Thanks for your replies re: when to ttc again.

If I had been further along there is no doubt I would've waited out a cycle but being that it was a v. early mc with no D&C needed thought that we should be okay to start right away. I feel more confident about it now though:-)

Lisa- thanks for that! I did work it out :-) Sept really sticks out as being unlucky for us doesn't it! Not a good mth at all. My father passed away in that month too and we were very close. It was such a horrible time and the year preceding it!

Its hard to lose someone you love including an unborn child...

Sorry everyone I'll come back later when I'm feeling a little better I think!