thread: Trying To Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ October 2006 #3

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  1. #1
    BellyBelly Member

    Jan 2006
    Melb, Vic
    1,212

    Hello gals,

    Jess – I am so sorry that you have been through the loss of 3 angels. Please know that we are here to support you and share all the ups and downs of ttc after miscarriage / loss. I hope your stay with us is short and sweet and you get to graduate to PAML very soon.

    Shan…mmmmm… lasagne! That makes me hungry. Is it raining your way today? Its so dark and grey in Melb today. So missy are you seeing a FS or NP to help with your long cycles?? I hope this is the cycle for you – nothing would make me happier than to see you hop over to PAML. Ill be keeping my fingers crossed for you sweety.

    Megan – im sure those pains are normal and you have nothing to worry about. They might do some bloodwork today as its probably a bit early for an u/s. So long as there is no bleeding, I think its just your body adjusting and getting everything into position so you can grow that little bean of yours. Sending loads of sticky vibes your way. Please let us know how the dr appt goes.

    Missy – its so tempting to test early isn’t it?? Well im actually due for af mid next week, but I think if it doesn’t show then I will test on the weekend (if I can be that strong). I will only test if I have full on symptoms such as my bbs growing into big mammas or I start chucking. Ooooh I hope that by the end of next week a heap of us will be announcing bfps.

    Kez – how is the tww going hun??
    Hope – how is the tww for you?

    Maybe we should do a mass test next week – all at once!

    Tanya – where are you sweets? I hope your getting loads of bd in and that’s why you haven’t posted!

    Where are the rest of the gals??

    Me – had massive heartburn last night, but nothing today so I wont be surprised if af does show her face…grrr… but I had a weird dream last night – me and my MIL were shopping for evening gowns and then all of a sudden there were all these gorgeous baby clothes and she picked up blue and I picked up pink, and then I told her I didn’t want to buy specific colours as I don’t know the baby is going to be. Very strange but I hope it’s a sign of things to come.

    Oh and Im not going away next week after all, ive got the week off work but will be at home so you gals don’t have to wait for me to get back to announce my hpt results!

    Hope you all have a great day,
    Lisa

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Sep 2006
    1,223

    Hi

    LisaL How are you? I've been keeping a fairly low profile the last few days as I have been feeling a bit down as it was my #2 angels edd on Tuesday. I'm feeling a bit better today though. Not much has been happening with me, just waiting to have b/t next wednesday and back to gyn/ob on the 20th. I'm not too sure if I'm in the tww yet or not as I don't know when or if I o'd. I will have to wait until Friday next week to get results of b/t so I'll know for sure then.
    I have my fingers crossed for you. Things sound possitive on your part.I hope you get the bfp that you deserve soon.

    Jessikah I am so sorry about your losses. I hope you get a bfp really soon.

    Tanya How's the boy diet going? I hope you are ok. I haven't seen you around for a while.

    Megan How are you? has the bfp news sunk in yet? I'm sooooo happy for you.

    I'm sending loads of to everyone here. I think we need it.

    Hi to everyone I've missed. Hope you are all doing ok.

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Aug 2006
    NSW
    168

    Testing en masse

    Lisa (Missy and Kez)-- a mass test sounds good!? Nice to think that others are going through the same spectrum of emotions at the same time!! I have no indicators that I may be UTD but I"m only 5DPO. AF is due for me on Thursday (I think) so I could probably do Wed or Thur morning. I would so love this to be my month as I turn 30 very shortly (or rather twenty-ten, as I like to call it). BUT if it is not to be then lock up your liquor as I'll be able to party hard to celebrate!! I've decided that this next year is MY year, especially after the crap one I had this year- so as a result I'm not too depressed about "dirty thirty"!

  4. #4
    BellyBelly Member

    Jan 2006
    Melb, Vic
    1,212

    Oh Mako – I am so sorry we didn’t know about Tuesday. I hope you had a special day and did something nice to remember your little angel. I was a total mess when the edd of my first angel came around. We released a balloon with a special poem written on it. I found that ttc after that has been much more relaxed. Sending you special hugs my sweet. Hopefully you get some answers from the bt’s.

    Hope – your so funny! I really hope that we all have bfp’s before xmas, and I should be right to test wed or thurs next week (although I don’t know when I O’d). One of my bf’s was planning to have a big “dirty thirty” party and after two years of ttc she gave up and was planning other things. Well she got pg and instead of having a dirty thirty – she had a little bundle of joy just before her 30th and the only thing dirty at her party was the baby’s nappies :eek: I hope you get the bfp before the big twenty ten!

    Wishing you gals a fab Thurday.

    Lisa

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Jan 2004
    brisbane
    654

    Thanks everyone for yoour supportive words!

    I do have a question for you all:-)
    Usually I would wait a cycle before attempting to ttc again but am now wondering how many of you have actually started to ttc right away?
    And was it a successful pregnancy?

    Just curious thats all. I'm getting really impatient I s'pose!

    Megan a huge congrats to you I'm sending loads of sticky vibes your way!

    Lisa Im hoping that you get that BFP this mth too :-)

    Mako- It is hard when our angels EDD comes around, and Im glad you are feeling better now as the days roll on, we all share your tears.

    Jessikah - Sorry to see that you are here we all have the same thing in common unfortunately so you'll get loads of support. I know exactly what you mean by not knowing what to expect next time around:-(
    Sadly Im usually in the expecting mode now which is really horrible. Each time I get the BFP Im happy but worried about what might come

    We just need to keep each other v.positive!