Jane-- Your bb's will sort themselves out eventually. I remember thinking how "deflated" mine looked too. Your nipples may stay a little larger than what they were originally and may even be darker than they were-- this is normal. I totally understand what you are saying about trying again straight away. After my first m/c we chose to wait and focus on other things-- our new puppy and our renovations!! which were great distractions. I also found that I needed time to digest what had haapened. After my second (and hopefully LAST) m/c we only waited until I got my first 'REAL" af then started TTC again. It only took 2 cycles and it looks like we have a nice STICKY little bubba! It's very personal but do be prepared to feel differently in a few weeks time. I found I was really up and down-- really positive one minute then scared and wanting to wait the next. You'll find what works for you-- just don't put your grief to the side. Feel what you feel when you feel it. Goodluck! I will be thinking of you!
Hope xoxo