Bon, Forshelby - i agree with you ... although my inconsiderate bb crusher is my 3 cats! Do they have no resepect? Of course not, neutered males.

Loops - oh sweetie - big hugs. I am so sorry you're in such a tough sport right now. Do you feel up to asking DH directly why he's got a case of SOTL ( poo on the liver)? Or are you just going to bear the brunt? I was thinking maybe with the drinkies came some foxy lady dancing and hence the headahces and pain.... I hope AF stays away so you don't need to worry about IVF.

Melster - I haven't heard of raspberry leaf tea being used before 36 weeks - I would ask a traditional chinese medicine person or herbalist before trying it. I highly recommend accupuncture and TCM herbs to help restore uterine lining. I have used both and AF came when and how they said it would. This will be a light AF with 2 days of bleeding - and it was, and it was like that for 3 or 4 cycles... spot on every time... then I stopped for other reasons. I also found it relaxing - the sessions - a chat about how you're going, the treatment, and then 30 mins at least of peaceful music and just being calm and lying still. It was bliss.

Thanks for the words of encouragement too. I really appreciate them. I will be crying too don't worry about that, but tears of joy. Forshelby - the news you get at your scan will be great - but the fear is so understandable and consuming.

All this talk of sausage sizzle is making me jealous.... only another 2 weeks to go until the stitch comes out and DH and I will contemplate a sizzle at home ( OMG that sounds like I am a out in public sneaky sizzler - lol) . Woot Woot. The drought will be over briefly. Maybe its more supportive in here, because we're all so open about our sausage sizzles and how we are feeling?