Jane-- Your bb's will sort themselves out eventually. I remember thinking how "deflated" mine looked too. Your nipples may stay a little larger than what they were originally and may even be darker than they were-- this is normal. I totally understand what you are saying about trying again straight away. After my first m/c we chose to wait and focus on other things-- our new puppy and our renovations!! which were great distractions. I also found that I needed time to digest what had haapened. After my second (and hopefully LAST) m/c we only waited until I got my first 'REAL" af then started TTC again. It only took 2 cycles and it looks like we have a nice STICKY little bubba! It's very personal but do be prepared to feel differently in a few weeks time. I found I was really up and down-- really positive one minute then scared and wanting to wait the next. You'll find what works for you-- just don't put your grief to the side. Feel what you feel when you feel it. Goodluck! I will be thinking of you!
Hope xoxo
I hope you all had a happy Christmas. I have so much to catch up on!
mummyto1 - good luck! I hope you caught the egg!
janeo - welcome (but hopefully your stay will be short!) I totally understand where you are coming from - I was the same after my m/c, I just wanted to be pg again, but at the same time was afraid of being pg again! It does get easier with time, and we are all here to make it easier for you. I think it is normal for your body to change a fair bit. My bbs still hurt days after my m/c, and then one day when I was getting into the shower I suddenly noticed how much smaller they had gotten again! Bugger!
Hope, Tanya, Kez & Megan - I am so glad that things are going well for you all!
Hello to everyone else - I hope you are all going well.
Well, I am 11DPO today and wouldn't usually be testing this early, but am seeing my dr today anyway, so thought I may as well test. I got an early response test, used FMU and got a very faint but definitely there BFP.... I am not getting excited, and am so unsure if this is for real or not. Is it possible to get a BFP from left over HCG from the previous pregnancy? It has now been 11 weeks since my m/c and I have O'ed twice. I had assumed that if you have O'ed, you mustn't have any hcg left in your system. Is that right? It is too early to show up in a dr's test I think, as they are usually not as senstive, and my doctor had told me to wait 3 months, which I haven't, so I hope he doesn't tell me off. Part of me is scared it is just a chemical pg as it is so early. I am just going to try to assume that I am not pg for the moment. The only symptom I have had is feeling a little nauseous for the last couple of days. This is so hard - it is just not exciting anymore and I am just expecting to lose it any second...
Bun, OMG, how cool is that!! I will try & stay calm & not get you too excited but CONGRATULATIONS!!!! I hope this one is super glue sticky for you. I also hope your Dr is understanding. Well done girlfriend!!
OMG Bun - That is great news!! Yes it will be the stickest buba ever!! Postive thoughts babe, I know its hard because I struggle too BUT we must be positive :P xxx
That is great news!! Yes it will be the stickest buba ever!! Postive thoughts babe, I know its hard because I struggle too BUT we must be positive :P xxx
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