thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ June/July 2010

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    Reet - So far I have 1 box (pretty large box) of garbage, and 2 huge bags of clothes to donate. It actually makes me feel really good when I donate clothes. This time I even threw in some shoes and handbags! Nothing wrong with them, just not useful to me anymore. Now I have room for new clothes! Not buying any more though until I'm UTD, or if I cave, they'll be stretchy and useable as maternity wear too. I laughed so hard when I thought of you snuggled up to a crusty old pillow... lol that's hilarious. Now you won't be able to do it! I couldn't send my DP away for work.... we can't go more than a few hours without seeing eachother. I think because we met at work, and still work together we're used to seeing eachother periodically throughout the day. He even calls me just to say hi and check I'm having a good day. So sweet. I went away to visit my mum when I was UTD in 2008, and on the second day when he called me all he said was hello, and I cried hysterically... lol. I missed him that much. That's so sad about the puppies, too. Poor things... can you at least keep one?? I'd find it really hard to stay detached. And LOL @ you making DP wait. I wish I had that problem!!!

    Matthews mum - I have considered that it might be muscular, but nothing else around the area is sore. I did help DP lift the dishwasher out of the car (naughty I know...) but it was surprisingly light, and wasn't really an effort at all to carry. I'm hoping it's related to implantation, it's only been 2 months of actively trying and I'm over it already! Mum would say I'm spoiled and impatient, and she'd probably be right. I guess since last time it just happened (we weren't trying) I was hoping it would be that way this time. Sorry about your bfn, hopefully it was just a bit early. Best of luck with your bt's, keep us posted!

    Damprye - You sound like me about a week ago, I was so sad thinking I'd missed my chance. FX you O late like I did and manage to get in some good quality BD. I take it DP has settled down a bit??

    Minnie - [SIZE="4"]SO PROUD OF YOU!!!Round of applause for you confronting your brother! It doesn't matter if he doesn't reply. Remember, when someone is being selfish like that, although it hurts, THEY are the ones with the problem. Not you. You are wonderful, and so brave for approaching him after the nasty way he's treated you. I hope the specialist gives you the all clear and you're back on the TTC train with us in late July! Try for July, honey I have no idea what rhymes with August so I'm not even going there. What about 'sore bust in August'? LOL..

    AFM, cramping seems to have subsided a bit, but is still kind of there. Cm is pretty much back to sticky. Sorry for TMI, lol. I'm not sure what to make of it all. I've had a headache since Sunday morning, and feel so tired and crappy, so called in sick today. Looking forward to a day of relaxation, and for this dang headache to go away!! I took about 5 panadol throughout the day yesterday, and am really not keen on taking any more. Time to get stuck into some knitting now, I think. Yay!

    Have a good day, lovelies.

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    ForShelby- GL for the TWW

    Matthew'sMum- FX it's a false neg.

    Minnie- I hope things work out for ypu

    Trea- Congrats on the BFP

    Sara- It is fine by me

    Reet, Iona & Kellie- Yay for sausage sizzle

    AFM- Looking at my temp chart I am starting to think yesterday was O day but trying to keep positive, me and DP are going on a date tonight so hopefully it will lead to a bit more who know maybe we might just get lucky and sneak one in before it's too late. I'm still not to sure about OPKs esp with PCOS but still waiting for a strong positive atm they are only faint although yesterdays was darker than the others and I am pleading with my body and the sticks that today is the day, I so want it to be today.... or even tomorrow lol.

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    dampyre hope you are O today fingers crossed - bet your having a blast out on your date night!!!!
    Where did you go?

    forshelby you have inspired me to clean out my cupboard i have heaps of clothes i dont wear or fit anymore and prob never will again

    Matthew's mum hope you are wrong and you get your BFP soon

    Minniemouse - you have done so well confronting your brother you are very brave!

    Reet - the puppies are so cute - are you going to keep one. i love puppies i wish we had a dog we dont really have the space to keep one. so we are dogless at the moment.

    My friend had a 10 pound baby boy named Riley today! i hope that is all of us in 9 - 10 months come on girls we need alot of bfps in here in a few weeks

    think i might go and POAS and see if i am close to the big O yet - be right back!!!

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    Matthews mum- Oh i hope its too early and u get a nice suprise on wed. My fingers are crossed for u. I feel for u seeing only that 1 line.. i absolutely hate it. Good luck for wed xx

    Damprye- I hope u get one in tonight.. how did ur date go??

    Minnie- Good on u for emailing ur brother. If u dont hear from him will u try calling him?? Could u call ur mum do u thin and try and get to the bottom of it all.. or too late for that? I hope u can jump back on the ttc bandwagon again soon!

    Kellbell- So did u poas?? How was it??! Any line yet?? Hope so!!! And no i cant keep any of the puppies i already have 3 dogs.. we are only allowed 2 so we are already pushing it!! I would love one though.. im such a softie for puppies. If im not pg soon i think i will have a house of dogs!! Oh and good on ur friend too! Did u get to have a visit yet??

    Forshelby- aaww cute that u cant spend a minute away from ur dp.. i used to be like that.. when he started working away 3 yrs ago i found it really really hard.. u almost dont know how to function without them.. but now im used to it and quite enjoy my me time! Its always nice having him home tho. Oh i cant wait til u test!!!!! Not long now!! well still another week hey.. unless u cave i guess! i wont tell u to this time tho

    AFM- Did another opk today.. the line still isnt as dark as the control line.. im hoping it is tomoro.. otherwise i will be very frustrated and never use them again!

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    Nah got a faint faint line guess we've still got some time to get the sausage sizzling

    No didn't visit her today going to wait till wed give her some time as she had a c-section i cant wait for newborn cuddles though just to make me even more clucky!!!!!
    She was told she could never have children and was infertile so after IVF failing they gave up - ummmmm two babies in 15 months sure proved those doctors wrong . they said after her miracle daughter it was a complete fluke so they were happy with there little girl then she got another preg seven months after that - so couldn't be happier for her she really deserves it after all the crap she had to go through to have them. Miracles really do happen

    Reet - some on opk show a nice dark line tommorow

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    Kell- aawww what a nice story! yep miracles sure do happen..thats amazing. U wont feel jealous either since u know she deserves it.

    Oh im glad there is a line there!

    Bring on the dark lines tomoro!!!

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    Yeah don't feel jealous at all which is diff from how i normally feel. just feel pure joy for her it put me a high all day

    Do the faint lines mean anything at all i get so confused??

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    I think it means ur LH is starting to surge but not quite surging!! But yeah im not too sure myself.. they have never worked for me. But we will see this time! FX!!

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    Trea - even though you posted in the wrong thread - congratulations. Can you PM me with your experiences with Dr Sacks? I was going to see him but my circumstances changed and I want to know more about someone I 've heard so much about.

    Mathew's Mum - oh sweetie - I am so sorry that embie didn't stick around......but awesome news that you can start again straight up with FET. Fingers crossed for you and sending you big bugs my blossom.

    Kellbell - do you mind if I send your last post to my friend ( about stopping IVF and 2 miracles happening?) She has been long term tcc and two m/c and no luck with IVF and is really doing it tough. Although miracles don't happen to everyone, it might help her to know that it has happened to someone.

    Good to hear that there are some strong lines on those OPK's.... let the BD fest begin. Thinking of you.

    AFM - All good here - got a new toilet yesterday. Not what I expected to be doing for the first anniversary of Amelia's EDD. LIfe sure can be strange.

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    Well i just had newborn snuggles he was so cute just devine
    I hope that is all of us really really soon!!!!

    Dory of course you can tell your friend about my friend she looked so well today and so in love with her little boy. I truly hope for your friend that a miracle finds itself her way too. She just had this look on her face like she couldn't believe he was here pretty amazing stuff!
    It just seems so unfair sometimes that people who don't want them or cant look after them have babies while others who desperately want them have to struggle so much
    Sorry about your Amelia - EDD are really hard

    My OPK was darker today half the line was as dark as the control line - does that count or does it need to be the full line??

    How is everyone else today hopefully too busy catching that egg to post