thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ July 08 #4

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  1. #1
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    May 2008
    North side, Brisbane
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    Toccara - Thanks. Me too!!

    Easha - Thanks. I think your chart looks fine, and the pain accompanied with the temp drop on 5DPO (or what you think is 6 or 7DPO) could very well be implantation. Fingers crossed it is, and look forward to seeing your BFP post in a week or so!!

    Vanaithi - Hope you get to BD as often as you like, and look forward to your BFP soon.

    Molly - Can't you turn her away at the door?

    AFM - DH has just gone to bed and said to tell you girls that I spend more time with you than him! Ohhhh.

    Saw BF today, and she can see the super dooper faint line, so that's good that it's not my imagination. Will POAS in the morning and fingers, toes, eyes and ears crossed that the line will be darker PLEASE Here's some emails she sent me tonight ...


    Email 1:


    hey, GOOD NEWS! i just remembered this:

    Implantation dip

    did it happen on ur last preg cycle? it's not a definate either way. it's just another symptoms to align.

    let me know wot happens tommorow AM POAS


    On my last cycle I had a dip at 9DPO (9DPO according to FF) and that went below the cover line! Woo Hoo! It's not the end!! Can't wait to POAS tomorrow. But if it was implantation dip, I shouldn't have had that feint line yesterday morning should I??


    Email 2:
    here's this too:

    Dip below coverline

    i remember fretting before taking my temp each morning. and then if it was low, did it mean a miscarriage that i just had to wait out? and i am very BAD at waiting. but then i knew that stress can cause miscarriage too. so i TRIED not to get stressed/anxious too. IT'S ALL SO DAMN HARD ISNT IT!!!


    OK - So no stressing for me. Back on the positive wagon!



    Email 3:
    oh, and (last time! i'm too spaced out at the moment to think of everything at once!) abdo pain/twinges could be implantation as well. so really just have to wait and see with POAS in next few days to know either way

    That's cause this morning about 4 am and again at about 7am just before I got out of bed, I felt kind of crampy, but not painful, kinda just AF coming.

    SO, AF didn't rear her ugly head and I am goin to POAS and it is going to be a BFP in the morning, and if it's not a BFP that's cause I only implanted today so I'll wait a couple of days, and then I will get my BFP. NO more BFN's allowed on this thread.

    So excited!!!! But must go to bed now, or DH will think I have married you all!!

    Take care girly wirlys.




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    Mar 2008
    California
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    I'm reading posts and will be back for personals in just a few--is anyone still awake out there??? Lots of and lotsa :goodluck2: for the new thread!!

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    Gooooood moooorning!! Going to jump right in first off and say that I got my coverline this morning! :woot: And guess what? FF gave me a "high" score on intercourse timing!! Double :woot: Last month was only a "good" score, this is the first "high" score I've gotten--I WIN!! Wish I could've gotten one more in on the actual day of O, but I got the 4 days leading up to O, so I'm

    DF going for his first solo skydive today--isn't there a panicking smilie that's ripping it's hair out, or something? (just imagine one here! ) His last 2 dives were tandem, so he was with an instructor--this one is SOLO! At least it's free--he helped retrieve a wayward chute from a tree, so gets a couple free jumps (gee, thanks skydiving guys ). When DF's g-ma found out he was jumping solo, she asked him if he increased his life insurance policy! (She didn't mean it rudely, though!) That doesn't help in calming my nerves, though! Then tonight DSD's are leaving for their half of summer in Vegas, and oldest DS will be with his g-parent's for a few weeks, so we're down to 1 kid! Talk about vacation--I just got home last night from one vacation, and the next one starts tonight! With 4 kids my house has been a disaster zone for the last month 1/2!! Ok, I know this was a "me" post, but I used 5 smilies in just the first paragraph, so thought I'd finish up with me, and then start a new post with fresh smilies. We need more July BFP's girls! (hint, hint, joey!)
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    Ok, part two....just don't let me forget that I have to wake DF in 1/2 hour to get ready for his jump! Maybe I could conveniently "forget"!


    joey--I'm your hpt stick whispererer is right! I just wish I didn't have to wait so damn long to find out! This time difference is killing me! Hoping and praying you have a great, BFP b-day on Thursday!


    tina--Congrats on your darker line--that means you're the first BFP of July! And just in time... whew! I'm SO happy for you!!!


    AJC--Yay, there's a pic in your sig now! Will you also put it in the photo gallery? I just can't get a good look at the pic, and would like to add you to my "favorites"!! I get really excited when I get to see who I've been chatting with over the last several months!! Thanks about the poem! My only problem now is that I have a song stuck in my head... Oh mama mia, here I go again--my, my, how can I resist you? It's sure to be stuck in my head ALL day long!! lol...


    Toccara--Sorry to hear AF is being so mean--she's such a witch! Good luck with the new job search!


    Easha-- it's implantation!!!


    Van--Thanks for your positive perspective regarding my chart! Did you see--FF gave me a HIGH chance of conceiving!! :woot: Good luck with O this month--fingers are crossed for your BFP!!


    mollycat--If AF is knocking, just tell her "nobody's home!" I'm praying your temp stays nice and high!


    Krystie--Sure do miss hearing from you! So sorry again about AF I know how tough it is, especially when you really think it's going to be your time! Big hon--we'll help you through it!


    As we were leaving g-ma's yesterday I stepped on a bee stinger--I don't know where the bee was, but I only got the stinger. Anyhow, it was literally just as we were getting in the truck to leave. I've never been allergic to bees, but within 5 min. my hands started itching, and everything started swelling up. Even my lips and face got swollen--my tongue was the worst, though--I could barely speak! Thought we were going to have to make a stop to the ER for a shot or something, but it started subsiding, and by the time we got home my tongue was almost back to normal. It was just really weird to have never had an allergic reaction before, and then all of a sudden you're thinking your throat is going to close up on you! Now just my big toe on my left foot is swollen, so that's a relief! What is it with crazy birds and bees lately? I've heard all about the birds and the bees, but this isn't what I was expecting!



    Successful skydive!!! I'm so relieved! Yay!!
    Last edited by jen805; July 14th, 2008 at 04:49 AM. : one last thing...

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    Hunter Valley, NSW
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    Bad news girls - AF just wouldn't listen so i'm definitely out this month - bring on the April babies. Maybe I could have my own birthday present, missed out by two days with DS1.

    Krystie and Tocorra - how about we share some lovely cyber "yummies" together. I vote for a lovely chocolate cake with lots of something alcoholic.

    Angel - we need some positives around here.

    Are you awake yet Joey - waiting to hear this mornings results. Tina will get lonely if she's the only one this month

    Jen - Hopefully you got stung by two bees this month, and the other takes a while to swell up LOL, hope your foot is better, they really hurt. Great news about the coverline and the "high" report card. Did DF have a good time skydiving, don't think I could jump out of a perfectly good plane Enjoy your next "holiday". My lot will be home today from their camping trip, so my quiet house will be back to normal with the boys arguing over nothing. The day care kids will be here too, so it will be quite a busy place when they get home. It's been so quiet all weekend, i've just done very little. Had so much I wanted to do and touched none of it.

    New thread deserves

  6. #6
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    May 2008
    North side, Brisbane
    754

    Hi girls,

    Back to work this morning so haven't even had time to read the other posts. Will do that at lunch if I have time.

    Just wanted to let you know that I woke at 2.45am and had to pee. Didn't know whether to wait till morning to POAS or do it then, so I figured I had passed the half way sleep mark, so I did it then. VERY VERY VERY faint 2nd line, but a little darker that 2 days ago. Will test again in another 2 days, and hope it gets darker!!!


  7. #7
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    Feb 2008
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    hey girls

    have been away for the weekend so still trying to catch up

    big congrats to tina, am so happy for you hun,

    and joey am so happy for you too, that line keeps getting darker

    AFM- af showed up yesterday morning. the upside is that made it exactly a 28 day cycle! last cycle was 38-39 and before that around 31-33 days. my herbalist told me she is aiming for a 28 day one so am surprised it happened within a few weeks of seeing her, i've never had 28 days before ever.

    the downside is that this means i will not be pregnant before my EDD. i have had a few tears but so far i am still holding it all together.

    hope everyone is well