Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ December 2006 #3

[Cilmum]

Thanks ladies. I would have said the same thing - a line is a line, but it's really so feint, barely even a shadow of a line & it was a cheap test, so I don't want to get my hopes up (even though they are already) just in case it's not real. I will have to test again later in the week (& then probably next week & the week after) before I can really believe it & be joyous about it.

I forgot to take my Elevit the last 3 days too, so now I'm stressing that maybe if I am pg I've hurt this one & maybe the worst will happen again.

* I'd just like to add a footnote that I'm normally quite a rational & sane person...

[cheekyfrog]

Hello, me back again! CONGRATULATIONS, Cilmum - if your husband could see the faint line too then I think you have yourself a BFP, and don't beat yourself up about missing a few days of Elevit I'm so very happy for you

I've had an attack of the blues today, too, wondering if that one time I was pg might have been the only shot I get at it. I would have been 18w4d today. And I hate being 38 going on 39 and in a long distance relationship with "issues". I don't know whether to run up the white flag or to continue to be patient and hope that everything will sort itself out. I really want to go for a BFP this cycle but I can't seem to get any commitment from my busy DP about spending even a week together before I take a teaching appointment out west for a year. So many conflicting messages. Maybe it's because AF is visiting at the moment. Or that I've just got back from the bustle of Hong Kong.

Glad you're feeling a bit brighter, Belinda, and hugs for you, too, Jane - the journal sounds like a great idea. I might start one, too. And a big tick to the pampering idea.
Welcome Skymum and Ladybug, hope your journeys are short and sweet. You'll get lots of support and good advice in this forum. Hello Shan (when are you testing!), hi to Mummyto1 and Mako, and good luck for Friday, Kez, I'll be thinking of you!! And a happy *wave* to all the other ladies I've missed because my computer doesn't go back far enough! Catch you next time!