thanks ladies.....it means the world to me....im still in shock...i cant quiet believe it....hubby wants to go out for dinner to celebrate........i have a few more tests so ill take one tom morning as well....am i still allowed to come on here for a while...u ladies wont mind will u?
Minnie~ To answer your question hun, I think I'm only scared as I don't know what is going to happen after my appointment and also very scared of hearing bad news or the only way we can get PG is by IVF as I know we cannot afford alot of treatments. We don't have alot of $ and the main concern for me is how much this is all going to cost? It just feels like we have a huge decision coming up and I don't know how I will cope with it at all IYKWIM. But also on a more positive note the best case scenario will be something that will be easily fixed and away we go on our PG journey and finally have our wonderful little bub. So there's a few things that have me concerned but I also can't wait to get in there on Monday as well. I hope you understand why the fear now and nervousness, hope my explanation puts a little light on where my head is at right now.....Don't even know what to ask the FS apart from where do we go from here.
melster i agree with dh, definitely dinner to celebrate !
just a quick one from me, im day 23 and think i have only just ovulated but i have been having lower back pain and a heavy feeling this arvo, i just went to the toilet and have pink mucousy blood on wiping, any guesses as to what is going on !!
clairesmummy: ill get back to your answer later :-)
joeve & clairesmummy-we'll be here for you whatever the fs throw at you.there is a good chance whatever testing they may suggest someone on this thread/forum will have had it & be able to give you some advice...melstar-hope you took dh up on his offer...minniemouse-only symptom is my boobs are bit sore...
Matthew's Mum~ Thank you so much hun, it means alot to me to know I have support not only from family and close friends but from ladies that have been or are going through the same thing as I am, I would be lost with out BB and all my BBs friends. I am so praying that you get your sneaky BFP this month darl.
im laying here in my hotel room in complete shock.....i keep checking the test to make sure i havent seen things......lol i know my symptoms were more like my first pregnancy with my dd than the miscarriage and im alot sicker etc so maybe thats a good thing....i kinda suspected i was pregnant from all my symptoms but didnt want to be dissapointed again.........ill do a test in the morning to be sure.....i have my obs appointment when i get...ill be six weeks so i figure i will still go and see whether or not everythings going ok......im so happu but it doesnt seem quiet real yet.....we went out and had a lovely dinner...but im so tired from being up so early and have a stuffy nose and my legs are aching bad....so its an early one for me.....i dont feel the heavy feeling in my stomach but im not sure when that feeling came......i have some pains going on down there tho...........i feel like im going to wake up tomorrow and it will be negative....i suppose its slight fear.....
thanks ladies for all ur support and words and encourgement.....i couldnt of got through this without u.....seriously.........i have started the bfp train so now someone else has to join me
clairesmummy and joeve good luck at ur appointments
loops....iona...mathews....thanks
mumtoromone....i hope ur bfp is on the way
minniemouse......maybe its o or implantation....good luck babe
well good night ladies......im sure ull here much more from me on my holiday since i cant stop thinking
Minnie - I hope that you have some implanting going on I think I feel nervous about my appointment because I think getting to this point has been such a journey already and I am not sure how many more hoops I may be told I need to jump through before I get to the end you know? Ha ha and also I am a bit nervous because any tests and stuff have me panicking a bit. I have never been sick, in hospital or even had a filling in my life, so medical intervention of any kind is scary for me!!!
Clairesmummy, Joeve: I can understand why you are both nervous. You kind of want to hear there's nothing wrong but at the same time hope there is something they can do to help you get your BFPs so if something is wrong and it could explain why no BFP so far and it's something easy to fix... well that would be good too. I also know what you mean about not liking medical procedures. It's amazing how people seem to be able to do what they have to though to fulfil their baby dream. I hope both of you feel more reassured or some kind of good outcome out of your FS appointments. (A sneaky BFP would be the best of course!)
Minniemouse: so confusing hey? Not did you DTD around the night you forgot to do OPK just in case? Hope the clomid has worked...
mum2ramone: hope your BFP is just hiding cos it's too early to show up and you get a better result in a day or two.
Loops: Hope you've been spoiling yourself a bit the last few days and are feeling ok.
mathewsmum: Hope your natural cycle is a winner.
AFM: Gave it a decent shot this month and i'm now in the TWW i think (positive OPK two nights ago). Ho hum.. will start twiddling my thumbs!
melster: did you test again this morning ? hope you are feeling good this morning :-)
clairesmummy and Joeve: i guess the best advice i can give you is to try and remember the drs are there to help you so don't be intimidated by them, have a think about what you want to ask and write it down before you go. like possum said it might be something easy to fix (i have lots of complicated issues but once im on the right medication everything falls into place).
mum2romone: i dont know what those pains could be, our bodies are so hard to understand sometimes !
afm: well i have bright red bleeding this morning and pain so i am assuming this is the start of my period on day 24, very confusing after the last cycle was 55 but it means i can get onto the next round of clomid, this was either going to work or hopefully get my cycle on track so it looks like it has done the latter so thats something i guess !
possum: good to see you pop in here, fingers crossed for you for the 2ww ! no there was no dtd on sun, we had driven 1000kms and i was exhausted !
matthewsmum: i hope the sore boobs are a good sign for you ! will you test tomorrow or wait ?
hi everyone, minniemouse-yes,i'll test tomorrow before acupuncture session,if it is a bfn,she'll be able to do more aggressive session,& start me on some herbs to try to flush the tubes.has the pink colour stopped this morning?....mum2ramone-might be ovulation,i'm not sure what day your on...possummagic-fingers crossed...
Melster~ Thank you for the good luck wishes for my FS appointment. Sending you lots of sticky vibes. Did you test again this morning?
Joeve~ I know how you feel I am exactly the same, never had any medical procedures done on myself before so it is a bit daunting. But I'm sure you will be fine darl I just know it. Here's to hoping for a sneaky sticky BFP beforehand though.
Possum~ Good Luck with your 2WW hun, I have everything crossed for you. Keep us posted with any symptoms darl and how you are going. And that's exactly how I feel you got it in one hun.
Minnie~ So does this mean AF has arrived for you darl? If so wow the Clomid really shortened that cycle for you. Praying you get a BFP with your next cycle darl, FX for you. Thank you for your advice I have no idea at all what to ask my FS when I see him on Monday apart from why can't I get PG? And what the hang was my last cycle all about??? I haven't even bought any more OPKs for this cycle just thought I would wait and see what my FS says and see what tests he wants to do with me.
Matthew's Mum~ Good luck with your testing tomoro, darl I have everything crossed for you for a sneaky sticky BFP.
AFM~ I have 2.5 days to go now until my appointment, we are off to Tamworth tomoro to pick up a horse and won't be home until Sunday night some time. Then Monday off to see the FS. Feeling pretty good about just getting impatient now and want answers. Whatever they throw at me I will try and find a way to deal with it. I will be CD8 when I go in there so if he does an US he should get some idea where I am at with my cycle. Would they be able to see if I am about to O on an US at CD8??????
clairesmummy-i've had internal u/s where f/s has commented on lining of the uterus as an indicator of 'o'ing ,but i have found with me they ususally do bt to get that info & usually a little bit more into cycle.Safe travels.
Thank you for that info MM, I really appreciate it. You would think I would just stop trying to guess what may be and just live with I only have the week end and it's my appointment.....lol.....
thanks again darl.
yeah i tested this morning and there was barely a line and i freaked out.......but i did another one later and there was more of a line lol...i dont think i peed long enough the first time.........i feel like poo....im snuffly....and im tired......but im grateful.......i never felt this way with the miscarriage...
I think I feel nervous about my appointment because I think getting to this point has been such a journey already and I am not sure how many more hoops I may be told I need to jump through before I get to the end you know? Ha ha and also I am a bit nervous because any tests and stuff have me panicking a bit. I have never been sick, in hospital or even had a filling in my life, so medical intervention of any kind is scary for me!!!
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