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thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ February 2011

  1. #181
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    Dec 2009
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    Dory I have often thought similar thoughts about my nephew & niece. If my SILs 1st preg wasn't a mc we wouldn't have my nephew or niece today, or their unborn sibling. I'm sure if the first baby had lived, it would have been just as beautiful and wonderful an individual, but I can't imagine life without nephew or niece now. Or the 3rd one on the way.




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  2. #182
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    I've also heard a friend say that she likes to think God took her mc'd babies, fixed them up & gave them back to her in the form of her 2 healthy children.


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  3. #183
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    Sep 2009
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    morning everyone, dory-always nice to see your avi pop up...mummydeb & mummydeb-sounding good...phebee-sorry af came...afm-transfer of my last frozen embie is booked for sunday,hope it defrosts okay

  4. #184

    Oct 2010
    Baldivis, WA
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    Good luck MM. Hope the transfer goes well x


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  5. #185
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    Oct 2009
    Frankston
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    i wanna have an avi lol didnt go to the doctors yesterday, rebooked for monday.....AF still here day 12 so much for a cycle at all

  6. #186
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    MM - I hope all goes well too with little frostie... hugs.

    Shan - OMG well done on the weight loss that is awesome. I lost about 25 kg a few years ago, but some has crept back on during the pat 3 years, but especially last year. Am working on losing some of it. Every little bit helps as body fat stores and secretes oestrogen which is not good for O. Unless you get RAK'ed you have to pay to get an avy Sterla did mine and I think it's awesome. And yay for your first cycle of clomid... hope it goes well.

    Phebe - sorry that AF is here ... I will be excited when mine comes, but only for the first time... LOL.

  7. #187
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    Nov 2006
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    Dory - I love the fresh perspective you bring to the whole ttc after mc/ loss debacle. It is good that you can see positives out of so much heartache. Thanks for sharing your thoughts & positivity
    Glad you liked my (.)(.) - I have seen it around the forums & it made laugh too. I think I might adopt your mindset & you can use my (.)(.)
    MM - oer Sunday - praying the planets align for you that day & magic happens. Good luck hun x
    Shan - get to that dr!! Day 12 of your cycle - urgh - hope it is near the end for you
    phebee - did I say bugger, bugger, bugger about af? If not well there it is. Babydust for this upcoming cycle!
    MummyDeb - no bother it is easy to miss things in here but thanks. If you join us you will only be a week behind me. All the best for T day (testing day)!!!
    WBM - EDD would be about 21 Nov. Might join BB soon so see you in there shortly. What is yours?
    Melzi - whats your news love?
    Well today my test line was stronger than the control line so I am having a good day.
    Hope everyone has a FAB weekend & will be checking in over the wkend FOR SURE!!

  8. #188
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    Sep 2009
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    thanks ladies for your supportive words,really needed them tonight.Very hard pregnancy announcement to swallow,why do people who are a bad parent to the child they have,get the chance to parent another.Their due date is a day before Matthew's anniversary.Oh well ,i wish the baby well & luck(i think it will need it).

  9. #189

    Oct 2010
    Baldivis, WA
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    No news here... Waiting for af to bugger off! Got to pick up my digital opks in the post on monday... They came from the u.s and i ordered them not even 2 days ago! I know wow!!!

    And had a bad day at work today.,. I hurt my wrist pretty bad... My whole hand hurts even when I don't move it sad... Keeping it strapped until I can get into see a dr but if the pain worsens I will go to hosp. Xx


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  10. #190
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    Jun 2007
    Morayfield, Qld
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    Hey girls!!

    Well I decided to test this morning as my temp was still high and only at 5.30am so 30 mins before my usual testing time cos little man woke up lol and I got my

    So very excited but nervous the whole time cos I just wanna get thru the next 12 weeks!!! I hope I can have an early scan, I just wanna know that bub is ok around the 6-7 week mark as thats when my angel passed away...

    So looks like I'll be due around 26th November!! So happy to join a couple of you girls, so glad to be part of the journey with you!!

    Good luck to everyone else!! Going to stalk u all to make sure you get your i hope it happens real soon for you all xoxo

  11. #191
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    So happy for you MummyDeb!!! All it took for my GP to order a scan was for me to say I'd had a m/c and was nervous. Yay! At least there are a few of us in the same nervous boat

    mummytotwo - our EDD is the same! Definitely BB

    MM - good luck for tomorrow, I hope you're spending today getting lots of rest in! Sending lots of sticky your way. I hate it when crappy parents get pg easily, or people who don't want more kids do it accidentally. It's just not fair. I'm sending luck vibes to that kid too.

    Melzi - ow, I hope your wrist heals quickly and there's nothing too badly wrong with it - rest, ice, compression, elevation (not that you didn't know that...)

    dory and shan, I hope you're both well and things are relaxing for this weekend. Shan, I hope the bleeding's stopped!!

  12. #192
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    Sep 2009
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    congratulations!! mummy deb...melzi-hope your wrist is feeling better...wannabemum-thanks..

  13. #193
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    morning everyone, dory-always nice to see your avi pop up...mummydeb & mummydeb-sounding good...phebee-sorry af came...afm-transfer of my last frozen embie is booked for sunday,hope it defrosts okay
    Thanks MM, I really hope your embie defrosts okay and implants nice and sticky! FX for you!

    i wanna have an avi lol didnt go to the doctors yesterday, rebooked for monday.....AF still here day 12. so much for a cycle at all
    I want an avatar too! 12 days of AF? you poor thing!! Hope it disappears soon!

    Unless you get RAK'ed you have to pay to get an avy. Sterla did mine and I think it's awesome.

    Phebe - sorry that AF is here ... I will be excited when mine comes, but only for the first time... LOL.
    Thanks dory. Yeah I can't imagine anyone getting excited about AF more than once, lol. How much does an Avatar cost?

    phebee - did I say bugger, bugger, bugger about af? If not well there it is. Babydust for this upcoming cycle!

    Well today my test line was stronger than the control line so I am having a good day.
    Hope everyone has a FAB weekend & will be checking in over the wkend FOR SURE!!
    Thanks! Looks like you have some babydust to give! Congrats again!

    thanks ladies for your supportive words,really needed them tonight.Very hard pregnancy announcement to swallow,why do people who are a bad parent to the child they have,get the chance to parent another.Their due date is a day before Matthew's anniversary.Oh well ,i wish the baby well & luck(i think it will need it).
    Oh no that sucks. I really hope the parents will try to be better this time, to both the kids!

    No news here... Waiting for af to bugger off! Got to pick up my digital opks in the post on monday... They came from the u.s and i ordered them not even 2 days ago! I know wow!!!

    And had a bad day at work today.,. I hurt my wrist pretty bad... My whole hand hurts even when I don't move it. sad... Keeping it strapped until I can get into see a dr but if the pain worsens I will go to hosp. Xx
    WOW that was quick with the OPKs! Sucks about your wrist I hope it gets better soon and you can see a doctor ASAP!

    Hey girls!!

    Well I decided to test this morning as my temp was still high and only at 5.30am so 30 mins before my usual testing time cos little man woke up lol and I got my BFP

    So very excited but nervous the whole time cos I just wanna get thru the next 12 weeks!!! I hope I can have an early scan, I just wanna know that bub is ok around the 6-7 week mark as thats when my angel passed away...

    So looks like I'll be due around 26th November!! So happy to join a couple of you girls, so glad to be part of the journey with you!!

    Good luck to everyone else!! Going to stalk u all to make sure you get your BFP i hope it happens real soon for you all xoxo
    CONGRATULATIONS MummyDeb!!! YAY! That's great news! Praying for a sticky for you!

    AFM nothing new really. AF is starting to settle down a bit. Usually I get heavy for the first 2 days, then light, then tiny little bits of spotting over the next 2-3 days which is REALLY annoying (just all come out at once and be over with!) Today will probably be one of those annoying spotting days. I already know when to BD cause I'm pretty clockwork that CD12 is O day, so next Friday and Saturday there's gonna be a lot of BDing! hehehe

  14. #194
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    Nov 2006
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    MummyDeb - fantastic news - Congrats!!
    Melzi - oh dear - how is the hand/ wrist today? Did you go to the hossy? Yay on the opks getting here so fast - wow!
    MM - good luck again for tomoz!
    phebee - bring on next wkend already - that's the good thing about O'ing early huh?!
    MM - gosh that kinda news sucks! You wonder how the universe operates some times don't you. Hugs
    Um, kids are tearing the house down so gotta cut this one short. BBL.

  15. #195
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    Aug 2009
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    Just quickly -

    Mathew's Mum - thinking of you for tomorrow and wishing you every sticky vibe there is. A friend of mine said her advice on transfer day was to think she was UTD and even to waddle like she was.... it worked for her. FX crossed my love.

    MummyDeb - YAY congrats. That is awesome.

    Melzi - sorry about your wrist sweetie. Take care of yourself.

    WOW I am so rapt. A BFP! I forgot to temp and check for O signs... haha maybe tomorrow?

  16. #196
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    Oct 2009
    Frankston
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    Congrats to all the ladies with the BFP!! so happy for you and so very upset for myself. Still got AF, i think its day 13 or 14 now and im sadly pritty over it. Re booked for ob monday

  17. #197
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    Apr 2009
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    Hi Ladies

    I had a missacarriage at 6 weeks about 4 weeks ago now. I've been waiting for AF to come but still no signs of her. I rang the Early Pregnancy clinic and they said that I prob have to wait another 3 weeks for AF to arrive?! Is that right??
    I know everyones different but is most ppls cycles starting about 6 weeks after a m/c??? I just want to start trying again asap as this was my first success in 2 years.

    Appreciate your advice

  18. #198
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    Dec 2009
    Perth
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    Hi Mia. Welcome to the thread, I am so sorry about your loss

    I had a mc in January, missed mc at my 12 week scan so I think the baby actually died at about 7-8 weeks. My mc was induced by misoprostol (big mistake!) and I bled heavily for a week and lightly for a week. AF came back about 1.5 weeks later. Bit my cycles are pretty short - 24 days -and they run like clockwork. Despite that, I was quite surprised AF came so soon as I'd heard it can take ages. I guess it just varies from woman to woman. How long are your cycles usually?


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