Kezzy- Ill answer ur preseed question in my afm bit We usually dtd everyday.. only cos thats what we are used too at any time of the month. DH wont let me go a day without doing it! He does work away quite a bit tho so its kinda understandable I think i wld still do it everyday tho around O time.. I know i missed a day a couple days ago and im freaking out now cos i reckon i cld have Oed on that day. Id suggest try not to bd very much leading up to O time and then maybe 2 days before go hard and dont stop until u know u have layed ur egg!! Good luck with the preseed!
Clairesmummy- Not sure about ur opk question..they are doing my head in!!! Just keep doing one everyday and see how u go i reckon.. u might be best just doing what u were already doing... reading ur body!
Iona- Good luck for tomoro! Be sure to let us know how it goes U probly wont know for a couple days urself tho hey..??
Forshelby- I like that.. quality over quantity i shld try it someday with my DH!! haha yeah right!
Get ur neighbours back! ..when u know they are sleeping go and mow ur lawn or something!! And i reckon ill be the same as u.. im 56kg now and rising! and im not even pg yet!! With what ur going thru i can just imagine what ill be like!
I hope those little twinges and cramps are nothing.. im sure it is just everything expanding. Is ur next drs appointment for ur nucal trans. scan?? when are u getting that??
Oh and im so happy u write long posts.. i feel like im the only one! I always think it wld be much easier if i just wrote short and sweet posts..but i just cant!!!
Kellbell- So how are u not so nice symptoms going?? any new ones??? still feeling quite positive?? Hope so! When are u testing? U cld tomoro cldnt u?? that wld be 5 days before af is due?? i think?? i cant see ur ticker so cant quite remember.
MrsMacca- Glad everything is back to normal for u now.. and yes i hope af comes quickly for u!!
MsKara- Pls pop in and let us know how things are going! Good luck with scans and bt etc. Just a quick story.. when i was pg last time and was going to drs to confirm it i thought i wld prepare myself to get a urine sample cos i hate being put on the spot!.. i drank so much water beforehand that when i actually had to do the sample it was so diluted (crystal clear!) that the test came back negative! So we had to do a blood test! Haha taught me a lesson.. freaked me out!
Bons- So have u tested again????
Mum22- Yay for ewcm!! It sounds to me like u dont even need preseed! Good luck catching that eggy!
AFM- Well we tried out the preseed this morning.. didnt do it very romantically tho! DH helped me with it all..kinda killed it for us! haha. My heart just wasnt in it tho.. i still havent had a +ive opk yet.. dont know whats going on. All i can assume is that i Oed a couple days ago when i was feeling crampy.. but who knows!! If i was going to O in the next couple days i shld defintely have a +ive by now im thinking. Ive got to go to drs tomoro with something not pregnancy or ttc related..but im going to ask if i can get a progesterone bt done as well so i can see where levels are at. Its doing my head in! I just have a feeling i have missed the eggy.. we have bded everyday since friday except for monday (probly exactly when i did O) so we might have it covered..hopefully! I dont know.. im just not feeling too confident this month.. and its getting me down cos i dont want to go thru this another month!
Am going to try out the preseed again tonight just incase i havent layed my egg yet.. ill try and make it a bit more romantic this time.. i might sort myself out before i involve dh in things!!
Oh and mum22 the applicators are a bit kinda loose and flimsey hey! And thanks for letting me know that u use only 2gs.. it was a perfect amount!
Reet- It's doing my head in a bit as well, I reckon I agree with you and I will just keep paying attention to what my body is telling me, usually bout half way thru my cycle I get sorry if TMI but I do have a very high sexual urge to throw DF on the bed and have my way with him, Im guessing this is my body saying hey you fool if you want a bub this is the time to do it and that feeling usually only last a day or 2 at the most....lol......Ive never been lucky enough to act on that urge though. It hits at the most inconvieniant time like usually when I driving to town or something.
Mum22- Hope you get your positive O test and you can start you bd bonanza, Good Luck.
AFM- hmmmm where to start, still cruising along didnt get any bd'ing in last night DF was a bit crook, not sure what's going on with my O still have lots of EWCM but no desire to jump DF in bedroom as yet, but that usually happens on CD12 for me, thinking I maybe a bit late to O this month due to AF being 8 days late last month, so that would make my O day due to happen in 6 days time. Guess I will just take the wait and see approach, if it happens it happens. I will do another O test today but if it's negative I will leave it until next week to try them again.
Hope this finds everyone safe and well and I hope you all have a wonderful day in the sunshine.
Hi girls,
thought I would drop in and let you know how I went this morn....went to drs, he didn't want to do bloods until I got a scan done so he gave me a referral. Rang them and they could fit me in in half an hr (9.30) so started guzzling the water down (which nearly came back up, now take a bucket with me in the car). was so nervous and scared as I sat there.....
And the verdict is...........................there is a heartbeat 135bpm, measuring a day less but they aren't too fazed about that at the moment!!! I cried I couldn't help it!!
Iona- Woohhhooooooooooooo a huge CONGRATS darl, so very very very happy for you, I would start crying to with that wonderful news. I'm just so happy for you congrats again and big hugs to you for those happy tears.
Just so unbelievably happy for you darl and your DP. I just know everything will sail by smoothly for you keep your chin up and stay positive everything will be great for you both. I look forward to hearing how you going with your PG. You have made my day with your wonderful news.
Makes it seem all worth while the disappoinment I have been going through and makes me keep hoping and praying that it will happen for us one day when I read the wonderful news on here. Sometimes I really do feel like just giving up, falling PG with my DD seemed so easy but now 5 years on it all seems so hard and I have days where I think why bother and just feel like chucking it in and leaving it to whatever happens will happen, but then I read everyones comments on here and I know I haven't got it as bad or as hard as some women do and then you read that a lovely person as yourself has just heard the lovely sound of thier bubs HB and it just makes me keep my chin up and keep soldiering on toward what we really want a sibling for our gorgeous little DD. BB is a great place to get your thoughts out there and all the women in here are truly inspiring to me and for that I thank every single one of you lovely ladies.
Last edited by Clairesmummy; August 5th, 2010 at 11:35 AM.
im after some advice from you girls, im on day 21 and for the last 2 days i have had really bad lower back pain (right in the middle) and tonight i have spotting (i guess not even that, more just a bit on wiping), we aren't ttc at the moment so not sure what is going on, any thoughts ? im thinking it is probably just a screwed up cycle as its only the 2nd since my last m/c or my pcos is playing up......
CONGRATULATIONS IONA!!! WOOHOO!! Am so so happy for u
Bons- Oh no about getting dates wrong! So frustrating! But spermies do last up to 3ish days so ur still in with a chance. Did u use opks this month?? Maybe test again?? or do u think u will just wait it out?? Good luck xx
Kellbell- So did u cave and test today???
Minnie- Im sorry i cant really help with ur problem.. my own body does my head in!! Have u been using protection tho?? Theres no way it cld be implantation bleeding??
Clairesmummy- Oh i wish i had ur randiness over O time!! Or anytime of the month for that matter Thats great ur having heaps of ewcm!! so are u bding everyday or only every 2nd??
Hello to everyone else!
AFM- Well went to drs today.. asked for a bt just to see where hormone levels are at. Shld find out tomoro. I reckon it will come back that I o'ed on monday.. hmmm but who knows! Aleast then i will know where i am in my cycle. I ran out of opks yesterday and didnt bother buying anymore.. im just wondering if they didnt work cos they were just internet cheapies.. i have had a +ive from supermarket ones but never off these cheap ones.. altho they always work for my friend. OOh i dont know.. if i do use them next month i will defintely buy the expensive ones.. and if they dont work then im never going to use them again!! (altho im hoping i dont need to worry about next month)
I hope ur all having a good nite.. Sleep tight!! xxx
Minniemouse- I had the same thing last month though I was def. UTD had most of the symptoms but then started with the brownish spotting then 7 days later AF arrived for me.
Reet- Only DTD the other night not really feeling like Im up to it atm feeling a bit run down and tired might sneek a bd in tonight though just in case if I don't fall asleep beforehand...lol.....I took another OPT this arvey and not sure I think there was a faint line, on my normal cycle tomorrow would definately be a db day (usually very randy on CD12) for me but since AF was late I have no idea whats going on now....very frustrating, thinking I will just go with the flow this month and get myself some more OPKs and see whats going on with me. But if it should happen before I work it all out I will jump for joy.
Hope everyone in here is having a great night.
Minnie - im not sure whats happening - could be implantation bleeding? is that possible FX
Reet - i used the internet cheapies too and they were rubbish for me. i refused to buy anymore this month. maybe if this month dosent work ill invest in some decent ones. I hope i dont need them
Clairesmummy - hope you dont need the opks either and august is your month
nope didnt test today! thought about it but quickly ran to the toilet so my fmu was goooone LOL
i do have one preg test in the house left from last month i found yest - it called me to pee on it but i resisted haha
think its still a bit early should be 9dpo today i think? i really have not been trying to keep track this month and go with the flow
Do i hold out and wait for AF or do it - that single line breaks my heart!
i just don't know!
i feel like AF is coming so maybe i should wait a bit longer
Iona - Good Luck for tomorrow, cant wait to hear how it goes xxx
So girls another quick one from me, DS has still got high temps, if it is a virus should start to clear tomorrow, he ate today which was a good sign,
Still no af, getting tempted to test again, but then think back a few months to when I tested and got af a few hrs later, waste of a test!!!! I will change my ticker whenever af arrives...Hope everyone had a good day! Big Belly rubs to everyone and Good luck to those getting ready sizzle some sausage!
Just went back through june/july thread and i miscalculated when af started so i have been 2 days out!!!! ooooooh i dont know what to do now, I know we DTD on O day and both days before but nothing after sat, this is so frustrating!
xxx
Last edited by Bons; August 4th, 2010 at 09:49 PM.
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We usually dtd everyday.. only cos thats what we are used too at any time of the month. DH wont let me go a day without doing it! He does work away quite a bit tho so its kinda understandable
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