Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ November 2010

Melster~ Sending you lots of :stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy: darl, I would be going straight into your GP darl and asking for if not a scan at least a BT then another BT in a few days time just to check your levels. I'm praying for you that your bub is strong and healthy darl. Sending you lots of positive vibes and truck loads of sticky vibes, stay safe for Melster little bub.

Loops~ I'm praying for you that AF don't arrive hun and you get a sneaky well deserved BFP. Good Luck. And I'm sooooo jealous you got to meet Lee K.....lol....my DD just adores him huge time and all she ever wants to listen to in the car is I Milk Cows, and no matter what we are doing inside or out she is always singing I milk cows.......lol....She is also a huge Sunny Cowgirls fan and Taylor Swift......

kirstenFleur~ I have my FX for you that AF is a no show for the next 8 months or so......Sending you some :pink-babydust:

MummyDeb~ Hope you are having a better day today darl. I was told you count the first day of Bleeding as CD1 with a MC. Good luck with your Bding hun and I hope you are one of the lucky ones that get your BFP first try darl.

Minnie~ Hey darl, how are you travelling any sign of O'ing yet for you? Hope all is well with you and you have caught that egg darl, FX for you.

AFM~ Well still no sign of any O'ing I'm at CD26 today so it's going to be another drawn out waiting game for me, can't wait to get AF so I can start the Clomid journey....lol.....Hopefully that will sort my issues out for me, I will give it a go anyhow as I have nothing at all to loose. Hope everyone is having a great day, sorry if I have missed anybody will be back later, I'm hot on the trail of looking for some paper work for our accountant......

Hi Lovely Ladies! Just thought i'd pop by to scatter some of this around

:pink-babydust::bluedust::pink-babydust::bluedust:

and for you Melster :stickyvibesgirl: Clairesmummy is right, you should go get checked, stressing is not going to do you any good. If the bleeding has stopped that is an EXCELLENT sign! I had spotting with my last pregnancy and the sonographer told me it is actually a good thing as it means the baby is snuggling in nicely. He said he would be more worried if you didn't have spotting. Big hugs, take care xx

Melster ~:pray: for you hun, I can see why it would be so stressful and so I think you should get checked out too because it could be nothing but the stress could aggrevate something. I like what Stoked said - that spotting is a good thing. Hang in there hun, we are all here for you and sending loads of :stickyvibesboy::stickyvibesgirl:

Clairesmummy ~ thanks heaps hun! That is so cute - I love Sunny Cowgirls and Taylor Swift also. I love her taste :) I milk cows, I drive tractors, I fix pumps ... (love it!) Goodluck on the Clomid I reckon after a while on that you'll be laughing, FX'd.

MummyD and Kirsten ~ really hope you get BFP's ASAP, FX'd for you ladies

Hi to all and hope you are well. :grouphug:

Loops~ The only problem I have with DD singing I milk cows is that when she sings there's a shed out the back with bench and a vice it sounds alot like there's a **** out the back with a ***** and a vice.....lol.....I know what she is saying but I hate to think what others think she is singing....lol....cracks us up big time....

I've counted the first day of bleeding from the 9th Nov...so if I work it out i should be on CD17...is that right? That was the day I got a lil bit of blood, it slowed down until the Friday and it just gushed out..Sorry TMI.. so going by the 12th I am only CD14... hmm either way we have been doing lots of BDing hehe :) Fingers crossed!

MummyDeb~ I would say you are on CD17, my OB/GYN told me you should always count CD1 the day of any type of bleeding whether it be spotting, light or heavy flow. Either way you would like to count your days good luck with catching your egg, FX for a BFP for you......

Oh thanks for that Clairesmummy :) well we might just be lucky, if not i hope i only need 1 cycle to get thru before a BFP :)

thanks.......mum convonced me to go....im impatiently waiting...trying to keep occupied on my phone while he is in theatre......im so scared i think my heart is going to pop out my chest..........man oh man......pls let me see a flickering hb and make this a normal spotting session...............god mc takes away the joy of pregnancy......

Melster~ Stay strong darl, thinking of you and I will be waiting to hear your good news darl. Good luck still sending you lots of sticky vibes......

MummyDeb~ Good luck hun, praying you get your BFP soon hun.

Melster: i am waiting with you....let us know when you have news

we waited just over hour...had the scan and it was about 3mm....and we have a hb.........whoooo hooo..he said he could see maybe a little bleeding below my placenta...and i need to go back next week for another scan.....i feel quiet shaken....and a bit bummed that all my scans are going to be filled with fear now...

great news wwwhhhooo for a heartbeat !!! sorry you are now so stressed but hopefully you will get more confident with each ultrasound :stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy:

Melster~ Great news darl, praying for you that bub stays safe and snug for the next 8 months darl. I feel for you in your situation darl, we are all here for you.

Hi girls, I hope everyone is well and looking forward to the weekend! Found out today me and hubby are "normal", no chromosome abnormalities :leap: so we delighted about that. Hopefully that lowers the risk somewhat of another embryo with downs... Start my bloods tests next Tuesday, so hope to have the frozen embryo transfer soon!! Happy days!

Sweetie~ Awesome news darl that is wonderful. Good luck with your BTs darl and hoping you can have your transfer soon followed by a HNH BFP.....

Melster, So happy you have a heartbeat, sending lots of :stickyvibesgirl: your way :)

Sweetie, Glad your blood tests came back good, heres hoping you have a BFP real soon :)

Hi girls, quick update & a wwwhhhoo from me, I finally got a positive opt tonight !! Day 22 !! I was seriously getting quite down about it all not happening, at least now we can b in with a chance !

Oh thats awesome news minniemouse!!! So very happy for you, and now I hope you guys get that BFP at the end of your cycle!! Fingers crossed xoxoxo

Mel, hooray for a heartbeat! I do understand about all scans being filled with fear. No fun at all. Hopefully it was just one of "those stupid pregnancy things." :stickyvibesgirl:

Minniemouse- great news! Quick, wrestle your DH to the ground and have your wicked way!
Sweetie- that's excellent to know as well, a huge weight off your mind. Sending :bfp: to you both!

glad everything is ok Melster ! You had me worried about you ;)

I'm pleased to say we are having fun, trying this month for a change, even if it's not our month, !!!

Take care ladies xxx

Thanks chixs for your lovely comments, much appreciated. :redface: Congrats Melster, you must be over the moon everything looking fantastic for your wee one! :dance:

Wishing :pink-babydust: to all and loads of :BFP: for December! :angelic:

minnie.....congratulations on the o babe....i hope u can an eggie


thanks ladies.....sorry i have been a bit consumed...ill try and catch up on everyone

atm....still having a couple spots and a couple pains.......and am feeling pretty sick all day every day......i seriously could punch my husband....it is his fault but i seem to be really angry.....and really upset........every pain and every spot makes me wonder if this is it....i keep wondering if the baby is alive........u would think after the news i would be happy........but i am filled with fear..........hopefully things emotionally will settle soon.....i have a scan friday so now that will be as nerve racking as the last one.....

thanks girls,

i had positive opt for 2 days and has faded again today so im happy the signs seem to be there that i have ovulated (or about to), i will have a blood test next week to confirm, we have been busy dtd all week so we should be in with a chance :crossfingers:

who else is in the 2ww ? (im not sure if i am yet or not)

Melster: sorry you are still having blood and pain, i can imagine how that would be making you feel after having had 3 m/c myself, im sending you sticky vibes and hoping things settle down, it sounds like you need to have a big chat with dh and explain how stressful and upsetting this is to you, good luck at your next scan, i hope you see a bigger little bubba in there.

clairesmummy: do you think you have ovulated yet ? i need someone in the 2ww with me (well i hope to find out im in the 2ww)


we are going away tomorrow for a week so i will only have my phone to check in with you all, i hope everyone has a good week and there is another bfp for someone just around the corner

Minnie~ Great news that you are either O'ing or very close to O'ing hun. I'm now at CD28 and still no sign whatsoever that I have O'd.....:wall: I have very very very tender nipples atm and just feeling like crap generally. Think I'm just so over the waiting to O and I can't wait to see if the Clomid does the trick and makes me O. So sorry hun I don't think I'm in the 2WW with you. And if I was I am certainly not in the running for a BFP this cycle......lol.....
BBL for more persies going to watch a movie, Did You Hear About The Morgans with Hugh Grant in it. Hope it's as funny as the shorts of it looks....

Hi girls I am lurking around here just not much to say!
Melster - fx for you babe.
Minnie - yay for o, that egg has no chance of eluding those swimmers!
Clairesmummy - how annoying babe, I hope you have o'd and get a sneaky little BFP with those sensitive nipples!

Joeve~ Won't be any BFP for me this cycle cause apparently you have to DTD to get a BFP.....lol.....I just wish DF knew that....lol...I have already told him that he wanna get his act together for our Cloimd months as I don't wanna be wasting money on buying tablets if we aint gunne DTD......lol......I had sensitive nipples last month as well all the way through the last few weeks of my cycle up until just before AF arrived they just weren't this tender......had some very sharp pains in my lower abdomen tonight right about where my right ovary is maybe that's an O sign.....Don't know just grasping at straws feels like I am waiting forever again.

Melster I really hope the spotting stops, its not good having that, but hope your scan goes well on Friday!

minniemouse, I think I am now CD20... The past few days I've had lots of eggwhite/watery CM... so have no idea if I am O now, i aren't really tracking it cos i just want it to happen and not worry about if i am or not, but we have been DTD so Im sure if I have O we are in with a chance :)

Clairesmummy, So sorry things aren't going your way with DTD and your DF... I really hope things change for u real soon so your clomid can do its job and you guys can have a BFP real soon :)

Big hellos to everyone else :) lots of :bluedust: and :stickyvibesgirl:

AFM, our open home was very quiet, only 1 group came thru but they liked wat they saw, just aren't sure what they are after as still selling their own home... and checked out the place we liked but as much as the house is nice, the land is no good at all :( so back to the drawing boards...still wish we could do the big move to Bundaberg! but means DF has to get a new job
Pretty sure im on CD20.... and have been giving it a good shot this month!

Ok so first of all sorry for the all about me post girls, I will come back later and do some persies for you all. Righto so here goes nothing....lol...last night while posting I was sure I was never going to O again this cycle then looking at my charts I thought I may have on CD25 but them kept getting low temps every morning and FF was showing no O at all yet. Took my temp again this morning and I have gone from the last 2 morning being 36.2 up to 36.5 this morning and now FF is saying I did O on CD25 which is in fact the day after we DTD, so I guess I am now 4DPO and YES MINNIE I am in the 2WW with you hun. FX for you that you get your BFP we have only DTD once the night before I O'd so I don't think I am in with much of a chance this cycle ladies it has never happened before for me so I certainly have no high hopes about getting a BFP this month. But I guess stranger things have happened hey......
xox

Woohoo clairesmummy - we got a bfp last time by only doing the deed cycle day 10 so you could well be in the running this month - FX! You better whip DP into shape tho if there IS to be another cycle - not point taking the pills if you aint dtd. Hope this will be it for you though!!
Melster -FX for Friday lovey. Hope your emotions settle down also....
Mummydeb - sounds like O time is imminent - good luck!! Shame about the open house but it only takes one to fall in love with the house. Also bummer about the land at the house you were looking at. Hopefully something better will come along....
Joeve - good to see you popping in!!
Minniemouse - hope your 2WW flies by - sounds like you've got some company now!
MumtoRomone - hope your devil may care attitude works a treat for you this month!!
KF - hello to you also & anyone else I may have missed.
AFM.....cycle day 12 I think so O day should be anytime now.....
Anyway, bbl for more news!!

Hi everyone.
Minnie- I'm in the 2ww with you and Clairesmummy. Sun Dec 5th is testing day for me. Here's hoping. No symptoms here, though. *sigh*
Melster- I really really hope that the spotting/cramping stops soon. That's no fun at all, and living with the constant dread is just awful.

Even if I do get a BFP, I don't know that I'll be able to enjoy the pregnancy. I was crying into my pillow last night, thinking about Baby Elvis again. What brought this on? Buying a copy of Cosmopolitan Pregnancy. Why would I do something so stupid? Who knows... I think I might chuck the magazine out.

MummyDeb~ Sorry your Open house didn't go great for you hun but I agree with mummytotwo it only takes 1 person to make that sale good luck and happy house hunting.

Mummytotwo~ Hope that egg pops soon for you hun and you get your BFP, good luck and get to sizzling that sausage darl.....lol ;) And I guess it only does take 1 go to get that BFP I just haven't had any luck in the past but you never know hey.

Kirsten~ Sending you some massive hugs hun, and I think it's great that the 3 of us can share the 2WW together......Not sure what day I can test on my LP has been any where from 6-10days each cycle. So if I go by that I should be testing on 4th Dec. onwards but I'm pretty sure AF will be here this week sometime, so it will be CD5 I start my Clomid.

AFM~ Well as I said earlier FF has told me I O'd on CD25, usually have a LP of 6 days but last cycle it was 10 days so expecting AF by this week end at the latest. I was rudely awoken this morning with cramping at 4a.m and it wasn't like AF cramps either it was more like a sharp stabbing pain on both sides of my lower belly. So got up and went to the loo and relieved my bladder as I thought maybe it was cramping from an over full bladder but it never eased it at all. The cramps only lasted a few minutes then were gone again. Have no idea what the hang that was all about. Scared the hang out of me though.

Clairesmummy, Minnie, Mum2Ramone: good luck to you in the TWW. Hope you caught your eggies!
Joeve: sorry for BFN. Really sux when AF shows up.
Mathewsmum: hope you are well
Stoked: Congrats on the BFP!
Melster: i hope things settle down and no more scares for you
Hello Mummydeb, Mummytotwo,Sweetie and Kirsten, i've been AWOL for a while so we haven't 'met': Best of luck with your egg hunting!
Hi to anyone else i missed!

AFM: I've been posting mostly in the LTTTC thread now as it's been 18mths since we started trying for number two and its hard to keep up with two threads... but i should pop in here too as we are DTD to get pg whereas many of the LTTTC ladies are on IVF. I'm missing having good ole discussions about EWCM! I'm starting to get some- good description Clairesmummy!- and my hormones have kicked in so i feel like DTD and so we went for it last night even though it was probably too early to catch the egg (at least three days til 'O'). It's nice to do it just cos i feel like it sometimes; there's so many days when i don't because of AF, too tired etc.

Just a quick question to you girls who have had a DnC...did u get any slight pain about 2 and a bit weeks after having it? I have some lower pain in wat seems to be my uterus area... dunno if its ovulation pain...but its just starting to niggle at me...might have to call the doctor... dunno, its not like its crippling me but annoying enough to worry... thanks for any help :)

Possum~ hey hun nice to see you back in here again.....don't leave us here we miss you and you can only leave if you have your long awaited BFP.....lol....just kidding darl. 18months of TTC takes it toll hey, we have been trying to get our BFP now for 27months darl and as you know I'm still here.....lol.....They say all good things come to those who wait all the ladies that have to wait any longer than 12 months I reckon when we do get our BFPs we are all in for something extremely special....well I hope so anyhow darl. Any way darl it's so great to see you in here posting again I was starting to wonder where you went......might have to send out a search party if you go missing again....lol.....Hope you catch that egg darl and FX for you for an extra special BFP....oh and don't forget that the feeling of wanting to aahhhh ummmm have your way with your DH is a great sign you are fertile so get to it hun and catch that egg......Sending you lots of baby dust.

MummyDeb~ Sorry darl I can't help you at all about the D&C my MC was natural thankfully as I'm scared witless of anything to do with surgery......Hope somebody can give you some answers though.

Aww Deb, the horrible dnc :comfort: After mine I felt as had extra bleeding with period pain... So looking back at my cycle dates, I think I may of actually had my period?? :doh: So don't worry you should be able to try again soon. :)

How boring is AF????? That is all .....

Joeve~ AF is very boring.....are you going to start your clomid hun????

No to the clomid this month, was going to be too hard with the monitering etc so next month! Just as a side thing my FS told me no horse riding in the tww....

Are you serious.........no horse riding? OMG I haven't been told that yet......my gp told that as long as I don't over do anything and to keep doing what I do everyday......did yah FS say why no horse riding?

Hello Ladies!

Still Lurking... Can't wait to see some BFP's in here Verrrry soon... i can feel it!!!

xxx