thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage/Loss - September 2009

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  1. #1
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    Aug 2009
    Murray River Victoria
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    Hearts, TwinSis and Starangel best of luck for testing in the next few days, who can hold out the longest POAS!
    I know I would cave!

    Coco I hope it is just too early to test babesX Sorry to hear your EDD it around the corner, mine is next month too, it's like I'm racing myself to get that BFP before the date so I'm not as much of a mess...........or see a brighter light anyway.

    SammyP so sorry to hear that AF showed up thismorning I hope that your BFP is just around the bend for you X Nice that you have MIL supporting you X

    Matthew'sMum welcome to BB, sorry for your loss, RIP Little Angel Matthew Thomas, what a lovely name you chose for him.
    Hope that you have some good news with the Clomid, I personally have not used it but I'm sure some of the girls here have.
    Anyways I'm sure you will get plenty of support from the girls here, and I hope that your stay with us is a short and successfull one X
    OH! Buy the way stop reading and go BD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    AFM 3DPIUI and has been the longest 3 days ever. I'm still a little crampy now and then, more just like a little twinge to remind me how slow the day is going. Back at work today.
    Tomorrow I have Inj of Pregnyl 1500iu to support hormones and endometrium if there is any baby cells happening, and another on Monday which will be 1week PIUI. That mwill be my last inj for the cycle yipee!!!!!
    Last edited by murraycod; September 17th, 2009 at 05:28 PM. : braindead today,cant spell!

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    Sep 2009
    WA
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    Hi there been reading all these posts from women in the same boat its amazing you think it only happens to you when the Dr says Im sorry your baby didn't grow after the 9th week of pregnancy youv'e had a silent misscarriage. Happened to me sept 2nd this year came back after a 10 day trip to the UK to see my son get married and thought I was 12 weeks pregnant and looking forward to making plans and having my 1st scan and after the scan those are the words I heard my DR say !

    Had a D & C but can't wait the next month to have a period so have been trying to conceive since the bleeding stopped over a week ago ! anyone else decided they needed to try as soon as they can to get this empty feeling gone and another little person start to grow ! Im 44 am I too old for this now? anyone else my age out there trying to get pregnant after miscarriage ?

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    Sep 2009
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    hi all,Murraycod--Thanks for the welcome,hope this is the cycle for you. Craftymummy --Sorry for your loss.I don't have age on my side either,my ob told me if I was going to try again do it sooner than later,still trying.I also had the huge desire ttc straght away,I think we need to try to get something back after we have lost so much.Hope your utd soon.

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    Jun 2008
    Cardiff Heights
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    I have been feeling fluttery crampy things where I belive my uterus is put your hand over the very top of your pubis mound (yes all scientific) about 3/4 way between your bellybutton and where your ermm...labia.starts ..that's where im feeling it..It's either implantation or its the lining starting to shed a little... I HATE this part of the TWW!!

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    Jun 2009
    Camperdown
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    Coco that sounds very promising, i hope its a BFP for you this month, keeping my for you hun.
    Welcome Matthewsmum and craftmummy sorry to hear of your losses but youve come to a great bunch of girls with lots of support to offer. Craftmummy i also felt the need to try again straight away, thought it may make things a little easier but so far havent got my BFP so dont know if it helped at all, but im pretty sure it would make it a little easier.
    Hello to everyone else havent got time for all persies tonight, have to get up for work very early and should be in bed already but this BB always sucks me in
    Talk soon

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    Apr 2007
    Melbourne
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    Craftymummy - I am 43 and trying to conceive my second. I had a similar experience in May this year when we went to visit DH's family in Canada. I was 11 weeks and began to bleed the day before we came home. A scan showed the baby had stopped growing at 8.5 weeks. I waited one cycle to try again and got pregnant last month only to lose it two weeks later. We tried again straight away but AF began today so we obviously weren't successful. I am so sorry to see you on this board but I have to say it's nice to have someone my age around to talk with.

  7. #7
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    Sep 2009
    6

    Unhappy

    No need for me to test either cause AF came this morning....so disappointed! Just have to hope and pray that next monrh is my month!!

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    Jul 2009
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    Hearts and Sammy P - sorry to hear that AF has arrived..........I have also started to get AF type cramps and since I know this cycle will be out of whack (first cycle since m/c) I would say I will also be posting similar news very soon.

    Take care everyone

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    Jun 2008
    Cardiff Heights
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    So sorry to hear ladies. I too will be out this month i belive, I had a bfn this morning and I had a temp drop so surely she will be here soon...

    I could stay in denial and say that the temp drop was because I was awake relatively early and I was not wearing my flannellete pj bottoms and wrapped in the doona like I normally am..but..i think ill just be honest with myself.

    I dont have much of the usual ovary pain I normally get..its more in the middle, not to the side if you get my drift? not that its meaning anything to me at the moment!

    Hope you're all having a good day!!

    ETA: The FF analaysis thing says that i am in the "implantation phase" of the cycle..or, at the phase where it may occur..but if my cycle normally goes to 14dpo then I wouldnt think it would stick if it were implanting? Im going nuts!!!
    Last edited by coco1411; September 18th, 2009 at 09:53 AM.

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    May 2004
    Shepparton
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    Oh Coco Fingers crossed it was still too early.

    Star, I hope you are having early pg cramps.... yu never know... they are very similar!!

    Matthew's and crafty mum... good luck and welcome

    Well Banjo's EDD was yesterday.... filled my thoughts all day and continues to do so. I tested and got a BFN... I really didn't want to test, but thought what they hay... may just be shocked to see a second line. I was 10 DPO. Got a big temp drop this morn.... I will have to wait until the morning to see if it means anything....

    xx

  11. #11
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    Jun 2008
    Cardiff Heights
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    Tanya, you poor thing, I hope you are ok xxxx My due date is fast approaching and I think ill be in my tww at that time.

    I am definately feeling something happening there..god I hope its implantation...i really thought it would be too late.