Melster: i had very little bleeding, only on wiping, not even enough to get on a panty liner. how confusing with what is going on with you, i hope the bleeding settles and you get a bfp in the next few days !
Clairesmummy: i can't help you with what might be going on there, it is so confusing knowing what our bodies are doing, so now you have the hpt will you do it tomorrow ?
Loops: great news on the amount of eggs, i hope you get good news tomorrow with the fertilisation rate ! i hope you are resting up and relaxing after doing all the hard work
afm: im thinking i might go see my specialist again, something isn't right obviously, i just don't know what it is ! im guessing my lining isn't building up enough to shed, anyone got any thoughts on why cause im really confused ! it will take a while to get in and see him, this whole thing is so time consuming, like you said melster we are always waiting for one thing or another
Going to hang out until Friday at the earliest to POAS well I'm gunna try too anyhoo.....lol.....
Sorry I can't offer any advice on what may be up with your cycle Minnie but am here for you in you need an ear darl.
loops thats fantastic about the eggs hun....i hope u get ur bfp real soon....
Minniemouse....that sounds like a good idea....something is defiantly going on....do u know if ur ovulating? Dodoesnt pos and end cause irregular periods and low progesterone?
Apparently implantation can vary depending on the woman...it can be from light spotting to a light period..and it normally only lasts from a few hrs to 3 days....its normally from red to pink to brown blood but not like af......and not heavy like af
I keep checking and there is some when i wipe and a bit on pad...its not constant but is there....its kinda redish....i still have a bit of period pain...see how i go tonight and if it gets heavier and darker....i have never had break through bleeding or anything like that before....unless my cycles r really up to buggar.....
Keep your fingers crossed Melster hopefully it is implantation for you darl, I'm hoping and praying for you that it is.
AFM- Not sure if AF is gunna hit soon as of the last half hour I have pain down in my girly area IYKWIM......not even sure how to explain it but it is really uncomfortable down there when I'm sitting down, nearly like a dull ache i spose. Just wish AF would get here like now. But it's looking like I'm gunna have to wait yet another 20+ days and have yet another BT.........I so wanted to get to the gynae like NOW......but that aint gunna happen.......
Well i am completely bummed and upset................i think this might be af early..its more than spotting....and its a bit heavier now but no were near af yet....i still have slight cramping....and the blood is redish and had a couple small brown clots......i am still holding out hope but i dunno...i will see how it goes today...normally if it was af it be real heavy by now...
What causes early af and short cycles..?? so if it is af i have gone from 4 days late last cycle to 8 days early what the?????
Clairesmummy...so we need to swap...you have my af and i'll have you're no bleeding LOL....
Melster- Until AF arrives properly darl you are still in with a chance I have my FX that it's not AF for you, sending you massive amounts of baby dust. I would of swapped with you yesterday but now I'm at CD28 and no sign of AF this morning yet.......so now when she arrives I will be waiting until CD20 something to go and have yet another BT done next cycle. So won't be seeing any gynae now till next month to get some answers. Think I'm going to start calling AF Uncle Flow "UF" as just like a man she is never on time.....lol........
I have just message my ob's receptionist to ask her and see if its too early or what she thinks............i booked an appointment to see my dr tomorrow and see if he will do the test or give me a referral to my ob....might be too early but i'll give it a go anyways....im not waiting a year of this....might have to go back to accupunture as well......im getting pretty sick of this to be honest.....
Be good if they can help you out darl, at least you will have some answers as to why and what's happening. Not knowing is the worst part I think. It drives you insane all the waiting and not knowing and all the what if's. This month I decided to not even think about TTC as I had my DR appointment for my BT and just left it all up to dear ol' mother nature to decide what was/is going to happen for me this month. And it has relieved my stress of TTC so much it's unbelievable. But now it's a different story as I will have to got through the wait all over again before I can have another BT. And who know's what my UF is doing I have no idea. I always have spotting before he arrives but so far there is nothing.
It cracks me up every time I read my own posts this month as I could well be UTD as we did DTD no idea if I o'd though so not sure on that one. But instead of even considering I may be UTD I just have it in my head that UF is playing tricks on me yet again. Small things amuse me I guess.....lol......
Anyhoo I hope you get some answers darl from your DR or OB I have my FX for you. Take care of you.
clairesmummy: test test ??......fingers crossed honey
Melster: it is all so frustrating, i hope it isn't af for you, i understand your feeling of finding it hard to continue, it just shouldn't be this hard, big hugs to you
Minni- I caved and did a test about an hour ago and no surprise to me it was a BFN, but I got a light +ive result on my OPK. If no AF by tonight I will test again with FMU tomoro. If no AF by Monday I will be heading back to my DR to see if she can refer me to a gynae asap.
ooohhh fingers crossed big time for you ! bummer about bfn (what brand test ?) but still a glimmer of hope with opt ! how confusing for you ! i say & for you !
I used a First response HPT, but in saying I took the test it may not be right as I have been drinking on and off all morning as well. Still no sign of AF arriving yet. Feeling really tired this afternoon might go and curl up with DD and have a little snooze.
Thank you for the vote of confidence darl I appreciate it. Time will tell one way or the other, but I think the BFN it right though cause the only thing that may have resembled O time for me this cycle was when I had some pinkish spotting 1 night when I wiped after a loo trip, but have had no real temp rise at all. The confusing part for me is that I have never had any spotting at O time if that's what it was. Ahhhhhhh who knows, I don't any more. LOL
How are you today darl? AF arrived for you yet?
Grrr how annoying I just lost my big long post!!!
Melster - oh no sweetie I am sorry if it is AF.....
Clairesmummy - try your FMU I know its crazy we can't stop POAS!! Goodluck I am crossing lots of stuff for you!
Well my TWW has begun, had a tiny bit of EWCM this morning now its gone after 4 days so I think o must have been yesterday or the day before... we DTD bang on time I think so hopefully this month will work I am waaaaaaaaaaay over TTC!
Joeve- FX tightly for you with your TWW darl, hope you get your BFP at the end of it. I will be trying with FMU tomoro if AF is still a no show, I'm at CD28 today and have always had signs of her turning up by now but have just been to the loo yet again and still nothing. Haven't had any more cramps since 2 days ago but have been having little niggles in my lower belly this afternoon like I'm about to get AF cramps but they don't get to be cramps IYKWIM. Gosh this is so god dang frustrating. Feel a bit bloated today like I do with AF but very very tired as well, could have something to do with going to town yesterday as it's over 1.5hours away from home no idea any more.
Minniemouse......i am so frustrated!!!!!!!......did you get any more bleeding?
Clairesmummy......sorry about the BFN!!!!!!!!!!!!!! did you end up taking the b6?? Maybe thats lengthened you're cycles a bit?????
Hey Joeve...the big tww...its an interesting time isnt it...i hope you get you're BFP this month...i am with you with the "over TTC thing"
ATM.....im sitting here at work in a bad mood with loads of self pitty....a work mate asked if i was alright and i just said i was tired...im just over it..................plus i am tired, my boobs are killing me, my stomachs bloated, i feel like i have put on 10kilo..my bowels arent doing that great, im getting hot flushes and headache etc...so i just feel like poo and i am sooooooo dissapointment....i dont want to go through another month of this...
So af seems to have arrived 8 days early this month...so i have gone from late to early...and now i am getting some clotting which i dont normally get.....so i am lost as to what is going on with me and i am so annoyed with my body....so i have dr's tom...no response yet back from the ob and i have booked myself back into accupunture on monday and see if that can help regulate my hormones...and i have no doubt its got something to do with my hormone levels.....so i guess i count this as af and count down from yesterday??? and we start the cycle all over again......yayyyyyyyy for me....NOT
Clairesmummy - yep try tomorrow...I think the feeling like AF is a symptom of AF and preg how confusing it all is!!! Oh actually make that annoying!!
Melster - oh sweetie I feel for you, we have all been at that bad place hope you get some answers soon!
I am bored with the TWW and it still have 2 weeks to go
Melster- I'm so sorry that AF arrived early for you hoping you get some answers from your DR tomoro. Good luck with the accupunture. I have been taking the B6 this cycle could be I never even though about the B6, but if it's going to stop me from ovulating I think I will stop taking it. I have O'd in every cycle before except this one so I'm thinking about agreeing with my DR and leaving my TTC up to the medical world......
Joeve- I will be....lol......you will get this picture when i do test..... and why oh why oh why did I waste yet another HPT just to get a BFN........lol... I'm not even that stressed about the whole thing at the moment, I'm just like yeah yeah whatever happens happens. I'm so over stressing about TTC that it's not funny thinking we will just kick back get some jobs done around here that are long over due and get to see a gynae one day or another and take it from there. We have been TTC now for over 2 years and it hasn't happened you would think that my DR would just refer me to the gynae anyhow with out waiting for more bloody BTs next cycle. It's not like I'm 24 any more and the big 35 is approaching quickly. But oohhhh well I will just join the fairies that fly around here at home with no baby dust and let what will be will be........
We will do our best to help you through your darl try to keep your mind busy is the best thing to do........I'm always up for a chat if you need to vent darl.....good luck and sending you lots of
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and why oh why oh why did I waste yet another HPT just to get a BFN........lol... I'm not even that stressed about the whole thing at the moment, I'm just like yeah yeah whatever happens happens. I'm so over stressing about TTC that it's not funny thinking we will just kick back get some jobs done around here that are long over due and get to see a gynae one day or another and take it from there. We have been TTC now for over 2 years and it hasn't happened you would think that my DR would just refer me to the gynae anyhow with out waiting for more bloody BTs next cycle. It's not like I'm 24 any more and the big 35 is approaching quickly. But oohhhh well I will just join the fairies that fly around here at home with no baby dust and let what will be will be........
darl try to keep your mind busy is the best thing to do........I'm always up for a chat if you need to vent darl.....good luck and sending you lots of
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