Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ December 2010

[ck08]

Hi all. New to the thread. Lost my baby in Oct. at 12 wks and feel like I can't put it behind me and be happy until I'm pg again. Also feeling very jealous and bitter towards every pg woman I see.... Anyway, 6 DPO and going crazy with the wait. All I want for Christmas is a BFP! It's nice to have a place to go where others understand. Thanks.

[Clairesmummy]

First of all I wanna say a huge congrats to M2R for your BFP that's wonderful news and what a wonderful early xmas pres for you and your family.

Loops~ I'm going to miss you, but I agree with what you said, I think in all fairness I will be moving on from here soon as well, my journey has now gone past the TTC after a MC or Loss and is looking like it will be something we will have to work on for awhile yet. But good luck to you hun, I hope you have a wonderful Xmas and a great 2011, I will be crossing everything for you to get your long awaited BFP next year hun. Take care. And thank you for all your support and lovely words you have given to me over the past months. Here's to happy times and better luck for us both in 2011. xox

Minnie~ I finished my Clomid last night, I'm on CD10 today so our BD bonanza is about to begin for another cycle. How are you going? I'm waiting and praying my OPKs turn up on Friday.

Tascha & CK08~ Welcome to the thread ladies, sending you out some lucky baby dust so you stay in here is short and sweet. Sorry for your losses, I hope you both find tonnes of support and great advice in here to help you with your journies toward your BFPs.

Hi to everyone else, will catch up more later, to bloody hot to sit here on the pc today. Hope everyone is well.
I'm awaiting O day yet again for the 8th time since my MC. Will this journey ever end......arrrgggghhhhhhhh

[mummytotwo]

af has arrived for me today bl00dy ***** that she is!!
I hate ttc over the festive season - feels like you have to put your life on hold waiting on something that may or may not happen!!
Having a vent but you girls understand.....
Hi to the newbies - so sorry you have to be here but hey......all the best to you on your new journeys xxxx

[MummyDeb]

So sorry Mummytotwo I hope this is the last time AF shows her face for you until after you have a healthy baby xoxo

Welcome to Tascha and ck08, I hope your stay in here is very short and so sorry that you lost your baby, it can be very hard to move on, I am only just starting to get good days where I don't think much and only just starting to not feel jealous towards other women...

Well not much from me...CD3...

Big hugs to everyone and hope u are all well...hoping to hear more news of BFP lots of and

[Joeve]

Welcome ck08 hope your stay is short and sweet
Clairesmummy - get to it girlie!! Happy bding...I am so glad its over for the month for us! Ha ha ha
Mummytootwo - Sorry AF arrived. I know I hate not being pregnant and its another Christmas.... at least you can have a drink if you want one small consolation I know xx
MummyDeb - CD3, isn't that the worst part waiting for o hope it goes fast for you babe.
Just twiddling my thumbs here at cd 22......

[alish]

hey girls, how we all doing?
oh my god i got so excited today, ive never been able to figure out when im ovulating, after going through one million sticks, i finally bought maybe baby to help me with it so this morning i seen ferning and i took a test today i got a double liner on my stick, i was so happy.. so fingers crossed that this month it will work!!

ck08 - sorry to hear hun, i know what ur saying about being bitter and jealous, i was exactly the same! believe me, i still am but not as bad, it will get better with time

xx

[minniemouse]

hi girls,

loops: sorry to hear you leave from here, please let us know when you get your bfp, good luck !

clairesmummy: i understand what you are staying about this being the thread for you too, like you its been over a year since my first m/c and i have had another 2 since then. are you feeling any effects from the clomid ? did your opt's arrive ?

joeve: i hope the next few days go quick for you and you get the best present you could for an early christmas

alish: yay for the ovulation line, im always excited to see mine because then at least im in with a chance !

mummytotwo: sorry to hear af arrived for you

mummydeb: i hope you are soon ovulating

hi to the new girls, sorry to see you in here

afm day 9 (i think) not really expecting to ovulate for another 10 days. this week has been exhausting, somewhere we are going to have to find the time to start bding

[ck08]

Hi again. Has anyone ever heard that after m/c women are especially fertile because the hormones are still hanging around? I heard that from 2 different people and wondered if there is any truth to it. If so, it might give us some more hope.

[Iona Macca]

Hi again. Has anyone ever heard that after m/c women are especially fertile because the hormones are still hanging around? I heard that from 2 different people and wondered if there is any truth to it. If so, it might give us some more hope.

ck08, there are a few women that have fallen the first cycle after their m/c

sending all you girls heaps of BFP vibes over the festive season
xoxo

[Joeve]

Alish- get busy girl!
Minimouse - hello my dear, hopefully you will be rested up in 9 days time (being public holidays and all) so you can get cracking!

[alish]

ck08: after my ectopic i fell pregnant straight away, the ectopic caused me to bleed for 6 weeks or so but the first time hubby and i dtd i feel preg, so there is hope for you! did your doc advise you to wait for a couple of cycles to let everything calm down?

[ck08]

Alish- no, the doc said we could ttc right away and I would fall pg when my body was ready. Hoping that it's soon!

[Tascha]

Hello everyone.

Its been 1 week today.. and thankfully ive stopped bleeding YAY. Im a lil emotional today. So please excuse the lack of personals.

My OB told me to have at least 2 cycles before TTC. As soon as he told me.. I thought.. NO WAY!!! DH and I haven't DTD in WEEKS.. so im keen as beans to get a roll in the hay!! Sorry if TMI!! And if we fall pregnant.. all the better!
I have also been told by a few women that you are more likely to fall straight away. Whether there is truth in it... ?? Im happy to be a guinea pig!!!

Anyway... been drawing my memorial pic for our Angel today... hoping to get it done ready for a frame. Ill get back to it.

Sending LOADS of hugs and baby dust to all.

[Clairesmummy]

mummytotwo~ Sorry AF arrived hun, sending you some massive hugs and praying O time comes around quickly for you, FX.

Joeve~ Hey how are you going? And you will be pleased to hear that we are getting to it this cycle. LOL.

Minnie~ Hey darl, yes my OPTs arrived today, have done 1 so far and I have a faint test line. Everything is going really well so far anyhow. Had a few cramps yesterday like my usual O pain but a little more constant and alot earlier than in previous cycles, which I'm taking as a great sign for the Clomid doing it's job for me. FX. Today is CD12 for me. Hope your O time comes around quickly for you hun and you can get time to get BDing, good luck and baby dust and sticky vibes for the both of us hey.

Iona~ Hey hun thanks for the baby dust, I'm praying that the Clomid does it's trick this cycle and I can join you girls real soon plz.......lol

Tascha~ Great that you have stopped bleeding hun, and what a lovely thing to do for your angel bub. Sending you some massive hugs and hope you are feeling better soon, chocolate is great mood lifter hun and a nice warm bath just to pamper yourself.

AFM~ CD12 for me today, had a few O pains yesterday but nothing much else happening, we have taken our OB/GYNs' advice and kicked off our BDing early in the cycle and we won't be stopping until after I know I have O'd. We are dedicated this month as DF wants a spring bub....lol....I will just be over the moon if it all works out for us. Nothing to report on the SE from my Clomid as yet, everything is still the same with me but thinking I may FX O in the next few days which will be a huge acheivement in itself to O at this stage of my cycle. Never have i ever O'd any earlier than CD19, 25 and CD35 is the time I have been O'ing since my MC. FX and Clomid gets me to O and gives me a BFP first up......please please please.

[alish]

ck08: well thats good news, i guess it just depends on the dr, best of luck!

joeve: get cracking cant even explain it haha! this is the first month where im so sick of doing it everyday!! day and night sometimes... arrrgggh its so much effort sometimes!! ah well itll happen when it happens!!

[minniemouse]

hi girls,

just popping in quickly.....

joeve: any news ?

clairesmummy: im trying to send you a pm but it says your in box is full, can you clear some space so i can send it please ?

[Clairesmummy]

Minnie~ All clear now hun......sorry about that...lol....I never even realised it was full...oooppppssss....How are you?

[possum magic]

Welcome Ck08: so sorry for your loss. It's so hard to get to 12 weeks and be ready to tell people the exciting news only to have a loss. I hope you are expecting again soon.
Tascha: welcome to the thread. Sorry for the lousy circumstances tho. What a lovely idea of drawing something for your angel. I hope your stay in this thread is short too.
Alish: IKWYM about the 'work' of TTC! It's pretty full on isn't it?
Clairesmummy: hope you and DF are enjoying the BD fest!
Joeve: You and I are still in the TWW together i think. I'm CD 29. Hope you get good news.
Minniemouse: I hope you find the energy to DTD! Good luck with the egg hunt
MummyDeb and Mummytotwo: Sorry the old AF witch showed her face for you both. Hope she stays away after this.
Loops: Best of luck with your IVF journey
Iona Macca: Lovely to see your name in her as a guest appearance. Belly rubs!

AFM: CD29 (my ticker is wrong, AF hasn't arrived yet. FX she stays away). DOn't know what's going on with me. Have had strong cramping overnight last night and a lot during the day today. Some feels like AF-low in tummy- and some is at the sides; like I had when pg with DD. I'm scared every time i go to the loo that i'll see blood. I don't feel up to handling another AF and another month of TTC... but i know if she shows up i'll get over it. I just want to be pg so badly that i pray every time i go that there'll be no blood. I'm rotten with cold too so feeling pretty cr@ppy. I won't test again until Monday or Tuesday though (It was BFN at CD23- 11DPO i think- but that could've been too early i suppose). My longest cycle ever has been 31 days and that was a once off. I've been 28- 30 days usually. I'll let you know...