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thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage/Loss - September 2009

  1. #109
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    Jun 2008
    Cardiff Heights
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    I have been feeling fluttery crampy things where I belive my uterus is put your hand over the very top of your pubis mound (yes all scientific) about 3/4 way between your bellybutton and where your ermm...labia.starts ..that's where im feeling it..It's either implantation or its the lining starting to shed a little... I HATE this part of the TWW!!

  2. #110
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    Jun 2009
    Camperdown
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    Coco that sounds very promising, i hope its a BFP for you this month, keeping my for you hun.
    Welcome Matthewsmum and craftmummy sorry to hear of your losses but youve come to a great bunch of girls with lots of support to offer. Craftmummy i also felt the need to try again straight away, thought it may make things a little easier but so far havent got my BFP so dont know if it helped at all, but im pretty sure it would make it a little easier.
    Hello to everyone else havent got time for all persies tonight, have to get up for work very early and should be in bed already but this BB always sucks me in
    Talk soon

  3. #111
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    Apr 2007
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    Craftymummy - I am 43 and trying to conceive my second. I had a similar experience in May this year when we went to visit DH's family in Canada. I was 11 weeks and began to bleed the day before we came home. A scan showed the baby had stopped growing at 8.5 weeks. I waited one cycle to try again and got pregnant last month only to lose it two weeks later. We tried again straight away but AF began today so we obviously weren't successful. I am so sorry to see you on this board but I have to say it's nice to have someone my age around to talk with.

  4. #112
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    Sep 2009
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    Unhappy

    No need for me to test either cause AF came this morning....so disappointed! Just have to hope and pray that next monrh is my month!!

  5. #113
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    Jul 2009
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    Hearts and Sammy P - sorry to hear that AF has arrived..........I have also started to get AF type cramps and since I know this cycle will be out of whack (first cycle since m/c) I would say I will also be posting similar news very soon.

    Take care everyone

  6. #114
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    Jun 2008
    Cardiff Heights
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    So sorry to hear ladies. I too will be out this month i belive, I had a bfn this morning and I had a temp drop so surely she will be here soon...

    I could stay in denial and say that the temp drop was because I was awake relatively early and I was not wearing my flannellete pj bottoms and wrapped in the doona like I normally am..but..i think ill just be honest with myself.

    I dont have much of the usual ovary pain I normally get..its more in the middle, not to the side if you get my drift? not that its meaning anything to me at the moment!

    Hope you're all having a good day!!

    ETA: The FF analaysis thing says that i am in the "implantation phase" of the cycle..or, at the phase where it may occur..but if my cycle normally goes to 14dpo then I wouldnt think it would stick if it were implanting? Im going nuts!!!
    Last edited by coco1411; September 18th, 2009 at 09:53 AM.

  7. #115
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    May 2004
    Shepparton
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    Oh Coco Fingers crossed it was still too early.

    Star, I hope you are having early pg cramps.... yu never know... they are very similar!!

    Matthew's and crafty mum... good luck and welcome

    Well Banjo's EDD was yesterday.... filled my thoughts all day and continues to do so. I tested and got a BFN... I really didn't want to test, but thought what they hay... may just be shocked to see a second line. I was 10 DPO. Got a big temp drop this morn.... I will have to wait until the morning to see if it means anything....

    xx

  8. #116
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    Jun 2008
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    Tanya, you poor thing, I hope you are ok xxxx My due date is fast approaching and I think ill be in my tww at that time.

    I am definately feeling something happening there..god I hope its implantation...i really thought it would be too late.

  9. #117
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    Sep 2009
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    eliselouise-Thank you for your kind words,Ithink it's pretty easy to get addicted to this site...sammy & hearts-sorry to hear af arrived,hope you can do something nice for yourself...starangelk&coco-sounds like there is still hope for you guys,it hard to tell when cycles are mixed up,frustrating I know...tanya-Thanks for the welcome,thoughts are with you,heard a lot of people find it helps to mark the day in some way.We had a small picnic around Matthew's grave,everybody is different though.

  10. #118
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    May 2004
    Shepparton
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    I need to share....

    I had this weird pregnancy symptom that I got with ~little Bundle~ and Banjo... Late in the tww I would check my cervix and cm and there would be a little bit of blood... I assume it is from the cervix beginning to do what it does in pregnancy... I just checked my cervix cause I feel like there is more cm there so I wanted to check and see if it was pre AF cm... there is a tiny bit of blood. I was shaking cause I know it is a positive sign for pregnancy for me.... *hopefully* not going near my cervix again and if my temp is up in the morning I will test.
    Cross your fingers for me girls!!

  11. #119
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    May 2009
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    Tanya - I hope it is a positive sign for you. for a BFP tomorrow.

    Coco - I hope your temp jumps back up tomorrow and you get those lovely 2 lines.

    Good luck to everyone who is testing soon. Im sorry a few of you have had A/f show up.

    Wecome to the new ladies. You will get so much support in here!

    to everyone

  12. #120
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    Feb 2009
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    Hey Everyone ! Hope you are all well.

    Tanya - big time for you ! Please let this be it !

    xoxoxoxo

  13. #121
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    Aug 2006
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    I'm out for this month too. I sleepily tested at like 5am this morning and got a BFN. I went to back to bed kind of sad but I had been expecting it. I shouldn't have even bothered testing though as a few hours later I started spotting and getting AF cramps. We will not be out of town this next cycle so hopefully we will have better luck.

    Matthew's Mum & Craftymummy - I'm sorry to hear of your losses, welcome to the thread. I hope your stay here is a short one

    Coco and Tanya - fingers crossed for you both!

    Hearts and Sammy - I'm so sorry to hear AF arrived for you guys too. Hopefully next month will be our month.

  14. #122
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    Jun 2008
    Cardiff Heights
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    Hi all

    I got a BFN too...Im pretty sure that at 13dpo it means Im out. AF will be here today or tomorrow *sigh* I thought we did so well too..

    Back to the drawing board eh?

  15. #123
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    May 2004
    Shepparton
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    Oh, TS Sorry about af showing.... that truly sux! Take care of yourself.

    Well, I didn't test...Overnight I got every pre-af symptom I usually get, plus my temp was still low... I am not sure what was going on yesterday.... *sigh* I am pretty sure my bleed will begin tomorrow.

  16. #124
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    Jun 2008
    Cardiff Heights
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    WHY ARE WE ALL HAVING TROUBLE!!!



    Sorry for yelling...

  17. #125
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    Jul 2009
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    Morning ladies

    Coco - your final post is EXACTLY how I am feeling. Pls feel free to yell, it helps.

    Twin sister - sorry to hear about your BFN.

    Tanya - it isn't over until it's over..................but you know your body the best.

    I am 11 DPO and took a HPT this morning and it was a BFN as well. This is my first cycle so I expect it to be a bit all over the shop but I have been having AF style pains so I think it is only a matter of time for me too. That said, I am still in some sort of denial and plan to keep testing until AF comes. Luckily for me I bought cheapie internet tests and lots of them. My chart still looks good but this morning I took my temp in both ears and picked the highest one....I think it's cheating.

  18. #126
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    May 2004
    Shepparton
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    Star.... don't give up.

    Yell all you like Coco (((hugs)))

    You are right I do know my body... it does this everytime flow is due... Just wish it were wrong for once! But I also thought what I experienced yesterday was a pregnancy sign.... then again it's gone today. Just over it all *sigh* ahhh well...

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