Shan - I agree with Lisa on everything she said. Saved me typing it hehe.

I had my appt today to follow up on the m/c. I posted most of this in the TTC Clomid/Met thread, so sorry if some of you have had to read this twice, but thought I would update my friends in here, and see if it makes sense to you all.

I really wanted to know where to go from here and what the plan of attack is. So my Dr said that I should have a 2-3mth break from TTC, stay on metformin, keep taking my vitamins, try to lose 10-15kgs, have my BP monitored regularly and come back to see him in 3mths. Then we will start the Clomid again.

He said that my lining wasn't thick enough for the placenta to stay attached to the uterus, but it's not a recurring problem. I asked if this had anything to do with taking Clomid and he said that it's not the Clomid causing the thin lining, it's the PCOS. I asked what would happen next time I fall pregnant and he said they will send me for weekly BT's, and I'll have fortnightly visits with him and depending on the BT's he will see if I need any injections or medication.

My DH also asked if he could tell us the gender, but he said he couldn't.

So after the appt, my DH and I discussed it - especially the not TTC for 2-3mths and I said that I'm not not going to try.(does that make sense?) The way I look at it, it took 3yrs last time and only worked on our 5th cycle of clomid, so the likelihood of it happening without the clomid is bugger all anyway - so why should I go and spend money on buying condoms lol.

Does that sound crazy? I'm feeling confused about what I want. I want the best possible outcome, so maybe I should follow the Dr's instructions exactly, but I just feel like we are forever putting things back a few months. My next appt with him is 27th March, so if I wait til then I won't be having a baby in my arms til the earliest 2008.