Jen I'm here, still lurking just not posting very much at the moment. I've only got a couple of minutes at the moment, it's almost 7am and I start work at 7.30 and still have so much to get through before work. My little baby who started a couple of weeks ago had the best day yesterday (hopefully today will be the same) I was able to leave the room, he just followed me instead of sitting and crying. I'm still for you that you'll end up with a BFP. We really need a couple of more for August.
Ruthie - WOW. Just wanted to say what a beautiful first picture of bub.
I'll pop back in later when I get the chance, as well as the little one due at 7.30 I have two due about 8am (one is having her first day with me - so not sure how she'll go - although she is already using care somewhere else so she should be right).
Off to wake my boys for school and feed the chooks.
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Hi ladies - I just want you to know that I am always thinking for you and praying for you!! Big hugs to anyone who especially needs them - I have plenty to give if there are a few of you
Just wanted to you to know that we had our scan yesterday and found out we are having a little .
(thanks Jen for your reply in my recent blog - I took ur advice )
no time for persies for everyone but just wanted to spread a little
jen- i am still hoping and so hard for your BFP, am sure it is just around the corner...will be checking in reguarly to see how you go. haven't really moved to the other thread yet, just sticking my toe in the water...
Here is a possible update- I think I may have a BFP its pretty dark and fat line & it came after the time limit, But I'm scared it could be an evap. I thought that last month too and it turned into a true BFP I guess we will see what tomorrows test looks like...I took 2 tests this morning one BFN one possible BFP My doctor told me after my MC that if I got pregnant again I need to tell them right away so I can get blood works done, But to call during office hours. So, I will probably call them tomorrow "DEPENDING" on what the test is like. I'm still pretty doubtful, I get wiffs of nausea but cramping so its making me think I'm not, I'm also craving the father of the babys likes, Chicken and lemon pudding so far. I'm actully having some issues with DH, The woman in 6+ months know whats going on and I thought Id repost it over here.
I have something I haven't told you girls either because its a LONG LONG story & kinda confusing. But me and DH have been together a total of 5 years and beenhaving issues for 5 years all together also and we just got married a year ago lets say I got with someone else (actully an ex of mine I dated long ago and hadn't heard from him for 3 1/2 years so, Me and DH split back then we were only engaged & I ended up dating this guy) And I had still had feelings for him and tried finding him even before me and DH got married and I couldn't this year I found him. Dh and I still live with each other trying "trying" to work things out. The baby I lost last month was not his, Nor would this baby if I was pregnant. Hes still here to support me and love me, He loves me more than anything, But I have never felt in love with him, I love him but am not "Inlove" or happy with him..Anyways, its a long story thats just some of it... I did end up leaving the guy I was with because he's exactly just the same as he was years ago he still smokes the bads( the Greens) and hes immature/Irresponsible & bad with money, He lied to my face saying he would stop doing the green and I find the roachs in his car and smell the green on his breath & he would say its not mine and how can you smell that??!. But me and him are still good friends. DH is more happy now I'm not with my ex. But I still feel like its never gonna work with me and DH either. I just kinda hope that god can show me the way for the kids sake..
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And, also on the note of whats been going on with me and hubby, All DH asks if I'm pregnant is to have the baby in his name (give the baby his last name) Which me and ex talked about it he said thats fine, we both agreed that if we don't get back together (hes trying to get his money together, And get his own apartment & stop the drugs) I told him I would see when it comes down to the time that hes got things together for awhile before I get back with him (if I even do). That we didn't want him to pay child support but he was more than welcome to come see his child anytime!! (I'm pretty nice to men when it comes to there children) Not going with the whole hailey story, But lets say her dad doesn't even want her but basically wont give up rights because his parents are forcing him not to so they can have her. I have been trying to get him to be a father to her since she was born but he just isn't into it (I tried letting him have her for 1 week at a time) every other weekday and weekend, But he started treating hailey and me like ass & putting her in jepordy of his grandparents possibly doing something sexually to her, sO I took her away from the weeks and made him only have her everyother weekend, He told me that it was BS that his grandparents would never do that and he was cussing at me, And we do safe exams every time she comes back and theres no evadince thank god, But they want us to use a phycilogist when she can talk better and that could be 6 years from now and all I can do is think whats going on to my baby girl why does she act this way I wish I could know. I know DH is better for me and is ready for a family hes been here for me through everything imaginable my first child is by a different man & he stood by myside and took her as his own when the guy had nothing to do with me or his own child till after she was born and 2 months old, He is a great guy but I just havne't ever felt that he was it for me and for 5 years I keep asking how do I know there isn't someone better? I got married to him because I already had a kid and was pregnant with my second child (DH's child) And I knew that no one would want 2 kids and a serious relationship right away. So I got married because I knew there wasn't no one there & I couldn't find my long lost ex and gave up. Than about may 2008 I found him had him come over explained that I still loved him what not and it hit off more than ever. But, I had to let him go because I knew he was not ready for a family he though he was but he was still the point were he still partied and he would use His sick days on stupid things (just to party) instead of for emergency's.. Dh, poor man has been through years off hell with me he never let me go back in the day (and I was like if you would have just told me not to come back to you back than or you would have got off my back when I was dating you wouldn't have to go through all this, All I can say is I'm sorry. Now we are looking into finding why I have never been happy or why I feel the way I do with him by going to try marriage counsalling. So we will see...
PLC-Congrats on the little girl darling Do you have names yet?? "What am I asking?" I'm probably the only one who has names picked out before being pregnant.. LOL. I'm so happy for you and that things are going very well, You will contiunu and bubs will be as well in my prayers.
Special post all for PLC! Oh wow sweetness! A little girl! I soooo imagined that you were having a little girl (although I imagine most people with girls hehehe). She's going to be such a pretty little thing!
I am so excited for you! I'm going to keep using lots of exclamation marks!
Did you cry when you found out? I would have cried, lol. You're going to have to start buying lots of pink things now
Mollycat - Hope you're feeling a little better today. Wish I was spewing instead of sneezing (so long as it was MS)!
Easha - My LP is an average of 14, a minimum of 10, max of 16. All over the shop it seems!! I like the fact that b6 brings your O date sooner though ... just in case. Are there any side affects? Is there any reason why someone like me SHOULDN'T take it? Hope DH gets along ok with the jar.
Babyfever - Sorry those test are playing up on you. And I hope I don't upset you when I say this, but, if you don't love your current DH and you don't think you ever will, do you think it's fair on him to let him hang around? If you're not UTD now, perhaps you should hold off until you meet someone that you really do love. Do youalready have any children with him? Otherwise you might end up meeting someone down the track and then you might want to have children with them, and then it could end up really messy. I hate coordinating weekends with just one ex and one child. Christmas' and special days would be a nightmare. How old are you if you don't mind me asking? Is your biological clock ticking? Or do you have some years to spare? If you have some years to spare, as hard as it may be at the moment, I would put the bub on hold and wait till everything is sorted out. Please don't be upset by this, I just want you to be happy in the long run.
AFM - Feeling much better today, but still not 100%, so considering I don't often take sick days, I have decided to stay at home and will go back tomorrow. CD2 for me. I am a bit hesitant ... seeing I didn't conceive last month, and that was the month I took progesterone pessaries ... I don't want to mess with my body too much ... but considering 2 MCs in a row, may be it needs messing with a little bit?? I don't know? Do I use the prog pess this month? Do I use B6?? Do I go to the acupuncturist?? Ahhhhhhhhhhh!!!!
for you that you'll end up with a BFP. We really need a couple of more for August.
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