thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ October 2006

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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Jan 2006
    Sydney
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    Thanks Lisa - and moooo to you toooo

    Although I currently have *issues* with the universe .... but that is another story

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    BellyBelly Member

    Jan 2006
    Melb, Vic
    1,212

    Sometimes you have to believe...even when there is nothing to believe in anymore. Never give up that tiny glimmer of hope as it can turn into a bright spark that will light up your life forever.

    sweet dreams,
    Lisa

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    goldilocks Guest

    Lisa my love, I was hoping to come back after the long weekend to read some wonderful news...this was the very last thing I expected. I am so so so very sorry for you, sweetheart. My heart is breaking for you right now You are an incredibly brave and strong woman. The way you're handling this just blows me away. You're such an inspiration! If I were only an ounce of the person that you are, I'd be happy. Please take the time to heal and make sure you look after that wonderful husband of yours, he's lost a baby too. I just cannot believe how cruel life can be...you are so deserving...

    Sorry ladies, I'm a little sad and shocked right now. I'll try and come back later for personals...

    Love
    Belle
    -xxxooo-

  4. #4
    Megan76 Guest

    OK, I am sitting here at work with tears in my eyes, especially with the words you said about our nan's Lisa. I can't believe what we have to go through TTC.....was so niave before i started this journey.

    Got up this morning and did another test - BFN - and had some brown spotting (TMI?) so i think af has won. Bit more disappointed than i thought i would be even though i hadn't been trying. Will actually be pretty concerned now if blood test came back positive due to the spotting and the low HCG levels.

    AHHHHHH!

  5. #5
    Miss Kitten Guest

    Morning all,

    Gosh, an October thread already...where did last month go???

    Lisa, I'm so very very sorry...I wish there was something I could do to take your pain away...but knowing that we are all here for you, I hope, will lessen it in some ways. Take care of yourself babe... *mwah*

    As for me, well AF did show. On friday there was some pink staining and I thought "hello, what could this be?" b/c I've never had that before....and on Saturday well, AF showed and I have been in the worst pain since Saturday. Today isn't too bad but I could barely move on Sunday and yesterday...hopefully the bod is having a spring clean in preparation for ov....But I swear...45 days this cycle...what a nightmare...thought it would never come. So onwards and upwards from here...

    Sorry for the lack of personals, I've got to rush, I have some seminars to prepare for...

    Much luve & hugs,

    Kate x.

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Jul 2006
    Melbourne
    3,715

    Good morning lovely ladies,

    Sometimes you have to believe...even when there is nothing to believe in anymore. Never give up that tiny glimmer of hope as it can turn into a bright spark that will light up your life forever.
    Lisa, that is beautiful! And so true. I'm sure this is a difficult week for you, but it's good to hear you sounding so positive. I'm glad that you're getting straight back into ttc again, I know it won't be long for you. Are you working this week, or taking it easy? Good luck for tomorrow with your Ob.

    Belle, so glad to see that you are okay! I hope you had a fab weekend, can't wait to see how this cycle pans out for you........any *symptoms* yet? Will you test on Friday, or wait? Totally understand you leaving off personals, I think we all did the same, it's very upsetting news

    Kate, so sorry that af is being soooo nasty. I think you are right, it's a big spring clean to get you ready for this cycle. 45 days is not nice at all! Where did September go.......?

    Megan, I'm so sorry to hear about your nan. And af. You are not having a good week are you sweetie? Big for you. Do you get your results today? Make sure you post them for us! Good luck hun

    Paige, WHAT IS GOING ON? Don't want to get you too excited, but i had nasty af-type cramps from about 6DPO (you can double-check on my chart if you like). Any other signs?

    Naomi, how are things going for you? Has it sunk in yet?

    Michelle, so sorry about your shopping expedition. Those bloody mirrors, I hate them LOL!!!! And don't get me started on the sizing LOL! I'd say don't be depressed about it, but I know that won't help. We will all be here for you on the weekend. I have everything crossed for you......

    Jools, where are you at in your cycle? And who is your OB?

    Amy, good luck with everything. BTW am I remembering rightly that your SIL was having a lot of trouble ttc, and that your were going to wait for them to '"catch up"?

    Okay, I've fully lost track of where I'm at now........should go and hang the washing out anyway. Have a great day, MMMOOOOOOOOOO to you all!

    BBL, love Sez xoxo

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Aug 2006
    NSW
    168

    Have a fab few days girlies. I'm off on a little holiday with DH and the wonderdog! Don't know how I'll cope without my BB updates?! I hope to log back on in a few days and see good news from you all-- we are all due for some! I think I may've missed O days this cycle so not holding out too much hope for us this time around. We just had too much going on with the long weekend (not too mention too many people coming and going from our house at all hours of the day and night).
    Take care-- Catch up with you all soon.

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    Registered User

    Jul 2006
    Melbourne
    3,715

    Hope, I knew I wanted to say something to you.....I'm using my pg-addled brain as my excuse! I checked out your chart earlier, looks like no coverline for you this cycle, but I didn't get one either and I ended up pg, so I obviously ovulated! Did you DTD around O time at all? I hope you see this before you head off on your trip. Hope you have a great time, look forward to catching up when you get back!

  9. #9
    BellyBelly Member

    Jan 2006
    Melb, Vic
    1,212

    Hello all,

    Oh you gals are so wonderful, thank you so much I am very moved at how much you gals care, its so wonderful to have you all in my life. I hope that one day in a few years when we all have little tots we can have a big ttc reunion and look back at all the good and bad times and smile because we did this together.

    You gals rock my world.

    Sez - hey love - im at home this week but working from home, as ive got a very impt brief to prepare and project to finish by the end of the week (damn election time :mad: )

    Hope - have a great time sweety, as Sez the serial chart stalker says, you may just have gotten that eggy.

    Kate - oh hun im so sorry af showed her ugly mug Lets hope the new cycle brings wonderful things.

    Belle - you are so sweet, thank you and im sorry if my news has got you down, but its all part the ttc journey and dont let it get you down hun, look at all the wonderful healthy bfp's we have had in this thread. We will get there too sweety.

    Michelle - tell me what you dreamt of? Im hoping you were in a paddock full of cows and diamonds

    Oh Megan - what time do you get your results? Pls let us know how it all goes. I know how you feel though. Sending you loads of .

    A big hello to everyone else,

    and Danni if you are stalking this thread - hello! I feel so much better, and thank you for all of your concern too. I cant believe you are 10wks already! whooo hooo.

    Shellstar - hey matey (i read your post in the other thread to me), thanks hun, and OMG at you being 10wks already. Your catching up to Jayne!

    Hope you all have a great day - bbl for some more

    Lisa
    XX

  10. #10
    Megan76 Guest

    Thanks all for thinking of me....not sure when i will hear from obst. don't think she will be in till this afternoon and its killing me even though i really already know the answer...still have a few questions though!

    Lisa my story is starting to sound spookily like yours.........hope you are going ok!