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Hi girlies!! Just popped in to say hi. Miss you all. Hope you are all UTD soon. All is well with me. Booked in for an U/S in 3 weeks. All is well. Take care.
Mummy of 3 - I kind of knew each month whether I was UTD or not. I just had a 'feeling'. Have you been POAS? Perhaps you should be, then if you are MCing early, you might be able to get some help and hopefully in no time you will be carrying a little bubba in your belly. Take care.
Ready everyone .... catch :pink-babydust::bluedust::pink-babydust::bluedust::pink-babydust::bluedust::pink-babydust::bluedust:
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It's fine, I like people who are blunt. I don't see those Drs anymore, havne't for a while. That's how it was though when I did see them. Thanks for replying. Better get off the comp now, hubby is feeling a bit neglected.. but it's just so good to be able to talk openly to people who understand!
YOU LADIES ARE AWESOME!!!!!!!
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:ROFL: Neglected Hubbies....Hmmmmmm I would think that most of the ladies in here have hubbies/partners that feel that maybe we spend to much time in here......My hubbie... love him..... sits there at night time when i m in the chatroom with Jen Jen, Krystie or BB..sits there saying.... are you nearly finished...can we go home now...and he sits there playing his computer game while we sit ther nattering about all sorts of silly stuff.... He has learnt though... now he asks me whats happening... he knows everyone.... and wants to know what everyone is up to... so each time i m lauging i have to tell him whats happened and what I m laughing at...... UNLESS of course its secret squirral stuff... then he just gets a blank look of me and a Don No:rolleyes:
So tell Hubby.... welcome welcome welcome..... if its anything...he will be happy with how much better you feel by being able to 'dump' all the crap with people who understand. I know my hubby is greatful for this site... it gave me back my sanity and made me human again faster than without it.... now that put a smile on his face.
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Angel's right! Get the hubby involved :ROFL: My poor hubby has to sit there wondering why I'm giggling insanely to myself some nights when I'm in the chat room!
Sorry you've had to join this thread MummyOf3Boys. You've definitely found a wonderful place though. I don't know how I would have coped if it weren't for the amazing ladies in here. Not only did they help me get through my darkest days, but I've also formed some true friendships that I cherish :)
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Hi to all of my wonderful friends, old & new, in TTCAML. I actually had a huge post typed out the other night (with personals & all) but I lost it. :computer:
I just wanted to pop in & say hi and spread some :pink-babydust::bluedust: and give you all a big big :hug:
Nickster - it was fab to see you in here & thanks for the update. Wow - you are getting so close now.
Am always thinking of you all. Hope to see some more BFP's very soon! ! !
I'm doing well - getting lots of nice little kicks which is lovely (and very reassuring).
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AJC... always great to see you pop in..... maybe there should be a thread halfway between TTC and PAML.... somewhere halfway in the middle where everyone can hang for as long as they want... .maybe even add in Parenting AML... ohhh what the heck.. add in another one... Was TTC but quit... but dont want to go anywhere and miss everyone .....lol... leave my name on the list for that one... its pretty much how I feel every month....:lol:
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Good Friday morning gurlies!
mollycat...I'm thinking of you too...thanks for sending the smiles disguised as emails! Congrats on 17 years...what a wonderful accomplishment! I am so sorry about your family friend...so tragic. I have been having massive headaches...for me it's stress I'm sure. Take care.
Issy...LOL...for some crazy reason yesterday early menopause creeped into my mind...my cycles are regular but for some reason...I've been thinking it...
jen...I am sooooooo hoping for you to get a :bfp:
Angel...gosh...I cried reading your post...I know all to well about the ugly cry...I support your decision for Monday 100% good choice!
Adele...retreat sounds awesome...I am envious! Enjoy...relax...heal
jenushka...*wavin*
larz...I hope you feel better soon...bubs will be worth every second of sickness
AJC...thanks for the update...we miss you gurly!
:pink-babydust::bluedust:
:stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy:
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Where is everyone today? JEEEEEEEEEEENNNNNNN!!!!
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I know, I know, I've always posted by now.... I've just been so busy all morning! Just got back from running errands, and now have to go to work at the school, after that it's book fair! So glad it's Friday! :dance: Will have to do all my persies this afternoon when I get home, sorry girls!
smi--Happy Friday! :woot: Hope things are looking up for you and you're feeling a little better! :hug: Hope you have a great weekend!
:groupgug: for the Fantastic 4! Love you all! *kiss*
Oh, mollycat--I got your e-mails, just haven't had time to respond.... thanks for sending them! I'm truly very sorry about your friend! :hug: Will get back to you later, as well!
:hello: and hugs for everyone! :pink-babydust: :bluedust: :stickyvibesgirl:
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Better post in the bottem.. lol.. I did an opps post
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Jenuska-:hello: How are you darling? Hopefully well or hanging in there. What you got planned for weekend? I find it odd that it shows up in urine and not BT either. But, I found out more about why it could be..I will post that in my ATM part..
Mumof3-:hug: I hope you are this month darling! Sorry that sometimes people say things that are not so nice or kind to hear expechally when were trying so hard! I really wish you luck. You and your fam are in my prayers for a BFP soon.
Angel-Your so funny sometimes its good to be blunt sometimes. Though when I am sometimes I'm a little too blunt! :rofl:. How are you? Ready for the weekend hunny?
Joey-:hug: :hello: Glad to see you popped on! I cannot wait to hear how your U/s goes! Hopefully very well! Lots of prayers darling!..
Krystielove-:hello: OMG! 5 weeks already! :-O Wow time goes by fast really does! I'm so happy for you. Glad to see you on. How are you feeling darling?
AJ-:hug: Hey darling, Glad to see you on. OMG sorry you lost your post. I have done that a few times and it is so frusterating!.. How are you doing?
ATM-I called to get another BT test done today & I asked well is there a number or just below 5. She said well since its below 5 and that means not pregnant than we don't have numbers just says below 5. I told her I said well, I guess then my BT could be sitting at number 4 if all we know because I'm still getting positives. She said yep, She goes someone told you wrong it doesn't mean your HCG is at 0. Cuz I got a differant nurse today. So, No wonder why I was still getting positives. I know a few girls that got Positives on the First Repsnoe and only had a number of 2 HCG in there body. But, Today I did get another BLZAING positive so Its way darker than the days before and the day of my BT or equal too it. They got faint after awhaile and then jumped up today again!.. So, I called back when I came home and tested with Urine after I got my Bloods drawn(Progesterone & HCG) and said can I please get progesterone supps? She said no because we don't know if your pregnant or not since your Bloods on tuesday was negitive. I said to her that I tried to bring my HPTS from home but the nurse that gave the OK to get my bloods taken told me not too. She goes yep because it could be someone elses pee sticfk!!! WTHF!?? I cannot belive they said that. So I have to wait till monday to get my Blood results back and progesterone supplements hopeuflly. I'm so scared right now. That I might loos this baby again.
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Oh Babyfever - that SUCKS, I cannot believe you have to wait so long with such worry. I hope all is well honey and am praying for you :hug:
Smilanatu - thanks I am so looking forward to it - I love the thought of waltzing around in a fluffy robe for a few days!
Mummy of 3 - people say ridiculous things don't they - I hope you have the right doctors now.
AJC - I just love hearing about babies kicking!
AFM - I had my first counselling session and it was fantastic. I cried and talked and felt wonderful afterwards. Yesterday I took 2 dozen cupcakes to all the staff at Mater in Brisbane who looked after me. It felt so good!
Hugs to you all
Adele
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Hey Angel, I do believe that there IS actually something of an in-between.... isn't that what the social groups are all about? :think: Some members get together and make a group... others have to request to join... I think that's how it works. Will have to poke around the site and try to find out some info on it.
Yay for a sickie day on Monday! :dance: So you heard the boss can be a grumpy cow, huh? That's funny, I heard she was the funniest, sweetest, smart arsiest, most generous and dedicated person you could hope to meet! Not to mention very loyal to her friends! ;) That's just what I heard.....
I just have to give your DH props, as well.... it's true, he's so sweet to hang out AT WORK of all places just so we can chat! Yay, Mr. Angel! :clap:
One more thing.... secret squirrel.... :rofl:
Sorry, I lied, one more thing.... :pink-babydust: :bluedust: hugs and *kiss*
Ok, so I've used up all my smilies..... this completes my "Angel" post! Will finish persies on next pg!
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jenushka--Woo hoo! for O time! :dance: Have you got your BD'ing shoes on??? :bd: Glad to hear you had a safe trip, although I'm sure it was an emotional one. Big :hug:
mummyO3B--:welcome: I'm so sorry for the many losses you've had to endure :hug: 4's been pretty rough on me, I couldn't imagine 8! You're definitely not alone in your thinking! It's amazing how deceiving our body's become after a m/c.... it can drive you crazy!
My DF has adjusted quite well to my time here.... I'm sure that once your DH realizes how you can vent and unload on us, instead of him, he'll see the value in our support system! :lol: Truthfully, my DF would rather not be reminded of sad, painful times, it's easier for him to "not think about it" so he doesn't "dwell" on it.... men don't do sympathy and empathy as well as women do! So in saying that, please feel free anytime to vent, cry, scream, yell, complain, whatever you need to do.... it's what we all do/have done many times--and that's what we're here for!
:hello: AJC!!! Thanks for stopping in! Sending lots of :bellyrubs:
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dellydoo--So glad to hear you enjoyed your counseling! I know you weren't sure how it would help, so it's great to hear you say it was fantastic!! I hope it helps! :hug:
Sorry, have to finish dinner real quick.... DF just got home from work.... will have to finish persies in a bit! :grouphug:
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:ROFL: .... ohhh Jen Jen you sooooo Crack me up.... here I am... back at work... in my office... everyone downstairs thinks i m working..:lol: ... quickly catching up on post (im mean after all.. it has been whole night since i read them)... and i m reading yours and just laughing... then trying to be quiet incase the staff hear me laughing and wonder what I m doing.... so i m doing those little sniggle laughs....:lol: now as for what you heard about my boss..... Shhhhhh I have a reputation to protect :doh:
Ohhh and by the way... the "social group" sounds FANTASTIC...... FABULOUS....
As for Mr Angel.. i woke him up to take him home and he turned into a gruble bum..... then when we got home he stayed downstairs and then when he came to bed he was all sweet again.... bloody hell.. talk about pre menstral :wall:
Its about a 70/30 split at the moment.... 70% love love love......30% needs a good slappin ..... see now he just calls me in the office from downstairs all sweet again... i tell you what.. he s going to do my head in:woman:
Babyfever... Blunt is something i never used to be..... its one of the traits i have picked up since loosing my little angels...... where i used to have all the time in the world... bent over backwards always.... i would be blunt in my head but never directly..... now my world has changed... and i just dont have time for people who make things difficult or pi$$ me off. Tell you what... it saves a heck of a lot of time..;) As for your tests.... just run with it hun.... keep POAS... collect them if you want... make a wall collage out of them ....LOL..... but dont let DRs and Nurses get you down... they aint worth it
SMI..... we were in chat hun... you didnt come in :(
FAB FAB FAB FAB 4
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Hi ladies,
Babyfever I'm sorry the nurses have been so inconsiderate. I hope your levels have jumped up dramatically and you can prove them wrong :goodluck2:
Jen When you gona POAS???? I have been waiting, must be soon right? Does it feel like AF is coming if so :whip: get back. I have my fingerscrossed.
Dellydoo Glad to hear your counseling session went well and that you felt better afterwards. I hope you can start seeing the light at then end of the tunnel again soon :hug:
Angel baby I hear you about your DH he must be on the same menstrual cycle as my DH cause my DH was such a grumpy bum last night and today. I will just try and keep my space until he chills out.
Jenushka Have fun baby dancing hope the :sperm: & egg meet up.
Mum of 3 :welcome: I am sorry for you losses you will feel at home here as we all understand what you are going through. I'm sorry you had to experience the heart ache and the emotional roller coaster of a m/c but it does get easier.
Kristy & Joey :bellyrubs:Glad to see your both doing well and still dropping in and checking up on everyone you give us hope that our dreams are possible.
AFM DH got his :sperm: back yesterday and his DNA fragmentation has decreased from >30 to only 9% :dance: I couldn't believe it. I was walking around work all day with this cheesy grin. Hopefully this means that our problems have been fixed and we get a sticky BFP.
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Tam - that is great news about your DH's sperm DNA fragmentation ...what a big improvement! I know you did mention that your FS had got him to take a supplement ... is that right? Was it menevit? Although I'd never say anything to dh I have a sneaking suspicion that if he were ever tested it may have shown something similar ... would be interested to know what your dh is taking... :crossfingers: for a sticky bean for you next time round :)
dellydoo - how wonderful of you to do cupcakes for the staff at the mater that had looked after you... I have always been well-looked after there (When I had ds, and also the 2 d&c's this year after my miscarriages). I'm sure they don't get thank you's like that as often as they deserve. Would love to know where you went for your counselling as I'm probably not too far from you and have been trying to find a good counsellor close by.
babyfever - thank you, I'm doing well, and just have a quiet weekend planned ... sounds like your situation is still as confusing as ever - poor thing! I bet your latest bt comes back a lovely shiny bfp and then we can all celebrate!!
smi - :hello: back!
jen - how's it going there chicky? What else is news in Jen-Land? I saw a segment on Napa Valley on a travel show last night and wondered how far that is from you... looked so beautiful it made me get up and pour myself a lovely glass of wine! Take care, hope you're well - thinking of you
AFM - temp behaving normally again, and got a neg on my opk this morning. I know morning isn't the best time to test so I'll try again at about 3-ish this arvo. Will prob bd anyway just in case
Just looked at the calendar and realised that my m/c follow-up ob appt is 6 days away - that's when we'll get the results from the last m/c. I know from last time it's going to be a tough day, stirring up all the sadness again, but am hoping we get some answers this time too. Not sure if dh can come as he has only just started his new job, but I know if he can't, then I'll have all of you in there with me too (and certainly not going to put up with any crap, like "it was just bad luck" ...uh-uh, try again ob-lady ;)
Very hungry, off to rustle up some lunch ....
*mwah!*
xx
