Clairesmummy - We have a room set up as of yesterday now... it's all very strange feeling. I got up this morning and peeked inside and it was all still there. This is happening! Poor DF not being able to get the job done, although I don't think I could do it under those circumstances either. I agree with your dr, it will happen again, it's just a matter of when. Good luck with your appointment and I hope you get your referral. (Oh and btw I don't know what comes after the mango.. it's all very exciting lol)