forshelby-sorry to read about your grandma,glad she has got your mum & aunty there,remember you are an extension of your mum,so in a way you are there,maybe if you can't make the trip in time you could find another way of saying goodbye(writting a letter,poem,listening to her favourite music/watching a movie she would enjoy/reading a book she would of read),try not to feel guilty over not visiting much after your loss,it's a very traumatic time & we can only do what we feel up to at the time.sounds like she isn't in pain,hope your family are comforted a bit by this