Forshelby - I can't answer any of your questions..... but have everything crossed..... how many DPO are you and when are you thinking you'll test?

Kellbell - hugs sweetie - this stuff is hard. Hopefully you'll squeeze in a sizzle before your parents arrive or maybe even once they've gone to bed..... sneaky sneaky. GL.

Reet - Just bad timing with you being tired and Mark being sick. It just hurts so much and is so frustrating. Thanks for asking after me. The day was ok in the end. Not what I expected but I did do a lot of thinking which was probably good for me. Not sure when the next scan is... a growth scan is coming up. And gender is going to be a sweet mystery until the big moment. DH and I agree on this and always have. I was going to have a non diagnostic scan and have a secret women's business day of it, but life has intervened for my Mother and MIL and I am not sure they can come now as both have to travel a fair distance to come and have sick people at home to care for. But maybe I'll still invite my Aunt, cousin and SIL, her partner and their daughter. But I really wanted the grandmas to be part of it. I mean, they are from a different generation where this technology just didn't exist, and I want them to have a tangible emotional connection and not just some abstract idea. I might have to call them and just see if they can do it. Weird that people make the effort for a funeral almost without hesitation but I haven't actually given them the chance to say yes or no yet... so I should just wait for that.

Bons - hope the chaffing is improving Poor bloss.