Hi ladies!
Congrats mini! That's awesome! Praying for a H&H 9 months for you.
Lysndan- welcome! A bit rough hubby being away for your anniversary, hope he makes it back in time. Hopefully your time in here is short and sweet!
Shan- you have had such an awful week! I hope things are looking up
Diamond Girl- hope you're well.
Joeve- Welcome, although sorry you have to be here. Sometimes moving forward is the only option, and I know I actually feel better now I've made the decision to TTC again. GL.
Mumtotwo- I hope all the testing goes well and you get some answers. hugs for thursday.
Hi everyone else!
AFM: I have just got home from our Easter weekend away, and I've had a great time! I'm almost positive I o'd last Thursday night, but scan on Friday showed a good follie on my right and a smaller one on my left so FS decided I needed to trigger on SUnday just in case. SO now I'm feeling icky after the shot and I'm not even sure it was necessary! Either way, I'm officially TWWing for the first time since m/c...whoa...here we go again!
AFM: crap, thats the quickest and easiest word to write. 54 days of having my period, 54 days of being moody, 54 days of not being able to wear a nice pair of undies, 54 days of feeling like death warmed up and 54 days of cramps.
Today I threw away my 12 positive pregnancy tests, they went in the garbage truck and are gone forever. I keep looking at them so they had to go. What a complete crap place to be, not pregnant, not able to ttc, not sure if I want to and totally not wanting to have to start over.....
Shan - I hope they were able to find out what is going on with you. What a terrible time you have had.
Joeve -
LnD - Sorry to hear AF arrived.
AFM - I am finally due to ovulate in the next few days so Im happy about that. My m/c has totally changed my cycles though. They are longer now than they were before my m/c which is not helpful because we want to conceive as quickly as possible. Im just so sick of waiting, I mean we started ttc in July last year! Where is my baby?
Last edited by Diamond Girl; April 30th, 2011 at 09:14 PM.
: We started ttc in July not August, sigh
just wanted to pop in and say hey. will float around and see how you are going if that is okay?
good luck for the weekend BubbaT - i hope everything goes well for you and your hubby-to-be!!! i hope the weather behaves for you.
DiamondGirl - i found my cycles were a lot longer (and my 'normal' cycle was already long!) and it bothered me a lot. my mom wasnt sure about going on clomid to shorten my cycles cuz she didnt think it was necessary but i just felt like i was wasting two weeks cuz my cycles were 42 days long. i always felt instead of 12 months to TTC we were only really getting about 8 cuz of all the extra weeks in my cycle. I explained that to my OBgyn who deals in fertility and that is why he put me on Clomid straight after the D&C.
Shan- i hope you get answers and some great results from you U/S this morning.
hi ladies, friday I called my gyno but he wasnt in. They got my results though and said they thought i would call and everything appears NORMAL??!! then what the hell is going on??
Well sofar this morning AF has stayed away and im hoping its for good!
hi ladies,looks like i've got some catching up to do...lynsdan & joeve-sorry...shan-glad af is finally gone...minivini-congratulations!!...welcome to new ladies,hope your next bfp is sooner than later,sorry for your losses...afm-doing another ivf stim cycle,scan on friday to check follicles
Last edited by Matthew's Mum; April 30th, 2011 at 07:03 PM.
Have been unsure about whether to read/join this thread as i suppose i think it might make me sad. Had a missed m/c at 8 weeks altho i think i knew something was wrong - no idea why. Anyway, we will try again straight away but i'm scared about having another loss, i suppose that's normal. I just wanted to ask what everyone's cycles are like post-miscarriage? I was having long cycles when i fell pregnant (not O-ing till around day 33/34), have your cycles been the same or longer or shorter? Feeling anxious, sad & uncertain....
Oh boy am I behind! Don't really have much time to come on computer on here anymore, just iPod and it's hard to do persies on that. So now I'm on the computer:
becnxavi: How did your TWW go?
Joeve: I'm so sorry about your m/c I feel the same as you and now it's taken longer for me than it did the first time! FX we get our bubs soon!
mummytotwo: Hope you can start TTC soon!
shan: I'm sorry you've had an awful time since I last was on here! I really hope things start getting better for you soon. *huge hugs!* GL with your knee operation!
DG: *hugs* isn't it frustrating? I'm nearly TTC as long as you... since August. It's now taking longer to conceive than it did the first time.
LysnDan: Hope things are okay with you hun! I haven't been able to get on FB for more than 1 minute for a while so not sure what's happening. *hug* xxx
minivini2b: CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!! So happy for you!! FX for a sticky H&H baby!
Matthew's Mum: Hope your scan went okay and it's a good result for TTC!
hopefulgirl: Sorry you had to join us in here hun It's quite a slow moving thread compared to the TTC one. My m/c was also a missed one but at 12 weeks and I also think I knew something was wrong but not enough to act on it... IYKWIM? I take comfort in the fact that even if I had acted on it, they still wouldn't have been able to do anything about it. I'm now waiting for O in my 5th cycle after my m/c, 4 of actively trying. Only took 3 cycles the first time Mine haven't really changed length. The first 2 were normal (including the bleed straight after) and the second 2 have been a day shorter and 2 days longer respectively. *big hugs for you* Here you will find support because we all know what you're going through!
AFM: Coming up to O soon. REALLY want to catch that eggie. It's now been 4 actively TTC cycles since my m/c and it only took 3 to fall pregnant for that one. So that's quite frustrating. The other frustrating thing is the number of friends who've announced pregnancy on FB recently... always timed near AF as well. It really hurts. I've been quite sad and emotional about the whole thing lately and I think once I'm in the TWW I'm going to get the mods to ban me for it cause last time I tried not to come on here, it didn't work and I think I obsessed more than when I was on here. If I'm banned, I'll KNOW I can't go on, so I'll just not bother and do other things, then my mind will be off it.
Last edited by phebee; June 2nd, 2011 at 05:03 PM.
Hi girls,
just a quick one for me, I will go back in read and do persies later.
So my TWW in my 'practise' round has been quite eventful! I was POAS to track the pregnyl going out of my system, and imagine my surprise when MOnday the 2nd line started to get darker...so off I trooped to my FS to get a BT and it came back with a low ready of hcg at 27 for 13DPO which isn't great. So I went back today for a follow up BT and it didn't get back in time so now I need to wait untill tomorrow to know whether it's a definate or not. For now though, tentative BFP from me, praying and praying that this is my miracle but once again worried it wont stick around. Hang in there little one!
Hopeful girl - sorry you had to join us in here. A thread like this can make you sad but for me the help & support far outweighs this so....Hope your stay here is short anyway.I have had 3 d&c's & after the 1st my cycle took 6 wks to come back, after the 2nd 28 days (my regular cycle length) & the 3rd 30 days. My period came back pretty much the same as before the m/c's so no major changes there.
Bec - woo hoo - hope the results tomorrow are good ones!!
Shan - whats happening with you now? Hope it is all good!
phebee - I hope this is your month too - you shouldnt be made to wait once you've had a m/c - it doesn't seem fair & as if the stress isn't bad enough already....lol at getting the mods to ban you!
Hi to everyone else also - haven't posted for a while but have read everyones news.
AFM....Have started my recurrent m/c testing - had a internal scan yesterday, have another one with saline inserted into the uterus tomorrow & lots of BT's coming up. Fun, fun, fun. If it turns something up though it will be all worth it.
Anyway, hugs, babydust & sticky vibes to all x
Oh bec Hope hope hope hope this is your sticky one!!
hopefulgirl, my lengths probably don't help much - I had a natural m/c rather than a d&c, bled for 14 days, my first cycle was a bit longer, but my LP was still normal. After that I was on herbs to decrease the length of my cycle which worked - but my cycles were soooo long, like in the 40s, and never as regular as someone like phee's. One or two days I wouldn't have considered early or late, just a normal variant. I think they're generally pretty normal though. Good luck - may your journey be short. We got pg pretty quickly after the m/c and so far so good, so there is hope
mummytotwo, I hope your testing either shows you're good to go or that there's something they can do big :hugs: your way.
Good luck guys - I'm obviously still stalking you guys, can't wait for some big fat sticky results in here.
hi ladies, sorry iv been MIA lately but havent really had time between school, work and BDing AF has left 3 days ago after...ooh iv forgotten how flipping long. Just on 5mg of primult N now which i will be for another 2-3 weeks until im ready to give AF another go.
Knee op set for the 20th June so 9 days short of finishing all classes for my nursing grrr but ill sort that out over the next week or 2.
still feeling very tired, immune system is nonexsistant and this is my 2nd cold in 3-4 weeks
he will be home the day after.. 
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Hope hope hope hope this is your sticky one!!
AF has left 3 days ago after...ooh iv forgotten how flipping long. Just on 5mg of primult N now which i will be for another 2-3 weeks until im ready to give AF another go.
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