yay for November babies But really, I'll be happy whenever they come along - I would like a 2011 baby though, but if I don't get one, I'll get the one that's perfect for me. A friend of mine lost a baby and was saying the same, she was, in the end kinda glad because her DS turned into a monster and it meant she could deal with him - also now he's toilet trained so she's only got one lot of nappies.

Naturopath also said that apparently not everyone can metabolise the inactive form of folic acid in tablets, so if you have a couple of m/cs it's worth taking the liquid active form. I haven't done that yet, so far only one, but if I have another one I'll certainly think about it.