn hot up here in the tropics today....at least I got a swim in before the pool water turns to bath water! :)
Thank you ladies for all your support. Well last night when I took my bra off I was hoping that my boobs would still be sore and tender but they weren't :( With my last two pregnancies before my m/c my boobs stopped hurting well guess what the same thing is happening. I am so scared right now DH and I are travelling back to sydney early so I can be back on monday to get the bt results off FS.
Just wondering if anybody's symptoms were strong one day but not the next and went on to have a healthy pg?
Tam - hoping and praying for you that everything is ok. Sending a big :hug: and lots of :stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy: your way.
Tam - I replied to you in paml but wanted to here as well. My symptoms with this pg were all over the place, no m/s no sore boobs nothing. I can honestly say I didn't 'feel' pregnant until around 17 weeks (when I first felt little nudges from Bub). Sending you lots of positive vibes & sticky ones.
Big Hello to everyone else. Throwing around lots and lots of :pink-babydust::bluedust::pink-babydust::bluedust:
Hi everyone!
Tam83 - Congrats on the BFP :hooray: I hope this might reassure you a bit, but I never had sore boobs when I was pg with my DD and in my last pg which miscarried they were sore all the time right up until I had my D&C. So I really do believe that sore boobs (or lack of) is not a good indicator. Take it easy and I hope you get some good results from your FS!
buliej - Welcome and I'm so sorry you have to be here :hug:
Mannie - Hope you are doing OK now? :hug:
babymiracles - Yay for the FET!! I hope your TWW goes well with a BFP at the end of it! That's great that your first embie survived the thaw, you are so lucky having those extras up your sleeve. Hope you're having a lovely weekend. The EPU didn't go so well though but see below for more details!
princess85 - Yay for AF!!
WTH - Hey there IVF buddy! Hope things are going well for you today and you've had heaps of those eggies fertilise overnight!!
Jen - Hey there cycle buddy, any news yet?! For what its worth I peeked at your chart and I reckon you Oed late, you're in with a great chance with all that BDing! Makes me feel tired just thinking about it! LOL
HannahD - Good luck with the BDing marathon! Hope you get your BFP!
Hi to all the other lovelies out there that I have missed! Hope you are all well and heaps of :pink-babydust:
AFM - Well this cycle has been another odyssey :rolleyes: Sorry to have been so cagey with the details, but I have been stressing about it majorly and I have also have had a bit of not wanting to jinx myself by talking about it too much going on too. We only got a low follie count again this cycle (started off with 4 and then only had 3 in the runnning at EPU) despite being on a higher FSH dose, so I have been really worried about this cycle being a bust too. As some of you know (and thanks to those who gave me their well wishes too :)) I had my EPU on Thurs just gone - we decided to go ahead with it anyway - and we ended up getting only the one egg :( So then started a few days of even more stress while we waited again. But now here's the good news :dance: our little eggie fertilised!! And it continued to grow over the next 2 days, so this morning I had a lovely looking 8 cell Day 3 embie transferred!! Bit bummed that one was all we got of course, but I'm not going to look a gift horse in the mouth!! Considering how much worse things could have gone, I am pretty ecstatic!
Megsmum - just wanted to say sorry you didn't get more eggs at EPU, but that is fantastic that the one did fertilise. Praying for you that this one sticks. Looks like we will both find out the same week if our egg transfers were a success. :pray:
WTH: how did your EPU go? Have been thinking of you
Tam: Hope all is okay:hug:
To everyone else in this thread :grouphug::stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy: Here hoping for lots of BFPs very soon
WTH--Aww, thanks, I sure needed that! Would like to give you a :hug: back! I feel as though I've been a little neglectful to the thread, as well! Sometimes you just have to take care of YOU, so as long as you're doing that, then it's all good! Take care, hon... hope all went well with the egg pick-up!
princess--Woo hoo for AF! :leap: Wishing you the best of luck for this fresh, new cycle!
babymiracles--Stick little frosty, stick! Saying lots of prayers and sending massive :stickyvibesgirl:
Hannah--I know you didn't mean to make me feel guilty.... but I do realize how much less I post than before, and I can't help but feel a little guilty! On the upside, I can't help but feel glad in some ways that at least it's noticed when I don't post as much--so thanks for noticing and making me feel missed! :hug:
smi--I'm doing the same! Just waiting... temp was on the way down this am, though... so I imagine it won't be longer than a day or two, at the most.
Melissa--Would like to officially welcome you back to the TTC bandwagon! May your journey be quick and sticky! :bluedust:
Hi Mannie! You're in my thoughts! *hugs*
buliej--Wishing you the best of luck with your IVF TTC journey! I'm sorry for your loss that brings you to our humble little thread. I pray you find comfort and support here amongst us! *hugs*
Tam--Many women don't have any symptoms this early on in pg'cy... I know it's hard to do, hon, but try to relax and think positive thoughts! Sending lots of POSITIVE :stickyvibesgirl: your way--and some big *hugs* too!
Hi AJC! Thanks so much for your ever-watchful eye over us all! Lots of love and :bellyrubs: to you!
Megsmum--Congrats on your fertilized egg! :hooray: Sending massive stickyvibes your way! Stick little one, stick! I'm going to say loads of prayers for you, cycle buddy!!
To my Friday night girls--plc, MO3B, fifi, & mollycat, thinking of you all! *kiss*
Krystie--You really must join us! Got a great pic of my Fab 3/4 girls--wish I could've been there! *kiss* Bellyrubs for little Chyan! Miss you lots, stranger! *whip*
Meg'smum - all it takes is one! I'm sending sticky vibes.
baby dust to all...
Melissa - Welcome to the TTC bandwagon. May your journey be short :pink-babydust:
megsmum - Sending you lots of :stickyvibesboy:. Sorry you didn't get more eggs, but all it takes is one...
buliej - Don't think we've met yet. Sorry for your loss, but you have found the right place for lots of support on your TTC journey.
Tam - I know its hard hun, but try to relax and think positive thoughts. I just don't want to see you tying yourself up in knots analysing every symptom. Take care of yourself. :pray: Monday brings some good news for you.
jen - *hi* :hug:
:hello: to everyone else
afm - So now begins the TWW...I have a good feeling this month :crossfingers:
Jen - hoping you are not near any of those fires (they seem to have been going on for months now). They are making the headlines here.'
Baby Miracles - hoping for a successful FET for you. You are soooooo fortunate to have had four frosty blasts. That's the stuff my dreams are made of!
Hannah D - thanks for your well wishes :D Good luck with the 2WW. I love your positivity
Smi - "hey" back. Glad you are feeling better
Princess - From what I hear, it is perfectly fine to go for it once AF has returned.Good luck TTC this month - have fun!
AJC - Still so happy everything is going so well for you
MegsMum - you still rock
Mollycat, Possums, Mannie, Melissa, Ruthie, Buliej and Tocarra :pink-babydust:
Tam, Joey, M03B, Jenushka and PLC (if you're lurking) :stickyvibesboy:
And Angel - we all miss you
AFM - Of my 7 mature eggies collected, 4 :fertilise: . Next step is to find out how they are all going tomorrow (Day 3) then hope some make it to PGD biopsy on Thursday. If there is something to transfer will have it done that avo :crossfingers:
Hey ladies - still lurking - never far away from this thread - sorry I haven't posted much. I always remember like it was yesterday how it was TTC after suffering such loss. Pls don't think I have forgotten you all - it's just that my path is a little focussed on my b2b as the weeks tick quickly by. I so wish this fat belly on each and every one of u :grouphug:!!
Jen - hun, looking forward to chatting once again :hug:
Melissa - sweetheart, i know ur scared, we're here for you tho, can i interest you in a welcome back chockie followed by non-alcoholic wine, not so spicy curry and caffeine free coffee (maybe not in that order - lol) :hug:
WTH - thanks for the sticky vibes sweet - I don't think at any time in this pg I have stopped worrying - I certainly want bub to stick until I meet her - thx!! I have everything crossed for you too :hug:
Hannah - stickyvibes to you hun - atta girl!!
buliej - i just keep wanting to give you big hugs - stay strong.
babymiracles - I'll douse you in my fair share of stickyvibes too sweet - GL!
megsmum - yay to ur transferred frostie - stick little bubba - stick stick stick!!! :clap:
Tam - how are you doing? pls let us know when you can.... special positive vibes for you!
mannie - thinking of you hun and wishing you the very best :hug:
smi - hey girlie - how's it all going in ur world? u feeling better?
princess - congrats hun well done :dance:, take it one step at a time, big hugs!
mollycat - of course I always have my eye on you ;)
ruthie - I know ur being quiet - ur no less thought of sweet.
jenushka - big hugs as always for you - lots of positivity for you too.
mo3b - we're here for when ur ready....
fifi - hey hun, c u Friday if not before...
Possums, Toccara, Joey, Tutmae, AJC and anyone else I have missed - hug hug hug.
angel - if jen is our mother hen, ul always be mother earth to us...
Computer is still not working it has an infection and keeps cutting me off the internet. Just seeing if this post works before I type a longer one.
PLC It's always nice to see post's from you and to know that there is hope for us all ttc after miscarriage.
WTH :clap: congrats on your four lovely eggs. I hope they have great news for you tomorrow that they are all doing great.:pray: that they all make it to PGD stages and all four are as healthy as can be.
Hannah Thanks sweetie I am trying to relax but it's sooooo hard. Good luck with your tww I hope it is your month.
Jen Thanks for the positive vibes hun :hug: I hope all is great in Jen land. Sorry I haven't been able to join in on friday night chats. Hopefully my computer is fixed by then and I can join in.
Megsmum Congrats on the fertilised egg :dance: sending you truck loads of sticky vibes. Woohooo stick little one stick.
Babymircales :pray: that you have a smooth FET that your little frosty sticks.
AJC Thanks for both of your posts they reassured me and helpt me try to relax myself.
Mannie Hope your sushi went well the other night. Sounds like you had a nice day.
princess Yah for AF. Have fun Baby dancing again and hope that you get your BFP soon.
To everybody else I have missed I am sorry I tried to get everyone so if I did sending you lots of baby vibes and sticky vibes.
AFM
Well I went to see FS today but he was to busy to speak to me so just got the receptionist. FS has put me on 200mg of progesterone pessaries so I am hoping they do the trick. Just wondering if anybody has used these before? I have never had them and not sure what they really do? I have googled it but didn't find much.
Hi all,
I too have been guilty of lurking. Just haven't had anything new to say. I've been keeping up to date with you all though!
Tam83 - I so know it must be easier said than done but try to stay positive. I can't imagine how I will feel when I fall pregnant again, as estatic as I will be I also know I will worry myself sick. I really hope the meds work (sorry haven't had any experience with that medication so can't give you any info) and I am sending :stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy: your way. Make sure you rest and try to relax!
Megsmum - Congrats on the fertilised egg, that's all it takes.......Best of luck.
HannahD - Good luck with the TWW. Mine will start next week.....
plc1805 - you give us all hope!
WTH - Congrats on your eggs, :pray: for good news.
Mannie - Hope you're doing ok. :)
Big hi to Ruthie, Jen, princess, AJC, fifi, mollycat, smi, jenushka, babymiracles, tutmae, possums, angel and buliej.
Really sorry if I have missed anyone but it is hard to keep up when you haven't posted in a few days!
AFM - went to the FS last week and he is the lovliest Dr. I am so happy with him. He was very sensitive but also professional and very thorough. He listened to all our questions and didn't make us feel stupid for asking them. I am having some tests done this cycle just to make sure I am ovulating (he thinks obviously I am as I have been pregnant before) and also testing a few other things (lupus runs in my family) just to make sure there is nothing preventing me from falling pregnant. I have to wait until day 22 of my cycle to start the tests and then I will go back to the FS in another 4 weeks for the results. There is another test I have to have done on the 1st or 2nd day of my cycle.
We have established DH is ok :dance: so just have to check me out now!
It is our 2nd wedding anniversary tomorrow and also the start of my 'fertile' time so maybe it might bring us luck..........Here's hoping!
Hi Ladies,
I'm sorry i have to admit i'm being a big fat lurker! I have this new found energy that i'm making the most of! :leap:
We've started sorting out all the rubbish that we have in the spare room (or dumping ground as it is known!) so we can get it ready for decorating and getting ready for bub, so that took up most of this weekend.
I waiting any day now to start feeling the movements of bub but i think at the moment, it's just gas!!! :redface:
Should also have anyday now the letter from hospital with the date for my 20 weeks scan :dance: I cant wait to see bub again.
I hope you are all doing ok, lots of :stickyvibesboy: :stickyvibesgirl: and a great big :grouphug:
And sorry for just being a lurker!!!
Thank you so much girls for thinking of me ♥ Gosh it means so much!!!:grouphug:
I saw 2 BFPS!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!:clap::stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy:
Sending my best wishes your way girls!!
I have been very quiet... very. nothing much to say... I'm still fighting to get back on my feet (even though I keep falling) but I'm sure that when Jan 2009 comes.. I will be ready to TTC again. ♥
The past two weeks have been up and down..
I still have not had AF since my D&C on Sept 12th.. it all sucks. Nope I have tested and tested.. and tested some more.. BFNs.. (not that I want to be preggo right now..not yet I don't feel emotionally ready to handle all the stress with TTCing with meds and all that crap I'm sick of doing. :redface:)
2 of my very good friends lost their babies last week. I couldn't help but cry both for them and for myself. One of them was 11 weeks (just like me) and the other one had pre-term labor at 24 weeks and her baby fought.. Oh did he fight.. for 3 days and passed away. WHY??.. Sorry I don't want to bring depressive feelings here.. but God.. why these things happen to the greatest of women????
anyways...
I just want to say.. from the bottom of my heart.. very deep down in my big big heart... I LOVE you girls. Those TTCing I am wishing you the very best!! Those pregnant.. May you have a healthy and beautiful baby when you're due.
I will be here.. lurking still.. but as I was reading I felt so touched that many of you remembered me .. (I'm tearing up) THANK YOU ♥
I LOVE YOU GIRLS!!!!!:grouphug:
Ruthie - :hello: I'm so sorry that stupid AF hasn't shown up yet - you'd think she'd know by now when she is wanted and when she is not :rolleyes: And as for you your friends :( probably the only good thing about it is that they have an understanding friend in you...take care of yourself hey?
fifi - I thought DD's first movements were wind too LOL I'll bet that's what you are feeling! (movements that is not wind ;)) Yay! GL for your 20 wk scan.
Mel1979 - Glad to hear the FS visit went well. They are probably going to just check your progesterone on day 22 - that will tell them whether you have ovulated or not) and I'd say they'd be checking FSH on day 1 or 2 - that checks your ovarian reserves. Good luck and hope it all goes well for you!
Tam83 - Hope the pessaries do the trick for you! I have used them for LP support for a few cycles and all they do is increase your progesterone levels to help support the pregnancy. They are a bit icky - I definitely recommend lying down for about 20 or 30 mins after you put one in (TMI I know...but you will get less errrr "leakage") and a panty liner is a must! Good luck.
plc - Hi there! Thanks for the well wishes, here's hoping this little one sticks. It was a very good embryo according to the lab so I hope so!
WTH - Awww thanks hun :hug: Have got fingers, toes and everything else crossed for your little embies today! BTW have just eaten half a punnet of strawberries! ;) LOL Yummo...
HannahD - Yay for the good feeling! All the best for your TWW!
buliej - Thanks for the sticky vibes :hug: hope you are OK today...
Jen - Thanks heaps! I just looked at your chart and sig, I'm so sorry hun :( #$#^%$ AF!!
babymiracles - You are 2 days ahead of me I think aren't you? When was your transfer - Friday? I'm due for AF on the 27th anyway and have an appt with my FS for the next day to talk about the next cycle - here's hoping we won't need it. Will probably have a BT done that day I guess. Good luck!
AFM - Nothing much happening, I actually feel the most relaxed I have felt about things for months! I think because everything was so stressful leading up to the embryo transfer I guess. I'm having HCG injections for LP support, so no early POAS for me! Just have to wait it out.
Megsmum: Thank you girl ♥:hug:
BAD NEWS!!!! :(
My husband was laid (sp?) off today....(from work) meaning no HI and my baby dreams just won't happen for now. It hurts ever so much.. I cried so much today and even threw away the onesie and baby socks I had for my angel bubba... but I have put on my big girl panties.. and I have to suck it up. I cannot let this ruin everything. My husband is applying for unemployment and food stamps tomorrow, he might go back to the computer technician thing he used to do.. so maybe things will work out soon. Please.. pray for us.
We will both have to figure out what we will do. We are both sending resumes everywhere.. so hopefully despite the horrible economy.. maybe we both can get a job soon.
Please pray for us.. as hard times are coming.
I am going to stay strong.. I know we can get out of this. I know 2009 has good things for us.
Love you all.
Ruthie
Ruthie - What a year you've had. I'm send you the biggest :hug: that I can possibly send. Looking at the bright side. 2009 has to be better (it can't get any worse).
We had one of those years in 2007 (2008 has been much better - 2009 will be great :crossfingers:)
Megsmum - Glad to hear the the transfer went well - :pray: that it will be one little sticky bub.
Fifi - great work on cleaning out the dumping ground. Soon to be known as baby fifi's room :bellyrubs: for you.
Jen - :hug: for you. I'm always thinking about you.
Tam - Rest up, hopefully the meds will do the trick :bellyrubs: for you too.
Mel - Happy Anniversary. Hope you get the best present (a little bit late)
PLC & Smi - *wavin. Hi there.
To all those that I missed - Hello :pink-babydust::stickyvibesboy:
A quick post for TAM - I used progesterone pessaries last PG. Progesterone, natural or given, can give you PMT-like symptoms, eg: headaches, sore breasts, elevated body basal temp, etc. It made my checks really rosey, too! I found them to be very effective - chose to insert them at night at bed as you need to lay down at least 1/2 an hour for them to absorb. Take care, WTH x
Hannah--Good for you for being so positive! Wishing you the best of luck for your TWW!
WTH--The fires are actually about an hour south from where I live--I could smell it today! But no worries, there's lots of open land between me and them! You're sweet for asking about me--thanks! *hugs* Congrats on your 4 :fertilise: I'm so super happy for you! Will say lots of prayers for a successful Thursday!
plc--Thanks again for the great pic! *kiss* Sending you lots of :bellyrubs: since I didn't get to give them to you in person!
Tam--Hope the Progesterone pessaries help! Find your Zen, hon, and keep your faith! :stickyvibesgirl:
Mel--Happy 2nd Anniversary! And during your fertile time, even! Better get those baby dancing shoes on, and get ready for some :bd: Lot's of luck!
fifi--Hey girlie girl! *blowing kisses*
Ruthie--Aww, hon... sorry to hear about DH's job! 2008 has been a rough year for you--I think you could use about a thousand of these :hug:
Megsmum--Thanks... yeah, she's a witch! She showed up completely unannounced, too, and is not being very nice this month! Grrr!
Glad to hear you're feeling so relaxed--saying lots of :pray: for that little embie of yours! :pink-babydust:
mollycat--Wow, your coverline just kinda snuck in there this month! A little early this month, too, isn't it? Keeping my :crossfingers: no matter what!!
Jen - i don't believe that coverline at all. I think it will change. Definately too early. But oh well, whatever will be, will be.
Glad the fires aren't too close. Hate to think what our summer season will be like this year, we normally have fires around us. Hopefully they won't be anything like what you guys have over there.
hi am only new to this so bear with me..
Had my second miscarriage a week and a half ago and having a harder time coping this time around, so thought it may hekp to chat to people about it that may be able to relate. I also work in childcare alongside two work mates that were due a week eitherside me.
jackjack - I'm so sorry for your losses. The ladies here are wonderful.
everyone else (I'm really bad at personals) - I'm following your posts and sending my best thoughts and wishes.
AFM - received a letter from the dr who performed my d&c today - she said that the results of my miscarriage were entirely benign and that although this doesn't explain the miscarriage, this is reassuring..but then she says we are still waiting for the cytogenetic results (I have to google that - I don't know what it means). She told me I should expect my next period in 4-6 weeks (fingers crossed - I'd like to start TTC after my next AF). and speaking of, I went to my acupuncturist today for the first time since miscarriage and she wants me to wait 3 cycles!!!! i told her I was not comfortable with that as that will take us too far into next year. any thoughts on this?
jackjack I too have had 2 miscarriages and understand how you feel as do all the ladies in this thread. My best friend since kindy and when I had my 2nd miscarriage we were due the same week. She had a beautiful baby girl it hurts ohh boy does it hurt when I see her little girl. My 2nd m/c was also harder to deal with. Are you going to go see a specialist?
WTH I hope you got some good news today about your little eggies. :pray: that they all make it to PGD stages and for the transfer. I have a question about the progesterone. How much where you on? You stated you used it your last pg was that your last m/c? If so how did you know you m/c whilst on progesterone?
Buliej I dont think you need to wait 3 cycles my FS said only 1 just for the body to clean itself out. But there has been plenty of ppl that conceived straight after a m/c without even waiting 1 cycle and still had a healthy pg.
Jen I see your ticker is on cycle day 1? If this is the case sending you lots of :hug:
AFM:
I am not feeling to great today trying to cheer up as it is DH birthday but I went to the AP today and he said my temps are to low and thinks I am going to m/c again as they are at 36.6 but my coverline is 36.0. He suggested I got have some blood test done to see what my HCG levels are doing. So I went for a BT today and should get the results tomorrow.
Tam83 - I hope you get good news from the BT....and thanks for the other information.
Tam - I'm sorry if I'm out of place saying this but your AP really shouldn't have said that to you! Please don't let what he said discourage you. Sorry, as I said I hope I haven't offended you by saying that but I've just been 'burnt' by a someone in a natural therapy once before which left a very bitter taste in my mouth. :pray: the BT levels are really good.
Ruthie - I'm so sorry about your DH's job, I know how you feel, mine got made redundant from his job earlier this year too :( :pray: he picks up something else good really soon!
jackjack - Hi and welcome, so sorry for your loss and that you have to join us here :( Hope we can help...
buliej - Not real sure about the cytogenetic results, I think that they may be where they test for a molar pregnancy?? Or it may be the chromosomal testing? I believe the standard recommendation by most obs after a D&C is one cycle ie wait for AF and then start again, that's what I was told by my ob anyway. I would not wait for 3 cycles if that is not what you want to do. BTW, I had an AP tell me I should have waited for 6 months to TTC again :o As if I have that much time to waste at my age :rolleyes:
Tam - I have to agree with AJC on those comments too - I'm sorry to say this, hope I don't offend you either :hug: A bit inappropriate IMHO and probably unnecessarily worrying for you. I'm not aware of any link between the actual temps and m/c, after all don't forget there are many things that can influence your BBT. Will be crossing everything for a good BT result for you :)
mollycat--:hello: Hope you're doing well! *kiss*
jackjack--:welcome: My sincere condolences for your losses :comfort: I pray that you find yourself enveloped with comfort and support during these dark days! The girls here are the best--and you're sure to always find someone to answer your questions, or just to lend an ear when you need to vent. I look forward to getting to know you!
buliej--Glad you got some reassurance regarding biopsy results. I know it's still difficult because you don't have an answer as to why this happened, but I hope you're able to find some peace. Big :hug:
Tam--Saying so many :pray: for you, hon! :stickyvibesgirl: :stickyvibesboy: Wishing you the absolute BEST with your BT results!! :crossfingers:
Tam I'm praying so hard that your lil bub is ok !!! Plz don't stress out !!! :hug:
Ruthie I'm so sorry abourt your DH being laid-off I'm praying they call him back to work or that he finds something new soon ...
Jen Hi and sending lots of babydust your way !!!
I will come back later on for more personals but love babydust and stickyVibes to everyone !!!
Hey Gurlies...
I am finally feeling better!
Tam...:pray: your bub will be just fine...I just hate negativity...
jen...d@mn AF...well here's to next cycle
Ruthie...sorry about your hubby's job...seems this terrible economy is gettin' everyone in some from or fashion...
alrighty ladies
:bluedust::pink-babydust:
:stickyvibesboy::stickyvibesgirl:
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Jen - hun I'm so sorry re AF - i want to vent with a few expletives on your behalf but can;t do so here :redface:
Tam - from my understanding temps taken after BFPs are irrelevant. I was taking temps after mine and when it dropped a bit i was worried and just had to stop taking temps cos it was doing my head in. My temps did drop but I am still pg. Chin up sweet - keep rubbing the positivity into that mummy tummy.
jackjack - biggest hugs to you for having to be here in the first place :hug:
buliej - I remember my ap wanted me to wait too before TTC after my lap - it just so happened I had to wait 2 cycles anyway cos that was what my ob requested. My ap just wanted me to wait cos he wanted to get some of my organs into tip top shape to give my next pg a good chance - particularly my spleen and kidneys which are supposed to be imperative for supporting early pg. I hated having to wait too - as a result I am now going to have a xmas baby (but as long as it comes safely in my arms it doesn;t matter really). I know someone else that went to my ap and didn;t wait and they are happily entering 3rd trimester. I guess what I'm trying to say is, it's hard to wait (I sure know about that) and I don't know that I would have if the ob hadn't asked me too as well. But it is good to have ur body functioning at it's best to give a pg every chance. Just comes down to how much faith you have in ur ap. Big hugs hun - wish i could do more for you.
Mollycat, Megsmum,Jen, Toccara, Smi: :grouphug: I don't know where I would be without your love and support!! I love you girls. Hubby is applying for food stamps and medicaid today. HE already applied for unemployment support.. hopefully we will be ok.. but I know this might be selfish of me.. but I just feel so terrible that I can't TTC now. :( :boohoo::redface:
And to think today I would have been EXACTLY 21 weeks 0 days!!
jackjack & Buliej : :welcome::bluedust::pink-babydust:Welcome.. sorry you had to join this thread.. just know the women here are AMAZING!! I don't know where I would be w/o them! I lost my 3rd Angel in Sept and it all sucks. This year has been horrible here. But regardless.. I just wanted to say we are all here for you girls.. I hope and pray you are blessed soon ♥
Ruthie - have you tried acupuncture to bring on AF. I know it's an added expense but if you can manage (or when you can) it may be worth considering. I recall reading that many women have had success with acupuncture in terms of regulating cycles. This could gear you up for TTC in 2009 when things improve (I'm crossing my fingers that they will for you and all of us!)
plc - that's exactly what my AP said - same theory, same organs. As much as I respect her opinion, I'm going to go with what my OB/FS said re: TTC again. I'll wait for 1 regular AF then get down to business as I feel the clock ticking at a rapid pace (I have my 42nd bday coming up in just a few weeks)! I just hope AF returns within the expected time.
AFM - I'm submitting my wish to the universe for 2009...I'm hoping for 1 (ok, 2...but I'm trying not to be greedy) good egg in 2009...just 1 that sticks and grows into a H&H bub.
sticky vibes and baby dust to all....
Mel - Happy anniversary! Glad you've found a FS you're comfortable with. Thats important. I hope you get some answers and :bluedust: in the meantime.
fifi - Great to hear from you and that everything is well. Goodluck with the 20 week scan.
megsmum - Goodluck with the wait. Sending you lots of "patience" vibes as well as sticky ones.
jen - :hug: So sorry hun. Take care of you.
Tam - I agree with the other ladies here. I don't know of any connection between temps and m/c - its so variable anyway. I think its awful to stress you out so much. As if you're not worried enough as it is. :pray: for good news with the BT results.
Ruthie - I'm so sorry DH was laid off. I agree with mollycat: 2009 and can only get better.
jackjack - Sorry for your losses. You have come to the right place. Here you can vent, scream, cry or even laugh, whatever you feel you can express here 'cause we all get it! :hug: to you.
buliej - At the end of the day, if there's no reason to wait, its up to you when you feel ready. Sounds like your AP just wants to make sure you're body is 100% ready.
:hug: to everyone else :pink-babydust::stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy:
AFM - I'm having a day off today. I had a really bad tension headache yesterday. I've just read there may possibly be a link between non-steroid anti-inflammatory drugs (eg ibuprofen) and m/c so I put up with it because I'm not going to risk it (won't I be ****ed if AF shows). I still have a headache, although its much better today, but I've been feeling really nauseous. Figured it was a good excuse for some me time.
buliej - u do have to trust ur instincts sometimes don't u? Big :hug:
ruthie - i am really sorry i didn't acknowledge u before - sweet i so feel for u - sending some superstrong positive vibes ur way :hug: