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I dont know when im going to?? my FF says i ovulated day 13 but i think it could have been later like the weekend like day 15 or 16. So have to hang out till next week at least. im going mad lol. really trying to hold off as late as possible as id rather not see a chemical pregnancy as it breaks my heart.
and those single lines are evil i hate em so would rather AF come then see it.
You starting your blood tests soon?
it must have been so hard in the past when ladies couldn't get pregnant they would have had limited choices.
i really hope this is your month how are you felling about it all?
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Woohoo my comp seems to be going fast again.. thank goodness!
Kellbell- I know exactly what u mean about hating seeing those single lines.. i said last month that i wld rather get af then see them.. i ended up testing tho and was absolutely devastated.. its just not worth it hey! I think i wlda o'ed around the time u did.. really not sure tho.. im pretty sure i got the +opk on thurs nite so a day or 2 after that.. i really have no idea tho! I dont know if ill use opks next month (hopefully i never have to think about them again!) they seem like a bit of a waste of money. I shld maybe start temping, altho that seems pretty confusing too.. maybe i might try and go with the flow! thats a better idea! haha dont think it'll happen tho. Im not sure why im so calm this month.. i think im just starting to lose faith.. im getting over the whole ttc thing.. ive been obsessed for too long and it hasnt got me anywhere! Im just glad my body is doing what it shld be now. Just start thinking to urself if its going to happen it will.. and if it doesnt then theres a reason why.. who knows what but obviously the universe isnt ready to give u ur bub just yet. But with all that said I think by next week i will be a crazy lady!! Have u got any hpts stocked up?? Sorry for the long ramble Ill leave u alone now! :)
Oh! one last thing, im so sorry to hear about ur fil.. its awful :( i guess its good that ur dd had the chance to meet such a wonderful man. I hope a miracle happens and he survives. Hows ur mil coping? Thinking of u xx
Matthews mum- Hello :) do ur kids keep ur mind off things a bit?? do u let on about what ur going thru..?? or is it easier if they dont know all details..? I hope u dont need too many blood tests this time.. it seemed like u were getting blood tests all the time last cycle! poor thing! Is the place where u have to go for them close to ur house??
Bons- Im glad ur dh was home with u last nite.. its always good to have a shoulder to cry on. When does he have to go back to work?? So are u testing again or just going to wait to see if af comes? Do u have any af symptoms yet?? I know of a few ppl that have only gotten positives on day af is due, i so hope ur one of them xx
Damprye- So sorry to hear about ur friend.. its awful. How far along was she?? Is she holding up ok??
Minnie- Glad ur dds eye healed up well. When can u start ttc again?? Oh and im glad ur brother is starting to hopefully see ur side of things a bit better.
Forshelby- Have a good little break with ur family. And give that tummy a few rubs for me! :)
Dory- How did ur appointment go yesterday??
AFM- Well like i have said I have no idea when I O'ed so not too sure when af is due.. I think ill wait til probably day 35 and then start getting excited. I am defintely not buying any hpts until then tho!! DH left today for 5 days.. No cooking or cleaning for me! Its just me and my 3 furbabies :)
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Oh and i wanted to say Kellbell- like i said earlier its way too early to be getting any promising symptoms.. u only normally get them once baby has implanted itself.. thats when ur hormones start changing.. and that can happen anywhere from like 5 to 11 days after O'ing. So dont worry! :) (just become crazy like me and check everytime u go to the toilet for those implantation specks of blood!)
And i knew I forgot to write to someone before.. Iona!! How cld i miss u!! Theres just so many ppl in here I can barely keep up! :
How are u going?? Are u feeling calm in this 2ww or are u a crazy lady??! And yes i have heard that every 2nd night bding is best.. I only did it every nite cos i didnt want to let a chance pass me by!! By the end of our bonanza i dont think there wld have been many little swimmers left!
Hello to Loops too.. glad ur still around!! :)
And Alice- My edd is approaching too.. 19th sept. I am starting to get a bit nervous about it. I cant believe so much time has passed.. it sends me into a bit of a panic thinking about it. I hope u cope ok xx
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kellbell-bt's start on thursday.Hope you can find something to distract you for a bit (movie,book,craft,shopping,cooking)...reet-yes, my other kids are a distraction,also a reminder of how much i want to give them another sibling,lots of people don't understand why i'm going through the ivf process when i already have 3 living children,but i do feel it will help them as well as me in living our lives without Matthew's physical prescense.They all know i'm trying to have another bub,i try to be open & honest with them according to their individual age & ability,the 2 older girls understand more of the medical stuff especially my 18 y.o.,ds1(4) knows mummy is going to see lots of dr's & nurses to help get another baby.I needed extra bt's last cycle as i 'o'd late which has become the norm for me,clinic still wants bme to start the tests early just in cause my body decides to 'o' earlier.Depends on the day whether i can have the tests close to home,if pathology close to home is closed,then i need to go to clinic,there opened every day,it is only a bit over an hour away.Enjoy your time with your furbabies
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Was just reading back on the other page has anyone heard from Dory wasn't she seeing her OB yest arvo for leaking fluid. Hope she is okay
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Kellie - No I haven't heard from Dory, will check up on her tomorrow when I get a minute though. I hope all is well. Sorry to hear about your FIL :( I hope things aren't as bad as they look, and he comes through alright. And I did manage to make it through the travel without vomiting. But woah, people and things are stinky!
Reet - Thanks for the congrats, lol. I already had 3 separate cries today, so embarrassment, lol. Hopefully you're like me and somehow psychicly don't buy any more opks, and then wind up not needing them too. hehe... :)
Iona - I will give my belly a rub for you tonight, hehehehe. And yep, the smells are REALLY bothering me. I'm taking that as a good sign though.
Bons - Sorry about the BFN, let's hope you tested too early and you're utd right now..... hugs, hun
AFM, I want meat. Heh, I don't know why. I hope you guys don't mind me hanging around for a little bit longer, I don't want to leave all you lovely ladies just yet! Sorry if I missed anyone too, I'm knackered after all the travelling and a bit slow in the head. LOL. I tried twice to hang a towel on a rack but forgot twice. ahha.... craziness.
Time to go to sleep now before I pass out. :) take care ladies
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Thanks to everyone who said hi and asked after me, you're a lovely lot in here :) but boy it's hard keeping up!!
Sorry for a quickie, just checking in for an update from Dory...Dory, hope your appointment went Ok this afternoon and all is well with you and bub xx
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Not like Dory to not be around. Hope she and bubs are okay and shes just busy
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Kellbell, I'm worried too. Dory, if you do get to read this, you are in my thoughts - I'm sending you lots of love and hugs and hoping with all my might that things are OK for you and bub. Looking forward to hearing from you xx
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Same here Alice hope bubs is still safe and she is just busy away from the computer.
She hasn't posted anywhere i can see since her OB appointment. Sorry to be stalking you Dory:redface: you are just so kind and caring with your words so was worried about you
Wherever you are sending lots of love too for you and bubs and hope you are both safe and well xoxox
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Hiya - I wanted to say thankyou for thinking of me and asking about me. Sorry to leave you hanging. All is good and my Obs was so understanding and reassuring. I had some internet probs since Monday arvo, hence the delay, but all good now.
When I get the chance to read the posts I'll be back.
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dory-thanks for the update,glad eveything is okay...thinking of everyone
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Hi Ladies
Thanks for the hello's and wishes.
Kellbell ~ Sorry about your FIL :hug: - not good all this illness happening, stay strong.
Bons ~ We are booked in for Oct but may be able to do it earlier. Just playing it by ear and seeing how our finances go. Sorry about your BFN this cycle, keep trying. Big hugs
ForShelby ~ Sorry about your grandma passing hun, very sad :comfort: Feeling for you. Take care of yourselves
Hi everyone
Hoping you all get BFP's very soon :crossfingers:
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Yah glad all is well!! Sorry for worrying Dory - damn internet!! x
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Dory- I am so glad to hear you and bub are ok.
ForShelby- Mmmm meat.. I have the same craving atm haha weird hey although I'm not UTD :p perhaps you need the iron or protien?
Matthew's Mum- I hope this month goes better and you get your baby real soon.
Reet- You have more will power than me. I was not going to get any more OPKs but I folded lol I so can't wait till test day.
kellie- I'm not entirely sure which day I O'd either. It is sooooo frustrating.
Sorry to those I missed, I'm on my phone again.
AFM- Well first off my friend is doing ok under the circumstances and thankfully her DH is back to give her lots of well needed hugs.
Things are only getting better with my DP :) I am so happy with him and feeling really safe. I'm still not sure if I actually O'd this month especially cos my temp will climb one day, go down a lil the next then plummet, then repeat....even after FF says I O'd. I think I must have O'd at some point though cos I have been getting "symptoms" but they are probably all in my head lol.... Probably TMI but I had a weird sex dream last night so DP got an unexpected surprise this morning ;) My CM and cervix have also gone to my normal after O state so that is good . I guess only time will tell though. i will probably use the test in a few days... Depending on how long I can hold out lol.
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Hi everyone, just another quickie.. I'm really on the go the last couple of days. Sorry in advance if I don't mention you by name. I am thinking of you all.
Dory - So glad everything is ok with you and bubs. We were all getting a little worried there.
Damprye - I had a crazy raunchy dream on 11dpo, the day before my BFP. How many DPO are you? Sorry, I'm struggling to remember and keep up these days.
AFM, Today was the day af was supposed to be due. I was feeling nervous, but she hasn't shown, and has shown no signs of showing. I told DP today was the day I could officially feel excited. So yay. I do have some strange pinchy crampy feelings VERY low down. Not sure what that's about. It's almost like a tingling sensation. Mum said from what she remembers that's pretty normal.
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ForShelby- I hope AF stays away so bubby can stay stuck :D
I think I am on 8DPO but not entirely certain, my chart this month has been reasonably erratic, if I O'd on CD 13 then I am 8 but if CD10 then I am 11DPO but then that is if I did 0 at all.
My syptoms so far are;
Backache
Erotic dreams
Bloated
Cramps
Increased Appetite (this one as of this morning)
Increased Sex Drive (this one as of this morning)
Irritability
Nausea
Fatigue- I already had a nap today lol
Skin Break Out
Gassy
Headaches
and Tender Breasts (this one as of this morning)
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Yep sorry Dory for worrying silly computers not working properly. Come back soon!
Dampyre sounds really promising - what day are you testing?
Forshelby hope you stay around for awhile before you head to the other thread.
Are you going for blood tests when you get back?
Loops thanks for the support. its not fair IVF should cost so much. hope its soon for you
Reet and Iona how are you going in your TWW any promising symptoms yet?
Sorry to everyone i have missed
thanks for all your support i really like being in here all you girls are so nice. my FIL doesn't know if he wants the operation as he is quite scared at the moment. if he doesn't have it then he has no hope. but its a huge operation to get through.
still no symptoms here my breasts do feel a bit different today but it could just be my imagination
i am tired and hungry though. I'm trying to relax and not analyze everything but its so so hard !!
got some more snuggles of my friends baby today for about a hour it was so beautiful he is gorgeous :heartbeat: