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thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ November 2010

  1. #307
    Registered User

    Nov 2006
    675

    Alish - sorry to hear your story but welcome to our little thread. M/c & TTC after a m/c would be soooooo much worse without BB & people who get it. We get it. Hope your ttc from here is easy & happy.
    M2R - sorry to hear about you & DH. TTC, m/c it is all a big fat stress on our relationships & I'm not suprised things turn ugly sometimes. Hoping you can sort things out & get back on the same page real soon! Sorry to hear about the news from your gyno too. Hope the lumps are nothing to worry about & that your cervix/ pelvic floor muscles can be fixed. Big hugs to you. I noticed I lost breast tissue from the top part of my boob after b/f but am much the same size otherwise - oh the joys huh?
    CM - hope you are well & hoping af does NOT pay you a visit monday. How you feeling? Think you're expecting her huh? Good luck anyway...
    Sweetie - yay for FET. I too would love to know what this involves if you have the time or energy to explain
    MummyDeb - hi possum what is happening in your world?
    Joeve - hi - has af left the building yet?
    afm... think I am a couple of days past ovulation altho I didn't get a convincing opk but somtimes I think the surge is so fleeting we miss it. We gave it a good shot bd wise (days 10, 12,13 & 15) so what will be will be!
    Hi to anyone I've missed - hope all are doing ok xxxx

  2. #308
    BellyBelly Member

    Apr 2010
    PROSTON QLD.
    604

    Sweetie~ As Joeve has asked what is FET? Whatever it is I wish you all the best for Monday hun, good luck and let us know how you go.

    Joeve~ I can't believe how much it costs to buy a horse float these days it's unbelievable, I bought my float about 10 or more years ago now it was classed as a homemade float so no fancy stuff on it just straight load double float and I paid $3000 for it, it's a great float to tow and we have done many many miles with the old girl now.

    Mum2Romone~ Sounds like you are having a bit of a rough trot hun, hope things are getting better for you as I type. And those lumps are nothing to worry about, I have everything Xd for you hun.

    Melster~ How did your scan go darl? FX for all great news for you.

    AFM~ Today is 8DPO for me and I have 1 very sore and tender BB and the other nipple is also a little tender, keep getting sharp pains in my left BB and I think the wet weather is affecting my bladder as I am peeing alot today also. Feeling pretty good no sign of AF as yet, FX she may stay away how awesome would it be to able to tell our family at Xmas time I'm up the duff......here's hoping any way. Hope you all have a wonderful week end and stay safe.

  3. #309
    Registered User

    Aug 2010
    810

    hey ladies

    welcome alish.....

    Minnie..joeve....hope ur going well lovely ladies

    clairesmummmy....that would be fantastic....when u going to test

    mumtoromone......oh im so sorry darl....i wish there was something i could do for u...hang in there.....so were to from here...

    Mummytotwo....oh defiantly...i think we can blink and we have ovulated lol

    Hello to everyone else

    atm.....had my scan today and im measuring at seven weeks...since friday bubby has tripled in size and is now 9mm....and he saw a hb.....so now i have a scan at 10weeks.....poor girl before me wasnt so lucky....she started to cry and my heart broke for her.........he took ages before he said anything when he was doing the scan....i put my head down and shut my eyes and my mum told me to breath.....it was so scary

  4. #310
    BellyBelly Member

    Apr 2010
    PROSTON QLD.
    604

    Melster~ Great news darl, Woo Hoo. Thank you for letting us know, let's hope the next 229days go by smoothly for you, Sending you massive amounts of Sticky vibes. And that poor girl that went in before you that would of been horrible for you to see that especially after going through a loss yourself and being so scared of having another one. But awesome awesome news for you must of been a wonderful feeling to see and hear that HB.

  5. #311
    Registered User

    Jun 2007
    Mitcham, Vic
    168

    Hi Alish! Welcome to BB, I'm sorry it's not under better circumstances. This is an immensely supportive forum & thread to be in; when we say "I know what you feel", we mean it. I am very sorry for your losses.

    Mum2Romone- very sorry to hear about the troubles with your DH. TTC can be so stressful at the best of times, adding in Christmas and the grief from your miscarriage, and it's just awful. And the doctor visit doesn't sound all that good! I do hope the lumps are nothing to worry about. (although- I was a D cup before breastfeeding, went up to an E for two years and am now at DD, so don't think I lost all my breast tissue!)

    Sweetie- good news indeed! Sending you good thoughts for all to go well. (correct me if I'm wrong- FET= Frozen Embryo Transfer?)

    ClairesMummy- did you get out the driveway? Hope all's well!

    Mel- good news on the scan, yay!

    I think I've missed a few; apologies. I'm thinking of you all.
    My news- no point testing, AF arrived. 27 day cycle.
    BUGGER BUGGER BUGGER

  6. #312
    BellyBelly Member

    Apr 2010
    PROSTON QLD.
    604

    Melster~ I forgot to mention I have no plans at all to POAS any time soon, I'm thinking for sure if I plan to test AF will arrive the day after or the day before.

    KirstenF~ I did get out our driveway......JUST and in a sideways type of motion doing 5klms an hour only no faster but could of been slower I was only just moving and my poor car was totally sideways in one spot and getting way to close to the fence posts down the driveway.......lol.....but I got us to town in 1 peice and DD and I had a ball at the Zoo today. It was awesome to see the look on her face with all the animals she seen all the kids loved it.

  7. #313
    Registered User

    Jun 2010
    Brisbane
    56

    Hey everybody! Yep that's right, FET is the Frozen Embryo Transfer. I am booked in for 12.30pm on Monday. First time round with one of the frosties... Basically, had scan last week to check follicles, then blood tests to check LH surge, and then on Sunday/Monday the thawing process will begain, one by one. So if first doesn't survive the defrost the scientist will go the next. I'm only having the one embryo transfer. After the deed is done, I'm just gonna head home and relax!

  8. #314
    BellyBelly Member

    Apr 2010
    PROSTON QLD.
    604

    Sweetie~ Thank you for letting us know what FET......I could get the embryo transfer but for the life of me I could not work out what the F was for........sad yes I know......lol......but thanks for filling me in on that one darl. I have my FX everything goes great for you on Monday darl. Best of luck darl and hoping to read your BFP in the coming weeks.

  9. #315
    Registered User

    Jun 2010
    Brisbane
    56

    Thank you Clairesmummy! It just so stange as there are no drugs involved this time around. So kinda of natural?!?

  10. #316
    BellyBelly Member

    Apr 2010
    PROSTON QLD.
    604

    I'm praying for you that all goes great and you get your BFP hun.
    AFM~ Well I just wanted to get it out there and get it off my mind I'm trying not to get my hopes up at all as AF will probably arrive over the week end Monday at the latest. But my BBs are so sore and feel really heavy and full tonight alot like when I was BF and DD was due to have a feed, I keep getting like stabbing pains in the side of both of them now......what could this be about, they are usually tender before AF but not as sore as they are now.
    Minnie~ How are you going hope AF is staying away from you?

  11. #317
    Registered User

    Jun 2010
    Brisbane
    56

    Red face

    Right back at ya! I'm praying AF stays away for you coz sounds like you some good signs there! Sending loadz of babydust your way!!

  12. #318
    Registered User

    Nov 2009
    In Paradise
    2,022

    I think it may be our month

    I dont feel like AF is coming
    No PMS
    or backaches yet

    But my boobs are itchy (hope they bloody grow )

  13. #319
    Registered User

    Jun 2010
    Brisbane
    56

    Loadz of babydust to you MumtoRomone!

  14. #320
    Registered User

    Oct 2006
    In a house, on a hill with a big fat welcome mat!
    6,772

    mum2romone - get to POAS! I am busting to know
    Hello everyone else no time for persies I am exhausted!

  15. #321
    Registered User

    Oct 2009
    1,089

    Hi girls, quick one from me

    clairesmummy those signs sound promIsing !

    Mum2romone fingers crossed for u !

    Sweetie good luck Monday :-)

    melster great to hear your good news

    hi to new girls

    I'm on my phone using maccas wifi lol

    I had a progesterone blood test this morning, will get result mon, if I ovulated not sure whether it was sat sun or mon so don't know when af due (day 29 today), I'll try holding off testing until well into next week if I get it confirmed i ovulated

    hi to everyone I haven't mentioned !

  16. #322
    BellyBelly Member

    Apr 2010
    PROSTON QLD.
    604

    Sweetie~ Thanks hun, means alot to me.

    Mum2Romone~ Hoping AF stays away for you good luck and when are you going to POAS?

    Minnie~ Hope your BT results come back showing you O'd and you get your BFP darl, good luck.

    Mummytotwo~ Good luck with catching that egg of yours darl, sending you some lucky baby dust.

    AFM~ 9DPO today for me and CD34 AF could raise her head at any time from here on, my BBs are still very engorged and very very sore, DD gave me a cuddle this morning and I nearly fell off the chair in pain from her putting her head on one of them. It's raining here still so we are stuck in the house all week end as it would seem, I'm so over all this wet weather......It's driving me insane being house bound. I need sunshine and out doors to survive.

  17. #323
    Registered User

    Nov 2009
    In Paradise
    2,022

    Hahahah When should I start ? I have heaps of tests and im alone til tuesday which is when AF is due !! I haven o signs of my period coming ...none

    and i even felt a little sick late last night, which is when i usually get my morning sickness

  18. #324
    Registered User

    Nov 2006
    675

    Some very promising signs in here I do believe - I think this is going to be a totally AWESOME month for many of us (hoping, praying...). Good luck to the girls who are close....
    CM - hope af stays well away from you - sore boobies sounds extremely promising!!
    M2R - good signs for you too.
    Pls, pls, PLS when are you ladies going to POAS? I am living vicarously through you so am getting a bit excited.
    Just a quickie today - hi to everyone else bbl for persies although am heading down the coast (sth coast of nsw for 3 nights) so might be a bit quiet until Wed or so. Praying for awesome news when I next check in xxxx

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