Shan - I'm so sorry to hear of your DH's grandfather passing away. I don't believe anyone will see you as heartless at all, but instead more as a strong supportive loving wife!! xx
Missy - am glad you are feeling a little better. Take it easy and don't be too hard on yourself. If you feel you are ready emotionally to start ttc'ing again then I have everything crossed for you that you get your BFP very soon!
Well DH is doing okay - we've lined up some short term contract work for him for after Christmas through someone he used to work with which should help until he finds something more permanent! He hasn't been happy in his current job for a long time so he's kinda relieved but also I think it's knocked his confidence a little too so I too am trying to be a strong supportive wife at the moment too, whilst in the back of my mind I'm feeling quite stressed about the whole situation too! Luckily we have some savings and not a huge mortgage, but we were about to start looking for a house to buy for our family to be, so I think we'll be putting that on the back burner for now. Thanks everyone for your kinds words of support. xxx
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